What if you were forced to live with step-siblings you can’t stand? Would you pretend to be a happy family or refuse to play along? That’s the dilemma faced by a 15-year-old girl and her younger brother. Their mom’s new partner has three children who are anything but easy to get along with. The two siblings are immune-compromised and are worried about sharing a room with the other kids. Things come to a head when the new stepdad tries to create the perfect family dynamic, and the siblings push back. But who is in the wrong here? Are the teens refusing to pretend, or are the parents trying to create a new family unit? Read on to find out the verdict on this difficult situation.
Siblings bond through tough times after parents’ divorce. ❤️

Siblings deal with blended family and custody battle during pandemic

Dodging the bullet of sharing a room with terrible kids

Living with bratty siblings, all they want is to leave ❤️

Sibling rebellion against “perfect family dynamic” causes tension

Sibling’s denial of family causing rift, but who’s at fault?

Siblings rebel against unhappy family, mom at breaking point

Teen siblings refuse to fake a happy family ♀️
When parents split, families can become complicated, especially when new partners are involved. For one teen girl and her younger brother, their mom’s new partner and his three kids are causing chaos. The siblings have made it clear they won’t pretend to be one big happy family and are fighting tooth and nail to avoid being put in a room with their step-siblings. Recently, tensions have escalated as the stepdad tries to push a ‘perfect family dynamic.’ The siblings are not having it and make it clear that he is not their father. The situation has caused a huge rift, with the mom at her breaking point and the siblings caught in the middle. Despite their dad’s advice to tone it down, the teens refuse to back down. Will this family ever find a way to make it work, or is it a lost cause? Keep reading to find out what happens next.
NTA for not wanting to play happy family

It’s okay to have genuine feelings for a situation

Siblings express relief for not pretending to be a happy family

Standing up to family isn’t easy, but NTA for trying

Don’t fake happiness, but being civil can be a valuable skill

Mom’s new partner and kids moved in unannounced. Resentment ensues.

Overcrowding in a 3 bedroom house – NTA for wanting to leave

Happiness isn’t guaranteed by material possessions.

Living with 7 people in a cramped space? NTA, good luck!

Sibling struggles with stepdad and mom’s choices. Navigating family dynamics.

A lack of discipline and a new infatuation – family drama

Commenter admits everyone sucks, but offers advice kindly
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Resentful of pretending to be a happy family. NTA

Commenter sympathizes with poster’s unfortunate living situation

OP’s aggressive behavior towards stepfather is unreasonable and childish

Siblings in disagreement over family dynamics and autistic brother.

Siblings reject toxic family, defend choice to live with dad

Stepdad’s behavior raises red flags, OP rightfully stands up for herself.

Sibling forced to share a room with opposite s*x. NTA wins.

Support for choosing honesty over pretending to be happy

Stepdad’s kids are not my siblings. NTA for wanting out.

Choose your battles wisely. Navigating family relationships is tough.

Blending families too soon? NTA speaks up about unsuitable living arrangements
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NTA. Moving in with a stranger family is destabilizing

Teenagers should have a say in custody agreements. #NTA

Support for a child dealing with family conflict ❤️

Navigating family drama sucks, but reacting emotionally won’t help.

Refusing to pretend for a happy family ♀️ Escalating with profanity might be valid

Protecting kids’ emotions is crucial, NTA.

Helping dad get custody while avoiding conflict with siblings. #FamilyDrama

Sibling solidarity in a broken family ❤️

Forced adoption at 15 – keep trying to get with Dad. NTA

Being civil may make life easier but at what cost?

NTA but be careful not to alienate your other parent.
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Questioning legal consequences of leaving unhappy family.

Teen’s tantrums escalate to dangerous behavior.

Tips for OP to help father win custody.

Sibling rivalry causing chaos in family dynamics. ESH.

Step parent sympathizes with OP, advises civil behavior and documentation.

Start an alliance with the kids to escape the house
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Document, document, document – great advice for custody hearings

Justified a**hole behavior or not? Let’s discuss

Navigating blended families is tough, but standing up for yourself is important ❤️

Sibling solidarity against selfish parents

ESH for not pretending to be happy, but consider your actions.

Seeking custody advice at 16, is it possible?

Choosing a parent at 13 – legal or emotional decision?

Siblings struggle with custody, looking for compromise

Commenter suggests mental illness as explanation for siblings’ behavior.

Consider changing custody arrangement to live with mom.

Advice for a troubled sibling on dealing with family issues ❤️

Why force kids to get along? NTA, love the dichotomy

Supportive advice for a child caught in a tough situation

Teens refuse to pretend, may live with dad. Awkward cohabitation.

Standing up to disrespectful family members.

Prioritizing kids in blended families. Stand your ground respectfully.

Siblings fight against sharing room despite dad’s custody hearings. NTA.

Mom’s partner over kids? Not cool. NTA siblings prioritize comfort.

Earned, not given. Building a relationship takes time and effort.

Teen siblings assert their rights in custody dispute.

Consider legal options and gather evidence for better living arrangements
