A SAHM with three kids refused to iron her pilot husband’s uniform due to being busy with chores. Outraged, he missed his shift to teach her a lesson. Was his reaction justified or over the top? Read this post to find out!
The unequal division of household chores strikes again
Husband throws fit over ironed uniform, punishes SAHM’s busy schedule
When a husband’s entitlement knows no bounds
Husband throws tantrum over wrinkled uniform, misses work as punishment.
Husband misses work to teach SAHM a lesson on ironing.
Misunderstanding leads to argument between couple over missed shift
SAHM debates taking time off chores to iron husband’s uniform
SAHM prioritizes chores, husband misses work for unironed uniform
♂️ SAHM refuses to iron husband’s uniform, he misses work as a ‘lesson’ ♀️
A stay-at-home mom was left wondering if she was in the wrong after her husband missed work when she refused to iron his uniform. The husband, a pilot, asked his wife to iron his uniform before his shift, but she explained that she was busy with household chores and may not find the time to do it.
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He took this as a sign of disrespect for his job and decided to miss his shift as a way to “teach her a lesson.” The wife was left baffled by her husband’s extreme reaction and called him insane for missing work. However, she admitted that she could have taken some time off doing her chores to iron his uniform.
Was her husband’s reaction justified in this situation , or was it a bit much? Join the conversation in the comments below.
NTA offers a great idea to call husband’s boss about apology.
Teaching lessons to other adults is a manipulative mindset
Commenters express disbelief and concern over pilot’s behavior.
Concerns raised about potential abuse from OP’s husband.
Run like hell! Your husband is a manipulative narcissist!
Commenter warns about classic abuser logic, urges caution. ⚠️
Playful comment and witty reply about husband’s behavior.
Pilot husband can’t handle ironing, can he handle flying? ✈
Sarcasm detected! Commenter clarifies NTA, husband is not a child ♀️
Empower SAHMs: Suggests a role-reversal to teach husband a lesson
NTA for not ironing his uniform. Concerning missing work as a pilot, it could lead to delays, which can cost airlines a lot of money. There are backup pilots, but missing work without notice can lead to negative consequences.
A concerned commenter questions the health of the relationship
SAHM is NTA for not ironing husband’s uniform. Replies expose misogyny.
Commenter warns of potential abuse in partner’s behavior
Challenging traditional gender roles or controlling behavior?
Importance of ironing vs missing a shift power play ⚔️
NTA SAHM not obligated to iron husband’s uniform. Possible abuse warning ⚠️
Husband misses work over ironed shirt? SAHM should strike back!
Commenter questions husband’s competence as a pilot ✈️
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Commenter humorously questions husband’s ability to be a pilot. NTA.
NTA for not ironing uniform; husband’s behavior emotionally abusive.
Supportive comment calls out abusive behavior in relationship
Marriage is teamwork, not a one-way street.
Standing up against disrespect and control. ♀️
Don’t let his entitlement and arrogance get in your head
Empowered response to gender-based expectations in household chores.
Supportive comment encourages leaving toxic marriage.
Commenter hilariously connects pilot uniform to cancelled flights
Gender roles and appreciation for stay-at-home parents discussed
SAHM’s husband missed work over uniform, commenters advise leaving him
You go, girl! Standing up against manipulative behavior. #NotYourMaid
NTA for not ironing husband’s uniform. Call his boss next time. ♀️
NTA for not ironing husband’s uniform, why couldn’t he?
NTA stands up to entitled husband in ironing dispute
Commenter empathizes with SAHM and condemns husband’s behavior ♀️
Sassy reply questions husband’s ability to fly a plane without hands ✈️
Passengers beware! Scary pilot misses work over unironed uniform. NTA.
Gender roles evolve, Iron your own shirt ♀️
Financial abuse? Red flag! NTA for sure.
Parenting can be tough, but judging doesn’t make it easier
Taking a stand against domestic labor inequality
Stand up for yourself and your family, you deserve better
NTA and ditch the iron. ♀️
Questioning the husband’s psychological evaluations and sick leave abuse
NTA! Missing work to teach a lesson is immature.
Commenter calls out husband’s unacceptable behavior, gives NTA judgement
Empowerment and independence for SAHM going forward.
Ironing uniform? Not her job. Marriage counseling suggested.
Don’t let manipulative behavior slide. Stand up for yourself
Former pilot validates SAHM’s worth and suggests counseling for husband
Empowering advice to stand up to controlling partner ♀️
Dryer can do the job too! NTA for sure!
Pilots and their controlling behavior – is it a god complex?
SAHM prioritizes parenting over ironing; husband overreacts. NTA
Don’t let him treat you like a child . NTA
Ironing drama: SAHM’s mistake and husband’s overreaction ♂️
Communication is key! ️ It’s important to sit down and talk to your husband about feeling taken for granted as a SAHM. NTA per se.
NTA, husband’s behavior is disrespectful and potentially abusive
Empathetic reply to a controlling husband, stand up for yourself ♀️
Flight attendants beware: pilot throws tantrum over unironed uniform. NTA
Commenter compares husband’s behavior to a childish pilot tantrum ✈️
Husband should take responsibility for his own uniform. NTA
Commenter calls out unfair dynamic in marriage
Stay-at-home dad advocates for mutual respect in household chores. NAH.
Men should know how to iron their own clothes
NTA. Husband needs to take responsibility for his own appearance.
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Commenter questions husband’s ability to fly aircraft without ironed uniform
Empowering reply to a husband’s entitled behavior towards SAHM
Stand up for yourself and your kids! NTA
Parenting with a partner like that must be tough
