In a shocking story of deception and betrayal, a man discovered that his oldest child was not his biological son after buying him a home DNA test. After finding out, the man decided to let his children choose who they wanted to live with and his oldest son decided to live with his biological father. Now, 6 years later, the man is refusing to give his son the college fund he has been saving for him since birth. Instead, he plans to give it to his soon-to-be stepson. The situation has caused tension and accusations of homophobia, leading many to question whether the man is in fact the a**hole. Read on to find out more.
Father discovers shocking truth about biological relation with children.

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Man denies non-biological son college fund over bio-dad dispute.

Father denies college fund to non-biological son after 6 years.

Father refuses to give non-biological son college fund

Father denies college fund to non-biological son over paternity issues

Son accuses father of homophobia after denying college fund

Father denies college fund to non-biological son, gives to step-son instead.

Father refuses college fund to non-biological son after he chose bio-dad
A father has refused to give his non-biological son, who chose to live with his biological father, access to a college fund started for his children. The father discovered his oldest child was not his biological son after DNA testing. The father gave his children an ultimatum on who to live with after his wife’s infidelity and the child in question chose to live with his biological father. The father is now being accused of denying his son the fund because he is gay, which he denies. The father plans to give the fund to his soon-to-be stepson instead. While some may see this as punishing a child for his past decisions, the father argues that the funds were meant for his children and since the non-biological son chose not to be his child, he does not have access to the funds. The situation raises questions about family dynamics, parental responsibility, and financial planning.
Debate over parental responsibility and betrayal with divided opinions.

Forcing children to solve adult problems is never okay ESH

Father refuses college fund for non-bio son, called out for selfishness

Co-parenting is important and asking kids to pick a side is wrong

Father forces ultimatum on 12 year old and denies college fund. YTA ♂️

Father struggles to understand why son chose bio-father over him

Father disowns non-biological son for wanting to know ‘real dad’

Father’s ultimatum and rejection of son’s emotions makes him TA ♂️

A 12-year-old was given an ultimatum and everyone sucks here
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Commenter calls out father’s unresolved issues with ex-wife.

NTA for withholding money, but YTA in a lot of other ways

Father disowns son for wanting to live with “real dad”.

Father and son estranged over past, son wants college fund.

Heartbreaking situation for a child caught in the middle.

Father refuses college fund for non-biological son; commenters divided on responsibility.

Wild story that leaves you speechless

ESH. Father and son both made poor decisions.

Father refuses to give college fund to non-biological son

Father feels betrayed after son’s sabotage, but still loves him ❤️

Father refuses non-biological son’s college fund. AH move or not?

Father refuses college fund after son chooses biological dad

Commenter calls out father’s unfair treatment of non-biological son

Heartbreaking

NTA for withholding college fund from non-biological son.

Father refuses college fund. Son makes rumor about disownment. ESH.

Father refuses college fund over son’s biological dad. ESH.
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12-year-old forced to choose between parents leads to regretful ESH situation

Questioning loyalty: Is there more to this story?

Father refuses college fund for non-biological son after rejection.

“2 parents > 1 a**hole” – Commenter on father’s college fund dispute

Father denies college fund to non-biological son – NTA comment

Father defends not giving college fund to non-biological son. NTA.

12-year-old caught in divorce and paternity drama; ESH (except child).

Divorce and kids shouldn’t be a competition. YTA

Divorce should not force a child to make tough decisions. YTA.

Choosing between parents is tough. Don’t make it worse.

Father accused of abandoning abused kids, YTA. No co-parenting.

Divorce is tough on children. Ultimatums are harmful. ESH?

Father’s actions deemed unacceptable by commenters.

Commenter calls out ‘Y T As’ and sparks debate

Father’s selfish actions hurt innocent child’s future

Commenter calls out father’s abusive behavior and bigotry.

Comment section backlash against MRAs.

Father stands his ground on college fund for non-biological son
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Father stands his ground and denies non-biological son college fund

Step-father stands his ground on college fund for non-biological son

Parental abandonment and manipulation: a clear YTA situation.

Father denied college fund to non-biological son, ex gets blame

Supporting OP’s decision to let non-biological son choose his real dad

Son lied about disownment for being gay, NTA in withholding college fund

Take control of your finances

Choosing between parents? Not cool
