The author was very close to his nephew, the 3-year-old son of his brother. He also had quite a hobby of making toys and furniture for him as a way of helping out. However, after his sister-in-law’s new husband got very ungrateful about it and asked for more direct support, the author started doubting if he was doing the right thing. After all, he’s not the legal guardian of the nephew. So in a very dramatic fashion, the Redditor turned to the internet to share the whole story and ask for advice.
The uncle’s gesture of building toys for his nephew as a way to provide and honor his late brother’s memory

Making custom toys for his nephew, but his stepdad wasn’t too pleased

Man refuses to make toys for his nephew after stepdad calls them “embarrassing” and cheap

The new husband called the presents an “embarrassment” and said the uncle could “afford to splash some cash”.

Mom steps in to remind SIL of her brother’s support after new stepdad calls gifts ‘embarrassing’ and cheap

After a heated argument, 6-7 months pass and a surprising request comes in!

Man refuses to make toys for his nephew after new stepdad calls them “embarrassing” and “cheap”

The uncle refused to provide for his nephew after encountering conflict with his stepdad about the quality and value of the toys.

Man stands up for late brother’s trust after stepdad’s insulting remarks about his toys

Should he make the toys as a favour, despite his stepdad’s criticism?

After his stepdad called his handmade gifts ‘embarrassing’, he refuses to make toys for his nephew
When it comes to family, it can be difficult to navigate the line between providing support and being taken advantage of. This became especially apparent for our protagonist when his late brother’s son’s new stepdad called his handmade gifts ’embarrassing’ and cheap. Despite trying to do what he could for his nephew before, he refused to make more toys for him after that. In this post, he tells us about the events that led up to his decision. We leave it to you to decide whether he was in the right. After reading the post, it’s time to hear what the commenters have to say about it –
NTA: SIL’s hubby is beyond the pale!

NTA, protecting nephew’s

NTA! Generous gifts & expensive childcare

Gift-giving ❤️ with sentimentality!

NTA: stand up for yourself
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NTA: Watch the greedy new husband!

NTA: ♂️ Greed is

NTA

NTA! Don’t owe them money

Cool gifts get from stepdad’s jealousy!

NTA The trust money has an ambiguous expectation

Trust requires signature? NTA!

NTA: Unappreciative

NTA!!!

NTA: Don’t let ’em use your nephew’s trust fund!

NTA ✌️️️️️️️️️️️️️️️️

NTA – they’re ungrateful and petty

Is this man a good fit for nephew’s stepdad?
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NTA:

AH calls toys ’embarrassing’ and cheap

Family can be

NTA

NTA: no favors for demands ♂️

NTA!

NTA: Money for Nephew
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♂️ NTA: Best interest of nephew in mind

NTA: Refusing to make toys

NTA, but for your nephew

Family dynamics can be

Is this stepdad’s apology genuine?

NTA! Maybe hold the trust until 18?

Gifts made with ❤️

NTA SIL & her hubby forgot to tell him you control the funds!

NTA. Watch out!

Uncle is NTA ❤️

NTA: Keep an eye out for nephew

Family drama over and

NTA: Protecting nephew’s interests
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Hand crafted gifts

NTA Look out for neglect in the future!

NTA: ♂️ Wedge between families?

NTA: Good luck!

NTA: $180k for toys?

NTA: No support for + !

NTA: Protecting the
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Stepdad spotted a cash cow?

NTA No apology accepted
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Is this gift too much?

NTA: Refusing a favor

NTA: Worst non-apology ever!

NTA! Handmade always beats store bought.

NTA: Special gifts

NTA! Self-care first

NTA: Supporting Nephew

NTA: watch out for your nephew’s new stepdad!

NTA – Preserve the money!

NTA: Entitled stepdad!

NTA: Feeling bad for the nephew

Uncle’s refusal to help

Uncle stands up for nephew!

Definitely NTA! ♂️

Making handmade gifts

Protecting nephew’s money
