A wife receives an exciting job offer that would eliminate her travel and give her a chance to be present in her family’s lives again. But her husband is hesitant to uproot their teenage daughters and move across the country. When the daughters express their desire to stay, the wife feels torn between her family and her career.
Will she choose between the two or find a compromise in this situation ? Read on to find out.
Husband pressures wife to choose between job and family

Doting dad handles most of kids’ needs, wife gets ultimatum

Dream job vs. long distance: what would you choose?

Husband’s ultimatum puts wife’s job offer in jeopardy

Family comes first for couple considering job offer

Kids refuse to move for mom’s job

Wife faces opposition from family over job offer

Wife’s job offer leads to emotional ultimatum from husband.

Should she choose family or career?

Husband gives wife ultimatum over job offer

Career vs family – a heartbreaking ultimatum
What happens when one partner’s career opportunities clash with the other partner’s family commitments? A husband and wife find themselves at odds when the wife is offered a job that would improve her work-life balance but require them to uproot their lives and move across the country.
While the wife is excited about the opportunity, the husband is hesitant to leave behind the life they’ve built and disrupt their teenage daughters’ lives. The girls express their desire to stay put, leading to a heartbreaking confrontation between the wife and her family. As tensions rise and emotions run high, the couple is faced with a tough decision: choose between a fulfilling career or a stable family life.
Join the conversation in the comments below and share your thoughts on how to navigate this difficult situation .
Net gain for wife, but tough decision for family to move.

Wife wants job, husband doesn’t want to relocate, who’s right?

A family counselor may help resolve this tough situation.

Is the wife selfishly chasing a dream or quietly sacrificing for the family’s happiness?

Wife sacrificed for years, now has opportunity but none willing to make that sacrifice for her. Teenagers may not want to move, but it’s not the end of the world. Stressful jobs cause health issues – quality of life matters.

Wife wants to spend more time with family, husband gives ultimatum.

Moving for a job without knowing what you’re getting into can be disastrous

Is the marriage already over? ESH for not communicating.

Husband isn’t giving an ultimatum, but wife’s assumption is a**hole-ish

Husband receives support for valid concerns over wife’s job offer.

Moving for a job and uprooting family?

Career woman faces consequences of neglecting family. NAH.

Spouse’s job offer causes family tension. Wife accused of selfishness.

OP receives backlash for handling wife’s job offer insensitively

Career vs family: NTA asks wife to prioritize family.

Parenting dilemma: Wife’s job offer vs. 16-year-old’s needs
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Debate on who’s TA in a family ultimatum over job offer

Supporting a spouse’s career choice is key to a happy marriage

Moving during high school isn’t ideal but not life-ending . Take a trip out there as a family to check it out .

Couple struggles to find balance between work and family.

Supportive comment defends husband’s ultimatum, praises his reasoning.

Moving for a job offer can strain marriages.

NTA comment sparks hilarious Cleveland debate

Supportive comment on tough family decision.

Wife’s job offer dilemma and family priorities explained.

Career opportunity vs. family time: A tough decision.

Wife prioritizes job over family, husband gives ultimatum. NTA.

Wife’s job offer and family priorities questioned by commenter

Wife assumes family will uproot for her job – NTA

Tough work decision with family input. Husband isn’t forcing ultimatum.

Consider your wife’s perspective and make a family decision

Moving for a job with kids can be tough. NTA.

Putting your children first is always the right choice

The wife, main earner, wants more time with kids. Sad

Opportunity vs. family: NTA stands up for his choice

Should children have a say in family decisions?

Considerate dad prioritizes daughters, but wife’s feelings are valid

Moving schools is hard, daughter deserves a say in decision
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Moving for work with teenagers is tough, NTA for hesitating

Career vs Family: Commenter defends husband’s ultimatum.

Putting the kids first, NTA advises against uprooting a teenager

Husband’s ultimatum dismisses wife’s hard work and self-doubt. YTA.
