A mother of twins posted on Am I the A**hole subreddit about her husband’s behavior towards her daughters. After a disagreement over their outfits, the husband made them wait outside a restaurant and called them “reckless.” The mother called him out and canceled dinner. The husband tried to defend himself but the mother and daughters haven’t spoken to him since.
Read on for the full story .
Protective mother defends daughters from stepfather’s harsh judgment

Mom defends daughters against stepdad’s strict rules and criticism

Navigating cultural differences in parenting is tough, but necessary

Daughter’s hairstyle causes canceled mall trip due to stepdad’s criticism.

Mom saves dinner plans from work delay, stepdad judgment

Mom defends daughters’ outfits against critical stepdad

Mother defends daughters against stepdad’s shallow standards

Mother defends daughters against stepdad’s harsh judgment at dinner ♀️

Protective mother defends daughters from stepdad’s harsh judgment

Silent treatment from stepdad after mother’s defense

Mom defends daughters against stepdad’s harsh judgment
Raising a family can be tough, especially when new partners enter the picture. One mom of twin daughters (19f) found herself in a tough spot when her new husband, Kevin, began criticizing her girls for not following his strict rules. Despite talking to him about it, Kevin continued to judge their behavior and even called them “weirdos.”
But things came to a head when he refused to take them to dinner because he didn’t approve of their outfits. The girls were left waiting outside the restaurant in tears, and their mom had finally had enough. She stood up to Kevin and defended her daughters against his harsh judgment.
But will he come around and learn to accept them for who they are? Read on to find out, and to see what others have to say about this all-too-common family struggle.
Mother faces harsh criticism for allowing daughters to be mistreated by stepdad.

Controlling stepdad restricts girls’ freedom and mother’s judgment.

Stepdad’s control issues and lack of respect for family dynamics

Commenter and replies criticize mother for staying with mistreating husband.

Mother defends daughters’ clothing choice, stepdad criticized for control.

Mother defends daughters from disrespectful stepdad. ♀️

Commenter calls out YTA for allowing abuse of daughters.

Supportive comment section advises divorce with a touch of humor

Daughters’ stepdad policing their appearance; commenter calls out enabling behavior.
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Marrying someone with differing morals/values is a recipe for disaster

Commenter blasts stepdad’s behavior and questions marriage

Mother defends daughters against stepdad’s shaming. Boundaries needed.

Daughters’ fashion choices cause stepdad’s backlash. Mom defends fiercely. NTA

Take your daughters and run ♀️

Supportive comment calls out stepdad’s lack of respect

Protect your daughters now, or risk losing them later.

Commenter calls out both parties for allowing mistreatment
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Mother defends daughters against stepdad’s Puritanical views. NTA!

Mother defends daughters against controlling stepdad’s judgment

Protecting her daughters from a creepy control freak

Supportive comment calls for kicking out judgmental stepdad

Commenter calls out stepdad’s behavior towards girls.

Mother defends daughters against stepdad’s controlling behavior ♀️

Daughters’ fashion choices cause stepdad to be controlling. NTA.

Protecting her daughters from a controlling stepdad. ♀️

Stepdad’s control issues and passive aggressive behavior are red flags

Protecting daughters from abusive stepdad. Counseling and distance recommended.

Stepdad’s behavior towards adult stepdaughters is unacceptable

A disturbing accusation causing tension in the family.

Stepdad’s controlling behavior raises red flags

Stepdad’s harsh judgment causes tension in family dynamics

Commenter calls out stepdad’s behavior, offers blunt advice with humor

Stepdad’s misogynistic behaviour towards daughters condemned by commenter. YTA.

Commenter questions stepdad’s bizarre demands on appearance, receives disturbing insight.

Commenter calls out stepdad and mother’s bad parenting decisions

Questioning the marriage to a judgmental stepdad

Daughters sexualized by stepdad, mother and he are ESH

Commenter calls out stepdad’s inappropriate behavior, YTA for marrying

Commenter calls out mother’s choice to stay with stepdad

Commenter calls out stepdad’s sexism, sparks discussion. ⚡

Mother rightfully defends daughters, but should leave the controlling stepdad

Protective mother defends her daughters against controlling stepdad

Parental support reigns supreme!

Mother defends daughters against inappropriate stepdad.

Mother shuts down stepdad’s authority over her daughters

Questioning the worth of a harsh stepdad

Divorce stepdad for treating daughters like property

Protecting your kids should always come first

Mother’s husband is controlling and cruel towards her daughters

Heartbreaking comment on child abuse, reminding us to protect children ❤️

Commenter calls out parent’s responsibility in abusive household.

Protect your daughters from the abusive stepdad ❤️

Brutal honesty from a stranger can sometimes be refreshing

Supportive comment defends daughters’ freedom. Stepdad needs reality check.

Protective mom stands up for daughters against stepdad’s harsh judgment ❤️
