A childfree uncle offers to take his sisters’ kids on vacation, but not all of them. One of the boys misbehaves and the uncle decides not to take him. Was he in the wrong? Read on to find out what happened and whether he was the a**hole in this situation.
Generous uncle treats nephews to vacation, niece misses out.

Testing waters before a two-week vacation with nephews ️

Nephew’s entitlement causes chaos on family vacation ️

Child throws tantrum over breakfast options, demands waffles

Dealing with a difficult child on vacation with nephews ️

Choosing favorites? Taking nephews on vacation sparks family drama.

Family feud over favoritism towards nephews on vacation ️

AITA? Let’s judge this uncle’s family vacation decision

To take or not to take? ️♀️
A man offered to take his nephews on vacation, but after one misbehaved, he chose not to take him. Is he in the wrong? Read on to find out more about the situation and the reactions it has caused. Let’s dive into the comments and see what people have to say about this family drama.
NTA. 8-year-old nephew’s disturbing behavior raises red flags.

Rewarding well-behaved nephews with vacation is lovely. Sister’s neglectful parenting.

Taking an out-of-control 8-year-old on vacation? Nightmare fuel.

Taking one kid on vacation can be hard, but taking a little hellion? NTA.

Taking only well-behaved nephews on vacation, NTA according to comments ️

Commenter supports OP and suggests taking 8M on vacation instead.

NTA refuses to reward bad behavior with a vacation.

Teaching consequences or too extreme? NTA comment section.

Teaching a lesson: Nephew’s bad behavior gets him left behind
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Nephew destroyed property, OP not responsible. NTA

Teaching a life lesson with a vacation. ️ NTA

Uncle OP not wrong for not taking badly behaved nephew.

Nephew cut up shirt, left out of vacation. NTA decision.

Excluded nephew misbehaved, NTA for leaving him behind

Exclusion from vacation may serve as wake-up call for misbehaving child ️

Teaching responsibility and consequences.

Taking two nephews on vacation without the third who misbehaved

Fair to take two nephews on vacation, not the others ✅

Rewarding good behavior is fair parenting. NTA, Annie is.

Commenter defends vacation choice and criticizes parenting skills

Parent shares struggles with child’s special needs and food tantrums.

Disciplining kids is important for their growth

Disciplining kids can be tough, but rewarding in the long run

Trial run helped reveal true colors. NTA ♂️

Polite behavior wins. NTA for excluding high-spirited child.

Setting boundaries with entitled family members.

Suggesting therapy for Damian instead of seaside trip.

Taking sides in family drama: NTA for excluding nephew.

Commenter warns about potential consequences for leaving out nephew.

Excluding a destructive child from vacation: reasonable or unfair?

Aunt wants to teach a lesson to a bad parenting sister.

Child’s bad behavior justifies exclusion from vacation. NTA.

Protecting two boys, leaving one out: NTA explained ️

Teaching consequences: Uncle excludes badly behaved nephew from vacation

When ‘high-spirited’ is a euphemism for misbehaving kids

Parent shares frustrating experience with undisciplined child and consequences.
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Excluding a child from vacation? NTA, but parenting is hard

Commenter defends uncle’s decision to not bring entitled nephew

Fairness in family vacations debated. NTA defends decision.
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Being responsible and fair, while having fun in the sun

Reframing the conversation: prioritize fun over exclusion

Skipping one nephew on vacation: NTA, spoiled brat comment.

One nephew is a brat and gets consequences. NTA

Teaching consequences: Nephew learns manners. 100% NTA

Standing up for yourself and your choices. NTA

Trialing vacation without telling kids could have been wiser

Standing up to bad behavior. ♀️

Taking two nephews on vacation but not the other: NTA

Commenter sympathizes with child abuse survivor, calls for therapy.

It’s not about being fair, it’s about enjoying vacation! ☀️ NTA
