Growing up with a sibling can be tough, especially when there are limited resources. In this AITA post , a younger sister shares her experience with her older sister’s life choices. After their great-grandma’s death, their family came into some money that could only send one of them to college. The younger sister fought for the opportunity and succeeded, while the older sister gave up before even trying.
Years later, the sisters meet up and the older sister complains about her life. The younger sister reminds her of her choices and it doesn’t end well. Read on to find out who the A-hole is in this situation .
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Growing up dirt poor, sisters Caitlin and the author had the opportunity to receive money from their great-grandmother to attend college, but only one could go. The author fought for the chance and earned her BSN, while Caitlin gave up. Years later, Caitlin complains about her life choices to the author, who reminds her that she had the chance to better herself and should not complain about the life she chose.
Was the author in the wrong for saying what she did or was she just being honest? Read on to see what others have to say.
OP is called out for being entitled and lacking empathy
OP’s sister sacrificed her future for her and she complains? YTA
OP is called out for being entitled and selfish. YTA
Sister sacrifices dreams for OP but gets lectured instead: YTA
OP is called out for being ungrateful towards her sister’s sacrifice. YTA
Commenter calls out OP for lack of empathy and entitlement.
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Nursing school’s core principles are compassion and empathy, something OP lacks. YTA ♀️
OP belittles sister, gets called out for privilege. YTA.
Sibling steals sister’s money for college, gets a job. YTA
Insensitive comment receives sarcastic reply
OP’s sister contributed money for their education, YTA.
OP’s sister sacrificed her college education to help, but OP is ungrateful
Commenter called out for being selfish, sparks agreement.
Sibling rivalry turns ugly. YTA needs to support sister.
Commenter deemed YTA with no defense.
Sibling rivalry at its finest.
Harsh comment receives no sympathy from replies
First-time commenter calls out YTA for looking down on sister
Sister’s chance at college money creates family drama
Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and entitled.
Don’t dismiss your family member’s struggles. Be compassionate ❤️
Sister sacrifices for sibling’s education, gets called A-hole.
Sister paid for OP’s school, but did OP help sister?
Encouragement for education is key ✨
Listen up, OP! Don’t dismiss your sister’s sacrifices. #YTA
Empathy is key, listen to your sister
Sibling gives up for family, calls out heartless sister.
Harsh reply calls out YTA for belittling sister’s struggles
Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and ungrateful ♀️
Sister generously paid for OP’s school, but received no gratitude. YTA.
Don’t kick your sister while she’s down. ♀️
Sister takes entire inheritance and blames sibling for not being better.
Don’t be the a**hole! Sometimes all someone needs is to vent ️
Commenter gets an F for calling out fake story
Commenter receives fiery judgement for their behavior
Harsh criticism on comment, calling out fake behavior
Sibling rivalry or parental favoritism?
Sister sacrifices for sibling’s education, gets berated – YTA
Don’t be rude! Tact could solve 70% of the issues.
