A man accidentally refers to his stepchildren as his own, causing tension in the family. His wife had asked him to correct the children when they called him “dad,” but he forgot. When a teacher asked if he was their father, he said yes, causing his wife to correct him in front of the children.
Now, the children are calling him “dad” deliberately in front of their mother, causing more tension. The stepdad feels guilty for causing the tension and wonders if he’s in the wrong in this situation . Read on to find out what the Reddit thinks.
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Stepdad vs. Real Dad: A battle for love and respect
A stepfather’s innocent mistake causes tension at home. After forgetting to correct the label of “dad” given by his step-son’s piano teacher, the mother is upset as it goes against a previous agreement. The kids now call him “dad” on purpose and are distant with their real mother. The stepfather feels guilty for the unexpected outcome and wonders if he is to blame.
Reddit users weigh in on who’s at fault, while the stepfather confronts the mother about her problematic relationship with her ex-husband. Read on to see what happens next in this situation .
Stepdad receives support for being a good parent figure

Stepdad defends his love for stepchildren in face of criticism

Stepdad rightfully called dad by stepchildren, wife should be grateful

Stepdad referred to as dad by stepchildren, commenters support him. ❤️

Stepdad’s love for stepchildren causes tension with wife

Stepdad embraces role as ‘Dad’ to stepchildren, wife upset

Stepdad’s not the a-hole for being called Dad; wife’s insecurity.

Stepdad gets validation for treating stepkids as his own ❤️

Stepdad chooses not to correct kids but wife still upset

Stepdad not in the wrong for letting stepkids call him dad.

Stepdad embraced by sons, wife struggles to accept – NTA

Stepdad rightfully upset over wife’s issue with him loving stepchildren ❤️

Stepdad bonds with stepkids, wife upset. NTA, be there for kids ❤️

Stepdad considers adopting stepchildren after wife’s unrealistic expectations.

Stepdad is NTA for calling stepchildren his kids.

Stepdad’s love for stepchildren sparks family conflict ❤️

Stepdad navigates potential family drama in blended household

Stepdad wins hearts but not wife’s approval ❤️

Stepdad embraces role, upset wife deprives kids of connection

Stepdad supports kids, wife upset – NTA

Respect the kids’ choice and sit down with your wife.

Love is not a competition! Let the kids choose. NTA

Stepdad’s love for stepchildren causes disagreement with wife ❤️

Stepdad praised for being recognized as a father by stepkids

Stepdad rightfully called dad by stepkids, wife needs to listen

Stepdad embraces stepchildren, wife causes tension.

Stepdad defends himself against wife’s insecurities. ♂️

Stepdad earns stepkids’ love, but wife’s resentment. NTA.
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Stepdad dilemma: NTA for wanting to be called dad. Kids’ feelings matter.

Stepdad’s love for stepchildren causes conflict with wife. NTA.

Stepdad lets kids decide what to call him, wife upset. NTA

Let the kids decide what to call you! #NTA

Stepdad is a dad to his stepchildren, NTA for accepting it

Two dads are better than one! #NTA

Stepdad rightfully claims his role but upsets wife.

Being a dad vs. being a father: Stepdad earns respect

Stepdad’s dilemma: NTA or NAH for calling stepchildren his kids?

Stepdad and wife disagree on how to handle stepchildren’s behavior

Stepdad defends stepchildren and calls out wife’s behavior. NTA.

Stepdad receives support for being called dad by stepchildren ❤️

Let the kids decide who to call dad ❤️ NTA

Respectful stepdad lets kids choose whether to call him dad.

Being a stepdad doesn’t diminish the role of a bio dad

Stepdad’s love for his stepchildren is beautiful and valid.

Stepdad is NTA for letting stepchildren call him dad. Wife’s issue?

Stepdad’s bond with stepchildren causes tension with wife ❤️

Being a father isn’t just about biology.

Let’s talk it out: NTA suggests open communication is key ️

Stepdad earns title of “Dad” from stepchildren, NTA

Stepdad embraces role, wife upset over nothing. ♂️

Stepdad unintentionally upsets wife by calling stepchildren his kids. NTA.

Stepdad’s love for his stepchildren causes family tension. #NTA ❤️

Stepdad is NTA for considering stepchildren as his own kids

Stepdad bonds with stepchildren over love, not title ❤

Stepdad wins hearts of stepchildren, wife disapproves. #FamilyDrama

Stepdad receives praise for being a loving parent ❤️

Stepdad earns kids’ love, wife feels threatened. NTA.

Stepdad is not the a**hole for wanting to be called dad.

Stepdad should be able to be called dad by stepchildren. NTA.

Stepdad praised for being a great dad to stepchildren ❤️

Let the children decide who they call dad

Stepdad wins at fatherhood despite wife’s insecurities.

Stepdad is NTA for calling stepchildren his kids, wife upset

Stepdad lovingly claims stepchildren, wife upset for no reason.

Stepdad defends stepkids, blames wife’s insecurities. ♂️

Let the kids decide what to call you. Listen up, stepmom!

Stepdad shows love for stepchildren, wife insecure and upset.

Stepdad plays important role in stepchildren’s lives, wife overreacts.

Stepdad steps up, wife needs to back off

Stepdad prioritizes kids’ wishes over wife’s, sparking controversy.

Stepdad earns NTA for wanting to be called dad

Stepdad bonds with stepchildren, earns NTA judgment
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Stepdad embraces stepchildren, wife needs to chill

Being a step-parent is tough, but if the kids call you dad…
