A woman is considering telling her sister-in-law about her husband taking her son to see his grandparents, despite a restraining order. The husband claims he is doing it for the child’s benefit, but the woman is worried about the potential consequences. She is seeking advice from the AITA community. Read on for the full story .
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Betrayal or Loyalty? Babysitting secret threatens to divide family
A babysitting favour for a nephew has turned into a betrayal of trust for a sister-in-law. The post narrates how the husband of the narrator secretly takes his nephew to visit his in-laws against the wishes of the child’s mother who has a restraining order against them, causing a rift between him and his wife. The narrator is torn between loyalty to her husband and doing what is right by telling her sister-in-law. The post highlights the family’s strained relationship with the sister-in-law and the lengths they have gone to meet her son. The husband’s actions raise questions about loyalty and betrayal and what it means to stand up for what is right. Will the narrator tell her sister-in-law and risk dividing the family further? Or will she keep quiet and let her husband’s actions continue? Read on for reactions and comments on this complex family issue.
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NTA for telling the truth and protecting the child from harm
Tell your sister-in-law the truth about her son’s whereabouts ️
Tell your sister-in-law immediately, your husband is betraying you
Urge to tell sister-in-law the truth about restraining order justified.
Huge red flags in husband’s actions towards sister-in-law’s son
Protect your nephew and sister-in-law. Report your husband’s illegal behavior
Commenter calls out OP’s husband and in-laws, suggests divorce
Expose the law-breaking babysitter to his sister-in-law!
NTA. Tell Nicole. Betraying trust is scary
Reconsidering marriage to a man who breaks restraining orders
Rectify your mistake, Soft YTA. Tell Nicole now!
Breaking the silence on a restraining order violation
Husband violates restraining order to see nephew, OP should tell sister-in-law
Speak up! ️ Let her know about the restraining order.
Passively allowing endangerment? YTA gets called out.
Speak up and protect. ️
Breaking the law? YTA for hiding it from Nicole
Commenter suggests divorcing husband for disregarding boundaries.
Red flags everywhere!
Why stick around? NTA stands their ground.
Husband deceiving sister-in-law and playing both sides of the fence
Speak up sooner next time to avoid being the a**hole.
Hiding the truth about babysitting location is not a smart move
Standing up for your values can be tough
Be honest and tell her now! ️
Breaking the law? You should definitely tell Nicole!
Speak up! ️ Let her know where her child is.
Husband’s secret babysitting location revealed, SIL deserves to know
Husband’s unjustified hatred for his parents and cruel treatment of sister-in-law
Stand up for your autonomy! ♀️
OP’s husband violates restraining order, ESH except SIL, make it right.
Don’t hide it, spill the tea ☕️. But be polite YTA
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Married to a liar? Confronting the truth about your partner.
Serious situation. NTA. You must tell your sister-in-law ASAP.
YTA alert: Commenter judges someone without context.
Your husband needs to stop, you’re NTA for telling her.
Respect her wishes and keep your distance
Being honest with Nicole is important for her son’s safety
Dangerous family secrets. Speak up and stay safe. ♀️
NTA but husband is breaking laws and teaching kid to keep secrets
Tell all! ️ NTA says to spill the beans.
Document and plan before telling sister-in-law about husband’s actions
Urgent warning to inform Nicole and police about possible kidnapping
Commenter urges OP to tell sister-in-law and divorce husband.
NTA. SIL should know the truth about her son’s babysitters.
NTA. Consider leaving him. Tell the truth to his sister.
Your husband is committing kidnapping! NTA ♀️
A serious issue: YTA for not telling your SIL.
The update we’ve all been waiting for!
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Commenter advises divorcing deceitful husband, avoiding toxic in-laws.
Leave him! Tell SIL where he takes her son.
Support for Nicole’s justified anger towards her family and husband.
Mysterious comment with no context
Concerned reader urges for update on child’s safety
Commenter calls out OP for not telling sister-in-law about husband’s behavior
Disturbing: Husband takes nephew to family members not allowed near him.
