A young woman found herself in a predicament when her father cut her off financially for dating a transgender man, which led to her sister tripling her rent. She had the option to pay the increased rent, which she couldn’t afford, or move out.
After a series of arguments with her sister, she decided to move out, leaving her sister to pay the full rent. Her sister is now furious, and the young woman is questioning if she’s in the wrong for leaving.
Was she right to move out and leave her sister in a financial bind, or should she have found a way to pay the increased rent and stay with her sister? Read the full story to find out more.
Siblings’ age gap adds fuel to rent dispute fire
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Sister’s university dreams crushed by dad’s transphobia and favoritism.
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Living with sister while hiding transgender boyfriend from dad
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Transphobia at home: Sibling’s discovery sparks fear and tension ️⚧️
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Father cuts off funding due to boyfriend’s gender identity
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Rent dispute between siblings over gender identity leads to impasse.
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Sibling rent dispute reaches boiling point over payment negotiations.
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Moving in with boyfriend after sibling rent dispute. New beginnings await!
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Sister in distress as dad cuts off funding for boyfriend’s identity
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Struggling sister asks for help, but sibling refuses. AITA?
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Dad cuts off funding over boyfriend’s gender identity revelation
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Sibling suspects sister’s involvement in dad’s discovery of T.
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Sibling rent dispute turns ugly after dad cuts funding
A sibling rent dispute has turned sour after a father cut funding due to his daughter’s boyfriend’s gender identity. The boyfriend, a transgender man, was found to be living with the daughter, who had not disclosed the relationship to her father due to his transphobic views. The father has since refused to pay half of the rent and has cut off funding, leaving the sisters to pay the full amount.
The sisters have been arguing over who should pay more, with one sister insisting the other should pay more due to the boyfriend’s presence. The situation has escalated to the point where one sister has decided to move out and live with her boyfriend. The other sister is now left struggling to afford the rent on her own.
The father has accused the sister of hiding the boyfriend’s gender identity from him, leading to the funding being cut off. However, there is a possibility that the sister did not directly tell the father, but her mother or other sister.
The situation remains unresolved, leaving the sisters at odds with each other and struggling to find a solution to their rent dispute.
Sister caused the mess, but Dad’s transphobia is the real issue

Sibling rent dispute over boyfriend’s gender identity, sister may have told dad
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50/50 rent agreement stands, regardless of father cutting funding. NTA

Sibling outs boyfriend, demands ‘trans-tax’, gets cut off. NTA

Doubting the truth: A skeptical NTA comment sparks suspicion

NTA, but dad is the real a-hole here. ♂️

Sibling dispute over rent and dad’s funding cut-off.

Sibling rent dispute over transgender boyfriend sparks family feud

Sibling rent dispute escalates after dad cuts off funding

Sister blames OP for dad’s tantrum, but it’s not their fault

Sister learns a tough lesson after cutting off brother’s funding

Mystery informant fuels family feud

Offering cheaper rent, but dad’s transphobia causes rent dispute. NTA.

The mystery of who told dad about the boyfriend’s gender identity

NTA sibling’s outing of OP’s boyfriend causes rift and homelessness

Standing up for your SO against family homophobia. #NTA

Sibling rent feud over gender identity leads to retaliation ♂️

Stand up for your partner and leave toxic family behind ❤️

Sibling rent dispute resolved maturely, sister needs to grow up

Commenter calls out bad behavior with a sassy remark

Support and solidarity for sibling in rent dispute.

OP not on lease, NTA for not paying sibling’s rent.

Sibling defends boyfriend from transphobic dad, sister refuses to split rent

Keeping secrets caused sibling rent dispute, commenter is NTA.

Sibling rent dispute over transphobia and information leak.

Defending a boyfriend’s gender identity against sister’s outing.

NTA for moving out due to dad’s ignorance and sister’s lack of help.

Standing up for your partner against transphobia ️⚧️
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Sibling rent dispute leads to financial independence and dorm life

Trans disclosure not necessary for taking testosterone. NTA.

NTA. Don’t let your sister’s inability to budget affect you

Monthly rent offers an easy out, but dad’s refusal raises questions NTA

Sister learns a lesson after outing sibling’s partner.

Navigating transphobic family dynamics while helping a sister in need ❤️

“Our shitty dad” – when siblings unite against parental injustice

Respecting boyfriend’s privacy, NTA handles sister’s discovery of medication
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Take responsibility and pay up , NTA moves on ♂️

NTA, but don’t lose sight that the biggest a**hole is your dad.

Cutting off toxic family, new beginnings

Sibling rent dispute and dad’s transphobia sparks NTA response.

Learn the difference between cisgender and transgender ️

Stand your ground and don’t feel obligated to pay sister’s rent

Supportive comment about sibling rent dispute and boyfriend’s identity ❤️

Supportive comment against transphobia and toxic family dynamics.
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Sibling rent dispute due to boyfriend’s gender identity, NTA prevails

Standing up to bigotry and family drama ️ ❤️
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The mystery of how their dad found out deepens…

NTA stands up for boyfriend against transphobic sister’s entitlement

Commenter defends OP with NTA verdict on sister’s transphobia ️

Sibling rent dispute due to dad’s transphobia. NTA for standing up.

Commenter defends OP’s actions and calls out sister’s betrayal

Supporting trans rights and calling out sister’s betrayal. ️⚧️

Taking responsibility with a touch of sass. You go girl!

Sister snitches on brother’s rent dispute – NTA wins

Sibling guilt-trips OP over rent dispute; OP moves in with boyfriend.

Are hidden cameras being used to enforce dad’s beliefs?

Supportive comment stands up for marginalized family member

Keeping quiet could have kept a roof, but was honesty worth it?

Respect privacy in shared homes or face consequences. #NTA

Being honest about finances in a strained family dynamic
