Many brides have a lot of fears for their wedding day. They hope that everything goes well and everything is smooth , but there is always that fear that something will go wrong.
No matter how long you plan and how hard you try, you can’t control everything on your wedding day—whether it’s the weather or even what other people do.
One thing that many brides worry about is their guests.
Many women who come to their wedding know that the rule is “don’t upstage the bride.”
And, some women specifically know that they cannot wear white to a wedding. Brides usually wear white, so anyone else wearing white can be seen as slightly rude.
A bride’s goal is to be the most “beautiful woman in the room.”
It’s pretty much every bride’s dream to be the most beautiful woman in the room.
However, controlling everyone else is something that we cannot necessarily do. Everyone is going to do what they want, wear what they want, and basically come as they want.
Unless, of course, you tell people to stay home.
Some brides are so nervous that they even tell some women to stay home from their wedding and do not come.
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In this case, some brides may be seen as a bridezilla or even lose friendships over this situation entirely.
On TikTok user and model shared a situation she was going through with her own friend.
TikTok user and model Alena shared on her TikTok page that a friend of hers decided to uninvite her to the wedding she was having because she did not like the way that she looked in the dress she was going to wear.
Alena said that the bride picked the dress out for her, too.
Apparently, the bride picked the dress out for Alena to wear but did not like that Alena looked “so good” in the dress.
She was nervous that Alena would “upshow her” on her big day, so she uninvited her for basically looking too good in the dress.
Alena said she ended up taking “fire pictures” in the dress anyway.
Alena shared some photos that she took while wearing the dress.
In complete and total honesty, she looks incredible in the dress and she slays in it. So, we can see how someone may feel a bit insecure standing next to her.
However, uninviting her to the wedding seems a bit harsh.
While the bride may feel insecure and a bit self-conscious next to her, it seems to be crazy to just uninvite her to a wedding—which is supposed to be one of the most important days of a bride’s life.
People online had their own thoughts on this, too.
“SHE’S the one who chose the dress so she could’ve just asked you to change your dress instead of rudely uninviting you,” one person said in the comments. It’s true, she picked the dress out, so she could have simply asked Alena to wear a different dress.
Other people said they wish that everyone looked this good a their wedding.
Other women online said Alena looked amazing, and they wish that everyone would “pull up to their wedding looking this good.”
Come to impress and bring your best to their wedding day.
And, there were many who blamed the bride, too.
Other commenters said that a good friend would want their friends to shine, no matter what. The reason that this bride felt this way is because she is insecure and having problems with herself.
And, there were some that said their wedding is about everyone feeling good.
“Honestly I don’t wanna marry but I wouldn’t care if someone apparently outshines me at my wedding. I want everyone to have fun & feel pretty,” said another commenter.
What do you think, would you let your friend come looking this good?
