A new mother is struggling to decide whether or not to let her pushy mother-in-law babysit her three-month-old son. The family has a history of chaos and trauma, with a stepbrother who is a heroin addict and a sister-in-law who is jealous of the husband and has a history of causing scenes.
The mother-in-law has not stopped the stepbrother from coming around, and the sister-in-law has even wished for another miscarriage on the new mother. All of this has led the mother to question the safety of her baby in that environment. Despite her concerns, the mother-in-law does not understand her hesitation.
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After a long and difficult journey to motherhood, a new mom is faced with a pushy mother-in-law who wants to babysit her three-month-old son. However, the family is dealing with chaos, including a heroin-addicted stepbrother and a jealous and volatile sister-in-law who lives with the mother-in-law.
In fact, the sister-in-law even wished for the new mom to suffer another miscarriage. Understandably, the new mom does not feel safe leaving her baby in this environment, even with her mother-in-law, and her MIL doesn’t seem to understand her concerns.
The situation raises an interesting question: is the new mom an a**hole for not allowing her MIL to babysit, or is she making the right decision? Read on to find out what others have to say and to share your own thoughts on this complex family dynamic.
NTA. MIL prioritizes keeping peace over child safety. Stick to rules.
Husband supports but won’t confront MIL over family chaos.
Trust issues with MIL’s babysitting offer. Nanny cam suggestion made.
BIL’s drug problem and SIL’s hostility make babysitting unsafe. NTA.
Compromise with MIL for babysitting at home with strict conditions
MIL’s good intentions may be considered, but safety comes first. NTA
Trust your instincts, momma! Keep your baby safe. NTA
Setting boundaries with in-laws, spouse supports decision
Discussion on MIL’s responsibility and enabling behavior.
Keeping baby safe comes first
Setting boundaries with toxic family members for baby’s safety.
Stand your ground! You decide who cares for your baby
NTA. MIL’s behaviour is concerning. Keep baby away from chaos.
Defending a new mother against MIL’s unforgivable act
Husband needs to prioritize baby’s safety over MIL’s feelings
Trust your instincts and stand up for yourself. You’re NTA!
New mother questions MIL’s judgment for stepson and daughter’s behavior
Prioritizing safety and mental health over MIL’s offer. ♀️
Setting boundaries with in-laws
New mom stands up to toxic MIL and prioritizes baby’s safety
New mother refuses MIL’s babysitting offer due to family chaos.
Consider a ‘grandma afternoon’ at home for much-needed rest
Protecting your child comes first. Hold your boundaries firmly
Setting boundaries with in-laws, NTA for supervised visits only.
New mother suggests a compromise for MIL’s babysitting offer
Protecting your child from toxic family members. NTA
Navigating difficult family dynamics on r/justnomil
Setting boundaries with in-laws: NTA stands her ground
Protecting baby from untrustworthy MIL. NTA.
Put your child first always! NTA
Compromise with supervised visits
Protect your child from harm, NTA for refusing MIL.
You’re the mom, your decision. NTA
Agree with the advice, keep your baby safe
Protecting the child from family chaos
Protective parenting wins!
New mother prioritizes baby’s safety over MIL’s babysitting offer
New mom makes the right call, NTA
Protective mother prioritizes baby’s safety, earns NTA judgement ❤️
Protective new mom refuses MIL’s offer to babysit
Not the a**hole, but why?
Putting your child first always makes you NTA
MIL enabling daughter’s awfulness, NTA for refusing babysitting offer
Protective new mother declines chaotic family’s babysitting offer.
A compromise suggestion for MIL babysitting situation
Family drama and baby’s safety come first. NTA
Protect your child from toxic family members. ♀️
MIL’s offer to babysit refused due to family chaos, why?
Compromise suggestion for MIL babysitting with clear boundaries
Protecting your child from toxic family members.
Protective new mother prioritizes safety over MIL’s offer to babysit
Worried about SIL’s reaction, NTA declines MIL’s babysitting offer ♀️
Setting boundaries with MIL and prioritizing child’s safety. ♀️
Putting kids first, MIL not a trusted babysitter.
Grandma needs to step up and fix her family’s behavior
Stand your ground! Parenting decisions are yours and your husband’s.
Compromising with MIL – let her babysit for short errands
New mom seeks advice on MIL babysitting, NTA for being cautious.
Trust your gut, and keep baby close to home
Respect boundaries: Grandparents pushing to babysit, NTA shuts them down
New mom stands up to MIL’s babysitting offer
Choose wisely: NTA has the right to say no ♀️
MIL’s babysitting offer declined due to family chaos. NTA.
Protecting your child comes first, don’t let anyone guilt-trip you.
Not the a**hole for prioritizing own family’s needs
Prioritizing baby’s safety over MIL’s feelings.
New mother refuses MIL’s offer to babysit due to family chaos
Trust your instincts, mama bear ❤️
Taking responsibility for your kids: a mother’s job
