A young girl wants to be a paramedic when she grows up and seeks advice from a family friend who is already a qualified paramedic. The friend, however, refused to answer the girl’s question about the worst thing she had ever seen while on the job. The friend was worried about traumatizing the young girl, but the girl’s mother was furious and accused the friend of being cryptic. Read on to find out if the friend was in the wrong for not being honest with the child.
On the road as a paramedic: A firsthand account

Encouraging young girls to pursue their dreams in healthcare

Paramedic faces backlash for refusing inappropriate question

Paramedic explains why he refused to answer inappropriate question

Paramedic faces backlash for refusing patient’s inappropriate question politely

Navigating difficult conversations with friends and family

Paramedic faces dilemma disclosing road trauma to inexperienced colleague

Seeking advice on a confusing situation

Navigating boundaries in the paramedic profession.

Paramedic receives overwhelming support for standing up to inappropriate question

Paramedic refuses to answer inappropriate question – faces backlash
A paramedic faced backlash after refusing to answer a young girl’s inappropriate question. In a meeting with her mother and the girl, the paramedic was asked about the worst thing she had ever seen while on the job. Feeling uncomfortable, the paramedic politely declined to answer the question and explained that it was traumatic for her to discuss such things. The young girl’s mother became angry and demanded that the paramedic tell her daughter what she could expect to see in the field. While some may argue that the paramedic should have been more honest, others believe it is inappropriate to share traumatic experiences with young people. What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Paramedic receives support for setting boundaries with inappropriate question.

NTA. Respect for privacy and age-appropriate information is crucial. Good job OP!

Paramedic faces backlash for refusing to answer inappropriate question. Comments highlight the unrealistic expectations some people have about the job. ⚕️

Honesty is the best policy

Setting boundaries is important. NTA

Protecting boundaries and being tactful.

Paramedic declines inappropriate question, offers alternative for education.

Former A&E nurse shares why paramedic’s response was appropriate.

Setting boundaries and protecting your mental health

Paramedic tactfully refuses inappropriate question, receives support from commenter.

Sharing traumatic experiences with a child? NTA, you handled it well

Former paramedic shares experience of not answering inappropriate question
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Paramedics face trauma too. NTA for protecting a child’s innocence

Support for not answering inappropriate question about a girl’s future.

Paramedic’s suggestion to shift responsibility to mother sparks debate

Paramedic handles inappropriate question with professionalism, NTA.
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Respect boundaries , NTA handled it well

A thoughtful discussion on the appropriateness of sharing traumatic experiences.

Honesty is important, but boundaries should be respected. NTA
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Find age-appropriate ways to discuss sensitive topics with kids ✨

Honoring the challenges of first responders

Experienced EMT shares tips on answering tough questions with humor

Setting boundaries as a paramedic. ⚕️

Support for NTA’s response to inappropriate question about 13-year-old’s career.

Empathy wins: Reducing trauma in children can prevent future issues

As a firefighter/EMT, this commenter finds discussing disturbing medical calls uncomfortable. They offered a polite and firm response to an inappropriate question.

Finding a middle ground in tough situations

Protecting kids and your own mental health is important

Recommendation to show Medizzy to satisfy curiosity and protect paramedic

NTA for not wanting to discuss traumatic experiences with a 13-year-old ♀️

Experienced paramedic shares insight on career path for curious individual

Be transparent about the job’s realities to avoid future trauma

Let her do her own research ♀️ #NTA

Protecting mental health and boundaries from morbid curiosity.

Reddit provides better answers than inappropriate questions. ♂️

Setting boundaries is important, NTA for refusing personal questions

Paramedic’s job not for the faint-hearted. NTA commenter offers support

Protecting innocence: Former medic and LEO supports NTA’s decision

K’s mom gets roasted, commenter deemed NTA

First responders face unimaginable situations daily #NTA

Setting boundaries is important. NTA stands up for themselves

Paramedic sets boundaries and receives support for refusing inappropriate question

NTA for refusing inappropriate question, but does asking people not to repost work?

Explaining the job without graphic details: a reasonable compromise

Social worker explains the importance of trigger warnings.

Respectful boundaries should always be honored

Mom’s TA for letting her daughter ask inappropriate question. NTA.

Setting boundaries and receiving respect for them. #NTA

Nurse supports paramedic’s refusal to answer inappropriate question

Setting boundaries as a paramedic. NTA

Protecting patients’ privacy is crucial

NTA paramedic suggests 13-year-old to Google, sparks backlash

EMT explains why asking inappropriate questions is traumatic ❌

Showing empathy is important, NTA for not asking that question

Respecting personal boundaries as an EMT is important

Inappropriate humor or harmless joke? Discuss in the comments!
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Paramedic refuses inappropriate question, praised for age-appropriate conversation with child
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Speak your truth

Encouraging response to paramedic’s refusal to teach inappropriate content.

Respectful boundaries win. NTA handled it maturely.

Honesty is the best policy, even when it’s uncomfortable

Suggesting ways to handle a sensitive question with empathy

Consent and boundaries matter. NTA’s response is spot on ✌️

Paramedic shares gruesome experiences after inappropriate question.

Respect boundaries. Not the a-hole.
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Standing up for boundaries, NTA comment gets platinum reward

Controversy ensues after comment defends 13-year-old’s autonomy.

Protecting a 13-year-old’s innocence and future career prospects
