Pregnant Woman Upset as Boyfriend’s Mom Schedules ‘Paternity Vacation’

A pregnant woman is furious after her boyfriend’s mom scheduled a paternity vacation for him during his leave to help with their newborn. The woman confronts her boyfriend’s mom , arguing that his leave was meant to support her and their child. The mom is upset and calls her ungrateful for not appreciating her gift. The boyfriend is torn between supporting his girlfriend and accepting the extravagant gift. Who do you think is the a**hole in this situation? Read more to find out.

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Pregnant woman upset over boyfriend’s ‘paternity vacation’ to Italy

Being pregnant and preparing to be a first-time mother is a nerve-wracking experience, which is why having a supportive partner is crucial. However, for one woman, her boyfriend’s mother had other plans. Just when her boyfriend took three weeks off work to help adjust to being parents, his mother scheduled a ‘paternity vacation’ for him to Italy, leaving the pregnant woman alone with their newborn for the last two weeks of his leave. While the mother-in-law gave a kind gesture of a jade-stoned bracelet and a matching newborn one, it was not enough to make up for her lack of understanding. The woman expressed her concern, but her boyfriend’s mother was taken aback, leaving her upset and in tears. Despite her boyfriend agreeing to go for at least a week, the woman wonders if she’s the A**hole for wanting him to stay and bond with their daughter. What do you think?

NTA for being upset about boyfriend’s mom’s ‘paternity vacation’

Boyfriend’s mom gifts ‘paternity vacation’, partner needs to grow up.

Boyfriend’s mom schedules ‘paternity vacation’, NTA thinks it’s insane

Cultural differences lead to paternity vacation, NTA, and grandma’s gift.

Don’t let his ‘paternity vacation’ cause a breakup. ️

Supportive commenters express outrage at boyfriend’s mom’s actions.

Husband’s ‘paternity vacation’ could lead to trouble

Sassy new mom threatens to publicly shame boyfriend if he goes.

Partner should have declined his mother’s ‘paternity vacation’.

Commenter expresses concern about coping with new born and lack of support

Commenters question violation of paternity leave and relationship boundaries.

Pregnancy complications and a paternity vacation – a bad mix

Mother-in-law’s ‘paternity vacation’ plan is odd and inappropriate. NTA.

Boyfriend may be more of an issue than future MIL

Boyfriend’s mom is controlling, but is she trying to break them up?

Boyfriend caught between mother and partner. Will he choose wisely?

Supportive comment on new dad’s priorities amid family conflicts

Agreeing with the commenter that the situation is crazy

Paternity leave is for the couple to recover, not in-laws. NTA.

Boyfriend’s mom giving him a ‘paternity vacation’? NTA

New mom needs support, paternity vacation not helpful.

Boyfriend’s mom schedules ‘paternity vacation’, commenter calls out AH behavior

Having a baby is hard mode, paternity vacation is AH move ‍♀️

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Navigating cultural differences in relationships can be tricky.

Commenter’s unsupportive boyfriend leaves her vulnerable postpartum

Boyfriend’s mom wants ‘paternity vacation’, commenter calls out selfishness.

New mom needs more than a week, boyfriend’s mom is inconsiderate ‍♀️

In-laws imposing cultural gender roles on new mother, husband must step up

Boyfriend’s mom schedules ‘paternity vacation’ for his toxic behavior

Mom’s ‘paternity vacation’ causes tension with pregnant girlfriend. NTA comment agrees.

Protective mom-to-be suggests threatening boyfriend’s job over paternity leave.

Wife draws the line on mother-in-law’s ‘paternity vacation’

Supportive comment highlights potential issue with ‘paternity vacation’ plan

Don’t let him go!

Supportive commenter calls out outdated gender roles in pregnancy

Italian commenter calls out boyfriend’s mom’s manipulative ‘paternity vacation’ plan

Commenter has mixed thoughts but ultimately votes NTA

New mom highlights need for full paternity leave support

New mom objects to boyfriend’s mom’s paternity vacation plan. NTA.

Mother-in-law assumes BF won’t be there for pregnant GF. NTA

New mom threatens divorce over ‘paternity vacation’ to Italy.

Boyfriend’s mom planned ‘paternity vacation’ during newborn’s arrival. NTA needs help, not vacation. ‍♀️

Concerned commenter asks important questions about boyfriend’s behavior

Boyfriend’s mother schedules ‘paternity vacation’? Commenter shocked and outraged

Stand your ground! ️ You’re not the a-hole in this situation.

Pregnant OP has no support group, only boyfriend’s family nearby

Future mother-in-law crossing boundaries?

Boyfriend’s mom books ‘paternity vacation’, NTA upset with exclusion.

Commenter supports OP’s stance on the situation

Partner wanting a ‘paternity vacation’ abroad? NTA says!

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Supportive comment encourages pregnant woman to prioritize herself and well-being

BF’s mom scheduling a ‘paternity vacation’? NTA, but BF needs spine.

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Boyfriend’s mom’s ‘paternity vacation’ causing tension in relationship

Husband needs to cut the apron strings NTA comment

Mom’s ‘paternity vacation’ raises concerns about parenting dynamic. #NotTheAsshole

A spicy revenge plan suggested for a pregnant woman’s dilemma

NTA. Boyfriend’s mom prioritizing her son over pregnant girlfriend

Encouraging absentee fatherhood? Not cool, mom. NTA comment.

Feeling left out? This commenter wishes they were in this family