A former server, who was out to dinner with his mother, speaks out against fake tips after witnessing a family leave a religious pamphlet in lieu of a real tip. Despite her mother’s insistence to mind her own business, she took action and warned the waitress. However, this sparked a family feud and left the diner wondering if she was in the wrong.
Read on to see how this situation unfolded and decide for yourself who was the a**hole.
Navigating family conflicts: Am I the a****e?
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Enjoying a long-awaited dinner with mom, but then things escalated…
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Chaotic family ruins dining experience, takes up two tables ️
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Man causes a scene over tip, but what did he do?
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Customer leaves fake tip, gets caught by observant waitress
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Former server shares heartbreaking experience with fake tips
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Man exposes fake tip, but was he wrong?
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Server gives terrible service after fake tip altercation
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Generous customer leaves 3x usual tip after witnessing fake tip incident.
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Son argues with mom over fake tip and morally right actions
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Argument with mom over fake tip sparks family feud. AITA?
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Man calls out fake tipper, sparks argument with mom
A man and his mom went out to eat for the first time since the pandemic started. However, their dinner was disrupted by a family of seven who were causing a lot of commotion. The father of the family appeared to be dissatisfied with the service and attempted to get the waitress’ attention by leaving what looked like a $20 bill, but turned out to be a fake tip in the form of a bible verse pamphlet.
The man, who had previously worked as a server for over 10 years, decided to inform the waitress about the fake tip, but his mom disagreed with his decision and accused him of meddling in things that didn’t concern him. The man’s good deed resulted in an argument with his mom, leaving him wondering if he was in the wrong.
Share your thoughts on whether he should have minded his own business or if he did the right thing by calling out the fake tipper. Read on to find out what others are saying about the situation .
Heartbreaking stories of promises broken, NTA for calling it out.

NTA for standing up to fake tip, but family drama ensues

Former server praises OP for standing up for the wait staff
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Speaking up about the fake tip not only helped the waitress, but also ensured fair service for all patrons. NTA

Fake Bible verse tips are not okay, especially for animal rescues

Sh*tty tips? This all-star showed kindness.

Standing up for what’s right, but can family relationships handle it?

Doing someone a solid pays off, even if it’s small

NTA for calling out fake tip, but debate over tipping system.

Honesty is the best policy: NTA calls out fake tip.

The debate on tipping culture and its roots in racism

Quietly informing waitress of fake tip leads to NTA judgment

Fake tipping d****e gets what he deserves. NTA, OP!

Being nice pays off!
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Commenter not the a****e in tip argument with mom!

Treating waitstaff with respect is always the right choice

Stand up for what’s right

A grateful response to a not-the-a****e comment
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Stand up for yourself!

Heartbreaking story of a server’s experience with fake tips

Good on you for standing up against fake tips

Calling out fake tip isn’t wrong, yelling at mom is.

Supportive comment receives validation: You did the right thing!

Defending NTA against mom’s fake tip accusation ♂️
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Server expresses frustration over religious pamphlets instead of tips.

Man’s entitled behavior towards waitress gets called out by commenter.

Former waitress agrees with not tolerating fake tips

Commenter defends OP’s actions, but criticizes religious hypocrisy

Commenter expresses gratitude for not living in US due to tipping

Commenter calls out OP for humble-bragging. YTA confirmed.

Empathizing with others’ experiences – NTA wins argument with mom

Support for not tipping with concern for restaurant industry staffing shortage

Expose fake tips or keep quiet? NTA chooses honesty

NTA, servers appreciate your kindness & don’t let mom deflect.

Stand up for what’s right NTA wins the day

Former server agrees: fake church tips are r**e and horrible

Defending a struggling worker: NTA and empathy is scarce.

Stand your ground You’re NTA in this situation

Support for doing the right thing ✌

Standing up against a scammer. NTA wins this round

Hating on Bible verse tips ♂️

Exposing scams at the table! You’re definitely NTA

Former waitress thanks commenter for standing up for waitstaff

Empathy wins! ✨

Standing up for servers! NTA did the right thing.

Tip for good service, don’t be a cheap a**hole.

Stand up for yourself! NTA for speaking out as a server

Bible verses aren’t tips ♂️

Make someone’s day with extra tips and honesty!

Standing up to fake tippers ♂️

Standing up for servers: why fake tips are never okay

Serving up some truth about fake tips and religion

NTA. Calling out BS and holding others accountable is important .

Fair treatment and respect for all customers is crucial.

Being a good person sometimes requires being “meddlesome”

Satisfying justice for fake tipping, NTA wins the day

Compassionate and caring NTA son enlightens mom about fake tip

NTA, but call out mom’s hypocrisy.
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“Cheap and deceitful customers make giant a**hole move”

Standing up against fake tips and religious tracts

Waitress’s bad service: NTA, but isn’t politeness a minimum?

Former server defends man’s decision to not tip fake service.

Agreeing that tips as wages system is flawed, NTA.

Last Updated on April 2, 2023 by Chifundo