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Mother Wants Speedy Funeral For My Daughter, AITA For Telling Her To Pay For It?

by Alfe Mercado
2 years ago
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Losing a child is one of the most devastating experiences a parent can go through. When one Reddit user’s baby passed away from SIDS, she was planning her daughter’s funeral. However, her mother, who wanted to honor her cultural traditions, urged her to hurry and get it over with. After weeks of this pressure, the Reddit user finally snapped at her mother and told her to pay for the funeral if she was concerned about speeding up the process. The post has garnered almost 20,000 upvotes, with many Redditors weighing in on who was in the wrong. Read on to learn more about this heartbreaking story and decide: was the Reddit user the a**hole in this situation?

Grieving mother struggles with funeral expenses for her 6-day-old baby

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funeral038181 | funeral038181

Respect cultural differences, mom. I’ll give my baby dignity.

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funeral038181 | funeral038181

Mother demands speedy funeral, OP snaps and requests payment

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funeral038181 | funeral038181

Respecting cultural traditions vs financial responsibility, AITA for suggesting payment?

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funeral038181 | funeral038181

‍ ‍ Who should pay for a baby’s funeral? AITA?

Losing a child is a devastating experience, and planning a funeral for them can add to the stress. In this post, a mother shares her dilemma on who should pay for her baby’s funeral, which she has been saving for, but her mother insists on doing it quickly. The mother snaps at her mother and suggests she pays for it. The post raises questions about cultural differences and the financial burden of funerals. Read on for the comments and reactions to this AITA post.

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Funeral homes typically offer free services for infant funerals. NTA.

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makerblue | makerblue

Respectful commenters discuss cultural funeral traditions and offer support ❤️

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ProtectionFrequent18 | ProtectionFrequent18

Heartfelt support for grieving OP, NTA.

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whatjealousyis | whatjealousyis

Commenters offer condolences and support for grieving OP

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thankuhexed | thankuhexed

Respect for grieving parents > cultural expectations

Image credit: NUT-me-SHELL | NUT-me-SHELL
NUT-me-SHELL | NUT-me-SHELL

Support and comfort over lectures and harassment during grieving

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Kayhowardhlots | Kayhowardhlots

Navigating cultural differences during grief, NTA for setting boundaries

Image credit: marheena | marheena
marheena | marheena

Save on funeral costs by buying urns and caskets online

Image credit: Scstxrn | Scstxrn
Scstxrn | Scstxrn

NTA for setting boundaries with emotionally immature mother, funny responses.

Image credit: HippieInAHelicopter | HippieInAHelicopter
HippieInAHelicopter | HippieInAHelicopter

Grief can make us misdirect emotions, but everyone is hurting ❤️

Image credit: Abd36u | Abd36u
Abd36u | Abd36u

Humor is a common way to cope with grief, and culture doesn’t matter here. NTA

Image credit: SirEDCaLot | SirEDCaLot
SirEDCaLot | SirEDCaLot

Condolences. Not the a**hole for suggesting payment.

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Lawn_Orderly | Lawn_Orderly

Culture clash over funeral expenses, NTA stands firm

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Legitimate_Essay_221 | Legitimate_Essay_221

Grieving OP stands up to pushy mother, NTA

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Dork86 | Dork86

Heartless mother refuses to pay for daughter’s funeral, NTA.

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Primary-Criticism929 | Primary-Criticism929

Heartbreaking loss. No rush for baby’s funeral. Not the a**hole.

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NmlsFool | NmlsFool

Respectful NTA response to cultural funeral expectations ‍ ‍

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VixNeko | VixNeko

Culture clash over daughter’s funeral. NTA suggests mother pay.

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H_H_B | H_H_B

Stand up for yourself, not everyone has your best interest

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Megmca | Megmca

Grieving mother faces pressure from mother for speedy funeral, NAH.

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Condolences for the loss, commenter is not at fault.

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Shot_Western_2755 | Shot_Western_2755

Heartbreaking situation, but harsh judgment from commentator and no replies.

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Take all the time you need to heal . Cut off toxic relationships.

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Crlady | Crlady

Condolences for unexpected loss of child, take time to mourn

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middlingwhiteguy | middlingwhiteguy

Grieving mother stands up to cultural beliefs, NTA

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AccessibleBeige | AccessibleBeige

Take all the time you need to organize the farewell

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tunarevolution | tunarevolution

Condolences and validation for NTA comment

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Take your time to grieve, don’t let anyone rush you ⏰

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Empathetic comment section supporting grieving parent

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Respect your wishes and timeline.

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kimjong_unsbarber | kimjong_unsbarber

Condolences and support from commenters for grieving poster ❤️

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Funeral expenses don’t reflect love. Celebrate her life your way ❤️

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Heartfelt condolences offered in the midst of grief ❤️

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MysteriousWays10 | MysteriousWays10

Condolences and support for grieving OP, NTA.

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yaboi-cthulhu | yaboi-cthulhu

Condolences. You’re not the a**hole for asking her to pay.

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Grakulen | Grakulen

Heartbroken mother prioritizes own grief, not cultural traditions. #NTA ❤️

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JustanOrange2021 | JustanOrange2021

Culture clash over funeral arrangements for baby daughter.

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Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet

Condolences for your loss. Mother’s pressure’s unnecessary. NTA ❤

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Amara_Undone | Amara_Undone

Supportive comment tells grieving mother she’s not in the wrong ❤

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Compassionate comment provides support and model for handling grief. ❤️

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CaligoAccedito | CaligoAccedito

Condolences. NTA for asking mother to pay for funeral.

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ArticleAccording3009 | ArticleAccording3009

Heartfelt support for commenter who lost child at 5 months

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Geeklover1030 | Geeklover1030

Condolences to OP, commenter supports them, no conflict here.

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skreeechers | skreeechers

Condolences to the commenter, and agreement with their reasoning.

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megpal426 | megpal426

Honoring lost loved ones: A heartfelt comment on grieving.

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Front_Pepper_360 | Front_Pepper_360

Grieving mother stands up to unsupportive parent, NTA

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Girlb0ss95 | Girlb0ss95

Grieving mother stands up to pushy grandmother.

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ScreaminSicilianGirl | ScreaminSicilianGirl

Condolences. Take control of your daughter’s funeral, not your mother.

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Euphoric-Round-5182 | Euphoric-Round-5182

Condolences, finance the funeral – NTA

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Potential_Dentist_90 | Potential_Dentist_90

Condolences given in NTA comment section

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AtheistComic | AtheistComic

Free funeral services for children? NTA for expecting payment.

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Commenter receives support after dealing with difficult mother.

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Jjustingraham | Jjustingraham

Grief can bring out the worst in people

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Kari-kateora | Kari-kateora

Grieving OP stands up to pushy family, NTA

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JCWa50 | JCWa50

Grieve your babu as long as it takes, NTA

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Forsaken_Ad_1453 | Forsaken_Ad_1453

Condolences, commenter is not at fault for suggesting payment

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National-Zombie3303 | National-Zombie3303

Not her child, not her decision. Insensitive comment adds insult.

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ShannonS1976 | ShannonS1976

No a**holes here, just hurt people trying to move on.

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weaselsweat | weaselsweat

Heartfelt condolences, NTA for asking her to pay.

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larxene135 | larxene135

Heartfelt condolences, NTA for asking her to pay ❤️

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