A woman is seeking advice after leaving the hospital when her husband called for his mom instead of her after surgery. She felt ignored and unacknowledged, but her husband’s mother blames her for being petty.
Was she wrong to leave? Or is her husband’s reaction understandable? Read on to find out what others think about the story and share your thoughts with us.
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Wife leaves hospital after husband calls for his mom instead of her
A hospital stay can be stressful, especially when your loved one is under anesthesia. But what happens when your husband wakes up and calls for his mom instead of you? One woman found herself feeling ignored and unacknowledged in the hospital room after her mother-in-law went in instead of her.
Despite being told that her husband’s reaction was natural, she couldn’t help feeling irked and ultimately decided to leave. This sparked a disagreement with her mother-in-law who accused her of being unfair to her son.
Was the wife being petty or was she justified in feeling ignored in this situation ? Join the conversation in the comments below.
Commenter called out for prioritizing petty dispute over husband’s health

Anesthesia stories steal the show, but YTA for leaving husband.
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Hilarious anecdotes of anesthesia-induced madness in the comments

Commenter calls out OP for being petty, hilariously suggests husband called for the Queen

Don’t be upset, it’s normal for patients to call for their moms

Commenter gets roasted for misspelling “anesthesia”.

Commenter accuses OP of being a victim and a JNDIL

Leaving your husband in the hospital because he called for his mom? YTA.

OP prioritized car over their own health, YTA according to commenters.

Commenter receives YTA judgement for prioritizing her ego over husband’s well-being

Commenter’s malapropism generates humor, but OP is deemed YTA.
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Commenter calls out OP for being immature and insecure

Anesthesia makes you say the darndest things!

Anesthesia can cause confusion – don’t be an immature a**hole

Commenter called petty for leaving husband after surgery

Anesthesia can lead to interesting hospital stories

Commenter receives harsh judgement, sparks no replies.

Don’t make it about you, be there for your husband
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Commenter judged harshly for decision, YTA.

Self-centeredness at its finest. YTA

Anesthesia-induced Kanye West chat lightens the mood.
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Commenter receives harsh judgement for leaving sick husband. YTA

Don’t be a drama queen, YTA for making it about you

Nurse assistant calls out OP’s overreaction to husband’s anesthesia call

Don’t be a petty a**hole, he was drugged up

Are they really the a**hole?

Don’t be TA, he needed his mom in that moment ♀️

Commenter shares personal experience with hospital visits and emotional distress

Don’t let your ego get in the way. YTA

Don’t be an a**hole, your husband was on drugs

Don’t be an entitled princess, be there for your husband. YTA

Husband called for his mom after surgery, YTA for leaving

Angry wife gets called out by MIL for being unreasonable

Standing up for yourself and rejecting coffee like a boss! ☕️

Wife called out for overreacting when husband called for mom.

Don’t be a drama queen. He was under anesthesia

Commenter receives harsh criticism for being unsupportive spouse.

Commenter calls out OP for making surgery about herself

Commenter called out for misunderstanding and lack of empathy ♀️

Commenter defends husband’s instinctual call for mother during medical crisis

Commenter called out for being petty and childish.

Don’t let your selfishness take over your love and care ❤️

Commenter berates OP for feeling unacknowledged by unconscious husband

Commenter gets called out for being the a**hole ♀️

Commenter receives harsh judgement for their immature behavior ♀️

Don’t be an a**hole, be there for your spouse ❤️

Don’t be a YTA, inform yourself about anesthesia effects

Insecurity rears its head in YTA comment.

Don’t be TA, he was just coming out of anesthesia ⚕️

Don’t be a YTA, stay for the surgery aftermath

Commenter called out for being selfish.

User calls out OP for leaving hospital over MIL’s support

Ouch! Someone’s not holding back.

Don’t let your feelings cloud your judgement, YTA

Commenter calls out OP for selfish behavior.

Commenter called out for being self-centered.

Last Updated on April 3, 2023 by Chifundo