When it comes to siblings, it’s not uncommon to have different expectations or rules set in place. And in some cases, it can lead to different levels of favoritism or unequal treatment. This is exactly what happened to one 17-year-old Reddit user who, after years of feeling overlooked and burdened with expectations, finally spoke up and dumped the truth on her 14-year-old sister. But was the 17-year-old really in the wrong? Read on to find out what happened and decide for yourself who was in the wrong.
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Is it wrong to tell the truth about an unfair family dynamic?
Being the eldest of two siblings often comes with extra responsibilities. For one 17-year-old, it has become increasingly difficult to handle the unfair family dynamic imposed upon them by their parents. The younger sister is spoiled and adored while the elder is expected to be a 40-year-old kid and take care of the younger one. After finally expressing their feelings to their sister, they have been called an a**hole for being so honest and blunt. What would you do in this situation? Read on to find out how the community reacted and to join the conversation.
NTA but your parents ♂️

An honest , an *a**hole* response , and a great summary

NTA: ♀️It’s time to stand up for yourself! ♀️

Sibling rivalry: Reality check needed

Is *a-hole sibling rivalry true?

♀️ NTA: One sibling gets a college fund, the other doesn’t.

NTA: A bad job can be punished!

NTA: Parents took for granted

☝️ NTA: speaking the truth

Uncovering family secrets?

Is it wrong to tell the truth?

Prepare to escape
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Rocking the boat!

Is truth really freeing?

NTA: Is truth-telling wrong?
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NTA and . You told it like it is!

Telling the truth

NTA: You snapped, but it’s not your fault!

NTA – time for a clean break!

NTA: Time to ♀️

Telling the truth about

The eldest of 5 speaks up

Sibling rivalry: What to do when your sister calls you an a**hole?

Scapegoat vs. Golden Child

NTA: You’re not responsible for your sister’s unfair treatment

NTA: truth hurts

️ Leave and explore!

Sibling struggles and feelings of being left out

Breaking free

Getting a reality check

NTA: You deserve better!

An abusive family dynamic

Sibling rivalry

NTA: Be safe

NTA but your parents are

NTA: sibling’s different experiences with parents

Sibling Rivalry

Don’t let them take credit

Confronting exploitation

NTA: Cut ties with a**hole parents?

OP’s not the a**hole!

NTA: A story of unfair treatment

Moving out helped

NTA: It’s okay to tell the truth

Leaving an emotionally-abusive family

Family drama and ♀️

Adult sibling rivalry: ✋ NTA

NAH: No one’s the a-hole here.

Family dynamics:

Hope for a better future

No a-hole here

Sibling rivalry: NTA!

NTA ✊ Proud of you!

Big sister NTA, but

NTA: You deserve better

Uncovering family secrets

Family dynamics
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NTA: Reality check for the princess!

Parents behaving badly ♂️

Is it wrong to tell the truth?

A wish for a brighter future!

Suspicion in family dynamics?
