A woman’s mother-in-law moved in with her and her husband temporarily, until her house is renovated. They gave her a room, but she’s been taking naps in their bedroom and wants to keep doing it. The woman doesn’t want her to, but her husband is on his mother’s side. It’s causing a huge conflict between the couple, with the husband even calling his wife selfish and mean for not letting his mother nap in their room.
Who’s in the wrong in this situation ? Read on to find out.
MIL moves in but wants to sleep with us – AITA?

Mother-in-law overstays welcome and wants to take over bedroom

MIL wants to nap in our room and husband thinks it’s okay

Husband’s mom wants to nap in our room, but I pay mortgage?

Refusing to share room with MIL for nap – AITA?

Mother-in-law wants to nap in our bedroom – AITA?
Living with in-laws can be challenging, especially when it comes to setting boundaries. In this case, a woman’s mother-in-law moved in temporarily, and they prepared a room for her. However, the mother-in-law started taking naps in the woman’s and her husband’s bedroom and wants to continue doing so. The woman refuses, citing her need for the room after work.
Her husband thinks she’s being unreasonable and selfish, refusing to speak to her until she agrees. It’s a classic case of a clash of needs and wants. How should they resolve this issue?
Let’s dive into the comments and see what people have to say about this situation .
NTA. The MIL wanting to sleep where her son has sex is creepy
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Husband refuses to support OP’s boundaries with his mother.
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Don’t let anyone mess with your sanctuary! NTA

MIL oversteps boundaries, commenters agree NTA with some humor

Marital bed is sacred space. MIL should get a hotel room.

Mother-in-law’s strange request for nap sparks territorial dispute

Commenter suspects emotional incest and bad husband, replies agree

Is it her house?

Make her uncomfortable with the idea of being in your room ♀️

Mother-in-law wants to nap in our room, but why?

Is he a freeloader?

Guest bed confirmed leak-free

Respectfully explain the importance of your sacred space.

Take back your bed! NTA

MIL wants to nap in our room? NTA, let her share guest room with husband.

Independent OP gets NTA for not sharing bedroom with MIL

Jocasta strikes again

Protect your bed at all costs!

Marital bed for MIL’s nap? NTA but still awkward

Respect your privacy! NTA for setting boundaries

Mother-in-law wants to nap in our bed – NTA

Stand your ground! NTA

Setting boundaries with MIL – NTA. ️

Personal space is key

Mom wants to nap in our room? NTA says commenters

Husband’s mom wants to nap in their bed – NTA

Protect your personal space! Napping on someone else’s bed is weird.

Setting boundaries with in-laws: NTA for wanting privacy

Boundaries crossed: NTA OP, good luck with mama obsessed husband.

Asserting boundaries with mother-in-law #NTA
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MIL entitlement strikes again. NTA for setting boundaries!

Asserting boundaries with in-laws

Mother-in-law intruding on bedroom for nap – NTA

Setting boundaries with mother-in-law during visit

Mother-in-law wants to nap in our bed – NTA

Spousal loyalty vs. motherly love – gadget love wins?

Stand your ground and assert your boundaries! ️

Maintain boundaries, but make her comfortable.

Sleeping with MIL in our bed? No way! ♀️

Get a lock and stand your ground.

Commenter’s strong reaction to in-law situation with divorce mention
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Sassy response shuts down nosy MIL – NTA!

A wife grossed out by MIL’s request for room switch

Suggesting hiding sex toys under the pillows?

Marital bed is no place for MIL NTA

Sleeping on my bed? NTA’s got me feeling like

Set boundaries and find out why MIL prefers your room

Sleeping with mommy dearest? NTA wins!

Defending their bed with a hint of humor

MIL wants to nap in our room – NTA but first red flag

A humorous response to an NTA comment
