A woman in a polyamorous relationship is facing backlash from her coworkers after they found out she had been “hiding” her relationship from them. The situation escalated when a coworker started stalking her and taking pictures of her with her partners.
She initially laughed it off, but it turns out that she was in immediate danger. She has since gotten a temporary restraining order and the coworker has been fired. The woman is now exhausted and just wants the situation to be over. Read on for the full story.
Polyamorous woman shocks coworkers with secret relationship revelation ❤️
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Caught making out with someone else: Coworkers shocked by secret polyamory
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Coworkers accuse woman of hypocrisy after break room conversation.
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Woman reveals polyamorous relationship after being confronted with evidence
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Polyamorous woman shocks coworkers with her secret relationship reveal
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Polyamorous woman faces backlash for keeping her relationship secret
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Navigating disclosure: AITA laughs in coworkers’ faces for judging lifestyle
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Navigating office politics with a secret polyamorous relationship
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Surprising reveal caught on camera leaves everyone stunned
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Coworkers help with stalking situation, workplace becomes supportive community
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Coworkers find out about polyamory through unexpected IT discovery
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Office drama unfolds as polyamorous woman’s secret is exposed
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Surviving a stalker: A woman’s harrowing experience with her coworker
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When the secret comes out…
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Coworkers stir up drama, polyamorous woman caught in the middle
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Louie and Ruby join in cuddle session, movie recommendations needed
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Breaking the taboo: A polyamorous woman’s secret stuns coworkers
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Stay tuned for updates on the juicy court drama
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Ruby and Louie show gratitude through coworker’s message.
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IT coworker discovers secret, sparks shock and speculation
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Polyamorous woman shocks coworkers with secret relationship revelation
A woman who kept her polyamorous relationship secret from her coworkers was shocked when one of them saw her making out with one of her partners at a bar and started telling everyone that she was cheating. She later revealed to her coworkers that she was in a poly relationship with her girlfriend of 11 years and her boyfriend of 10 years.
Although some of her coworkers were angry that she hid her relationship from them, others were supportive. However, the situation took a dangerous turn when the coworker who took the pictures was fired and it was determined that the woman was in immediate danger. She is now dealing with the aftermath of the situation and is grateful for the support she has received from her partners and colleagues.
Read on for more details and updates on the situation and check out comments and Reactions from Reddit .
NTA. Ken deserves to be called out for his creepy behavior
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Toxic workplace alert! Don’t let your coworkers pry into your personal life. NTA.

Coworkers take secret photos of polyamorous woman, NTA for their actions

Stand up for yourself and report the gossip to HR ️

Don’t let nosy coworkers get in the way of love
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Commenter suggests possible legal action in polyamorous workplace situation

Keep your personal life private at work, report harassment.

Protect your privacy and keep your relationship secret. NTA.

Coworker takes photos of woman in polyamorous relationship, gets laughed at

Coworker’s creepy actions revealed: OP not at fault for secrecy.

Coworker’s creepy behavior raises red flags for polyamorous woman

Privacy matters: NTA for keeping relationships secret from coworkers

Your relationship, your rules. Don’t let others define it.

Keep your private life private and don’t mind the haters

Respectful comment defends woman’s privacy and calls out inappropriate behavior

Mind your own business and don’t be a creep

Commenter advises reporting workplace harassment to HR and police.

Slaying workplace boundaries

Don’t let anyone shame you for living your truth

Keeping work and personal life separate. Creepy coworker behavior
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Privacy is key . Ken should have asked privately .
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Calling out pearl-clutching coworkers over pervert photos. NTA

Privacy is key, NTA for keeping personal life private

NTA. Coworker is an a** and a gossip. Restraining order needed

Coworkers thrive on drama, not relationship revelations ♀️

Defending personal privacy: NTA shuts down gossiping coworkers.

OP rightfully smug as coworkers intrude on personal life over assumption.

Coworker takes inappropriate photos of polyamorous woman without consent. NTA.

Keeping private life at work resulted in photo leak. NTA.

Coworker accused of stalking, commenter deemed not at fault

Polyamorous woman unfairly criticized by coworkers, NTA for outing self

Keeping your private life private is not a**hole behavior

File a harassment claim with HR. Get him fired. NTA.

Keep calm and mind your own business

Coworkers cross boundaries, commenter defends privacy with NTA verdict

Keep work and personal life separate, report harassment to HR

Standing up against invasion of privacy. You go girl!

Privacy in personal life is non-negotiable

Mind your own business! NTA shuts down false rumors.

Sharing a secret handshake with a fellow polyamorous and how to handle workplace harassment

Advice on dealing with a stalker – stay positive and safe

Ten years of successful polyamory? Relationship goals

Personal life is private. Report coworker for taking photos.

Keep your private life private

Recommended movie cheers up commenter and their friend

Calling out a stalker: NTA wins this round

Privacy at work is important, coworkers should mind their business.
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Coworker jumps to conclusions and faces consequences for baseless accusation

Stand up for yourself and your safety. NTA

Mind your own business! NTA shuts down nosy coworkers ♀️

Standing up to workplace harassment, NTA comment receives support

Coworkers accuse polyamorous woman of cheating, refuse to drop it.
