At a family dinner, a man’s SIL makes a tasteless joke about his son with cerebral palsy. After he confronts her, things escalate quickly and he ends up telling her it’s good she can’t have kids. Was he wrong to say that? Read the post and decide for yourself.
Don’t judge me yet! Hear me out
A father shares his joy of raising a child with cerebral palsy
Supporting family through infertility struggles ❤️
Supporting family through infertility struggles ❤️
SIL questions if autistic son can date, brother defends her actions.
Defending his son’s ability, this dad shuts down ableism
Man defends his child against ableist comment by SIL
Parent defends disabled son against insensitive in-law
A family dinner turned sour when a sister-in-law made derogatory remarks about a disabled 17-year-old boy. The boy’s father and mother, who were present, defended their son against the insensitive comments and a heated exchange ensued. The post on Reddit has garnered mixed reactions with some siding with the parents while others think they overreacted. The incident highlights the need for more awareness and education on disability etiquette and the importance of treating disabled individuals with respect and dignity. In the next section, we’ll take a look at some of the reactions and comments from the online community.
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Commenter receives support for standing up against ableism.
NTA and agree, but SIL and brother can’t handle criticism
NTA for calling out ableist behavior towards son with cerebral palsy
NTA for standing up against ableist slur towards son
NTA. Commenter agrees with harsh but true statement. The brother and SIL have chosen to be ignorant about their nephew’s condition and want a ‘normal’ child they can’t have. Children are unique individuals and parents should accept them as they are ❤️
Commenter defends NTA judgement after harsh but deserved response.
Empathetic commenters share their own experiences and support the OP. ❤️
A heartwarming NTA comment, but be mindful of infantilizing disabilities ♥
NTA comment receives agreement and karma reference in replies ♀
Why some people should think twice before having kids
Defending a child with disabilities and putting rude family in place
Don’t let anyone bring you down, NTA. Love knows no boundaries! ❤️
Autistic commenter stands up against use of R-word
Parent stands up for son against slur, inspiring resilience
Don’t mess with this commenter, they don’t tolerate gossip ♀️
Don’t ask parents about their child’s intimate life. NTA.
Agreeing with the judgement and calling out bad behavior
The devastating impact of ableism on disabled people’s self-esteem.
Instant karma for ableist slur – NTA strikes back
Giving fair warnings doesn’t make you a bad person
Defending against ableism NTA stands up for those with Cerebral Palsy
Standing up for your son against bigotry. NTA
Standing up against ableism and defending their children. ✊
Calling out insensitive remarks and waiting too long, NTA
NTA and spot on! She sounds terrible.
Dealing with unsupportive family during pregnancy, NTA
Defending your child no matter what
You nailed it!
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OP’s response to sister’s ableism is a low blow
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Eye for an eye? NTA stands up to insulting SIL
Sometimes the truth hurts, but it’s still the truth.
Commenter calls out use of ableist slur; deems OP not at fault
Defending your child, always a NTA move
Parenting done right NTA for protecting your son.
Being a parent is a privilege, not a right. OP is NTA.
IVF struggles lead to shocking words. Everyone sucks here.
Commenter shares inspiring role model with CP, NTA verdict.
Discovering the truth behind infertility, NTA wins the day
Choosing to have kids is a gamble, and not a need
Aunt and Uncle don’t act like family.
Struggling couple defends themselves against insensitive family member. #NTA
Agreement with NTA comment
Defending a nephew with cerebral palsy against ableism
Standing up to a boundary-crossing SIL with a witty comeback
Commenter defends OP’s decision to not have children, calls SIL rude.
An ESH situation where education would have been better
Standing up against bigotry and protecting vulnerable children
Commenter calls out someone for their bad behavior
Supporting IVF choices and raising awareness about risks.
Commenter defends parent calling out bad behavior, NTA.
Not the a**hole! Tell us more, we’re intrigued
Support for standing up for disabled child
