A 42-year-old man married a widow he met eight months ago. However, he married her without his kids present. He told them after the wedding and they were not happy. But, his new wife is okay with it.
Who is the a**hole in this situation ? Read more to find out.
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Father marries without his kids present
In a heartwarming tale of love, a 42-year-old father married a widow just two weeks after their engagement. However, the wedding was not the typical fairytale event as the father’s eight children were not present during the ceremony. Instead, the kids were with their mother while the couple tied the knot in a simple waterfront ceremony.
The father had previously proposed to the widow in front of all the children who were thrilled about the upcoming wedding. The newlyweds had talked to the kids on several occasions during the week. However, upon their return, the children were upset that they had not been invited, causing a rift between them and their father.
While the bride is okay with the situation , the father is now questioning whether he made the right decision. Let’s take a look at the comments and reactions to this unconventional wedding.
Choosing a new partner over your own kids is unacceptable

Blending families or neglecting children? YTA for choosing new wife over his kids

Father marries without his kids present, ignoring their emotions. YTA.

Father marries widow without kids present – commenters say YTA and question rushed timeline

Father marries without kids, YTA. Kids feel unimportant

Father’s impatience causes rift in blended family. YTA

Father’s actions hurt his kids’ feelings.

Ouch Father’s actions earn him a YTA judgment.

Father’s hasty wedding decision leaves kids feeling excluded. YTA

Commenter shares personal experience and warns against choosing partners over kids.

Father prioritizes new wife over kids, deemed a**hole.

Stepmom excludes kids from wedding, commenter calls out YTA behavior.

NTA for small ceremony but YTA for not communicating with kids

Inappropriate and intrusive comment

Excluding kids from wedding? YTA. Family matters!

Father’s rushed marriage without kids present receives YTA judgement ⚖️

Father prioritizes new wife over his children. Commenters unanimously YTA.

Blended family tension: YTA’s wife treats his kids differently

Father remarries without kids present, labeled YTA in comments.

No sympathy for absentee father, clear YTA. ♂️

Curious commenter asks about absence of children at wedding

Father’s rushed marriage without kids present earns YTA judgment.

Father’s wedding without kids sparks YTA accusation

Father faces criticism for excluding kids from wedding

Father excludes kids from wedding, traumatizes them, and shows lack of respect. YTA.

Wedding without kids? YTA for not considering family union.

Father excludes kids from wedding, called out for being AH ♂️

Commenter calls out father for marrying too soon after widow’s husband died

Father excluded his kids from his wedding. YTA

Commenter calls out father for insensitive remarriage after widow’s loss

Commenter calls out OP for trolling and ticking boxes.

Redditor calls out OP with a savage username burn
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Father’s decision to exclude kids from wedding sparks outrage. YTA.

A real-life drama without the fairytale ending

Fusing families: Commenter calls out father’s AH behavior

Commenter predicts strained relationship with kids due to skewed priorities

Leaving kids out of wedding – YTA.

Father’s wedding without his kids present- prioritizing new family.

Stepmom excludes groom’s children from wedding, red flag alert

Wedding without kids? YTA merging families, raising teenagers is tough

Child’s perspective: Dad married without us, YTA times 100000000

Child of absentee father calls out groom for similar behavior. YTA ♂️

Excluding kids from dad’s wedding – YTA.

Redditors roast OP for being the a**hole in this situation

Red flag raised: widow didn’t want kids at wedding

“Heartbroken and in disbelief. Sending love and strength your way.” ❤️
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Father’s secret wedding causes long-term hurt and resentment. YTA.

Father rushes to marry widow without considering her kids’ grief

Commenter calls out father’s lack of spine in excluding kids.

Excluded from father’s wedding, child’s pain lasts for years.

Blending a family without the kids? YTA, according to commenters

Father prioritizes own needs over kids in rushed marriage

Father marries without kids, commenter questions if he’s TA

Hilarious comment about father’s new marriage and kids

Father’s rushed wedding causes irreparable damage with his kids. YTA

Stepmom shows no love for kids, YTA for not considering them

Father excluded his children from his wedding YTA, congrats on the irreparable harm to your relationship.

Commenter calls out father’s selfishness and predicts failure.

Newlywed dad called out for excluding kids from wedding. YTA.

Emotionally scarred at 7, still hurt at 38

Father’s wedding without kids scars relationship. YTA.

Father’s betrayal still haunts me after 15 years. YTA.
