Grandparents Accused of Favoritism over Wedding Gift

A grandmother and grandfather have been accused of playing favorites after giving their youngest granddaughter a cheaper gift than their other grandchildren . After buying the cheapest item on the registry and sending it in advance, the granddaughter called the couple furious that they did not love her enough to give her a more expensive gift. She then threatened to disinvite them from the wedding unless they bought her a better present. The couple ultimately decided to buy her a China set but withheld the $40k they had given their other grandchildren, feeling that she did not deserve it. When she found out, she accused them of discriminating against her. Now the family is divided and the couple is being called names. Read on for more details.

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A family drama has been brewing over a wedding gift, and it’s causing a rift in the family. An elderly couple gifted their grandchildren $40k checks for their weddings, but when the youngest granddaughter received a small air fryer, she was outraged. She called her grandparents cheap and demanded a better gift. The grandparents bought her a China set but did not give her the money. When she found out her cousins received the same gift of $40k, she accused her grandparents of discrimination. Now she is refusing to attend Christmas, and her mother is calling them AHs. What do you think? Is it fair for the grandparents to withhold the gift after the granddaughter’s behavior? Share your thoughts and reactions below.

Granddaughter’s entitlement and rudeness is painfully obvious. NTA.

NTA stands firm against entitled, spoiled behavior over wedding gift

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NTA. Bride values only money, not love. Emotional blackmail is atrocious.

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Don’t bite the hand that feeds you

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NTA!! Heartwarming story of grandchild’s love for grandma and appreciation.

Generosity is not an obligation, NTA. Life lessons are valuable

Uninvited over china set? NTA wins this round.

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NTA – Grandparents shouldn’t have to play favorites with gifts.

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ESH. Gift-giving with hidden tests is weird and manipulative.

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