When a father invites his son’s best friend to live with them due to the friend’s poor home life, the ex-wife accuses him of using the situation to keep their son from her. The father denies this and refuses to send the friend back to his drug-addict mother. The ex-wife is furious and the father calls her delusional.
The situation has caused tension and name-calling between the two. Do you think the father was wrong to invite the friend to live with them or should the ex-wife be more understanding?
Teen’s best friend’s tough home life raises concerns

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Son’s best friend moves in permanently, bringing joy to family

Son prefers living with dad, causing tension with joint custody.

Co-parenting struggles and compromise for the sake of their son.

Co-parenting struggles: Dad proposes new living arrangement for son.

Ex-wife accuses father of using their son as leverage

Father refuses to send son back to drug-addict mother

Father dismisses ex-wife’s request as ‘delusional’ and ‘crazy’

Navigating co-parenting: When insults cross the line.

Son denied visitation due to lack of space at ex-wife’s.

Father takes in son’s best friend, ex-wife calls him delusional
A heartwarming gesture turned into a heated argument when a father took in his son’s best friend who had a difficult home life. The father’s ex-wife accused him of using the situation to his advantage, leading to name-calling and hurt feelings.
Read on to see both sides of the story and the reactions from others.
NTA dad stands up for son’s living situation, commenters support

Father receives support for putting his son’s needs first ❤️

Father called ex-wife delusional for bad home request. NTA.

Father is fighting to give his son a better living situation

Father praised for being a great role model despite ex-wife’s criticism ❤

Defending a decision to provide a safe home for a child

Co-parenting drama: Ex-wife accuses father of spiteful behavior, but he’s not having it.

Protecting a child from an unstable environment

Suggesting a solution with empathy and understanding

Co-parenting is hard, but prioritizing a child’s safety is crucial

Father defends his actions, but is criticized for name-calling.

Ex-wife won’t let son’s friend stay over. NTA?

Putting a child in danger to avoid losing him? NTA

Empathize with your ex’s perspective to improve co-parenting

Heartwarming story of gratitude towards OP for helping a teenager ❤️

Son prefers father’s house for valid reasons, NTA.

A 16-year-old son wants to spend less time with his mother.
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Helping a kid out of a shitty situation #NTA

Father defends son’s living situation against cruel ex-wife.

Co-parenting conflict over son’s friend staying, BSAH (both slight a-holes here)

Suggesting a compromise for the boys to hang out together.

Taking in a child shouldn’t be up for debate. ♂️

Validate your ex’s feelings, even if you don’t give in.

Providing a stable home for the kid, NTA all the way!

Encouraging NTA comment suggests better bonding activities for teenager.

Stepmom wants son’s friend to live with drug addict. OP NTA

Father defends decision to take in son’s best friend.

Ex-wife tries to control father’s home, gets called out. ♂️

NTA for taking in a sweet boy despite ex’s objections ❤️

Divorces are hard. Show good faith. An apology helps

Son’s custody battle at 16, NTA suggests legal recourse

Ex-wife is ‘sipping on a cup of smooth crazy’ according to NTA commenter, suggests a change of perspective for the child’s best friend.

Providing a stable home for son, but communication needs work

Support for taking in son’s friend and empowering son’s decision.

Empowering your child’s agency over custody arrangements.

Step-siblings make for a quieter house during online school

Saving a kid’s life amidst all the NTA noise

Protecting Adrian: Legal action or emancipation for NTA father

Father’s compassion for son’s friend dismissed by delusional ex-wife.

Father brings son into his home, hailed as a great dad

Co-parenting nightmare, son caught in the middle

Let the kid decide

Providing a stable & healthy home for a young man

Is the ex’s new family causing their son to avoid her?

NTA. Despite trying to compromise, ex-wife won’t budge. Much respect

Legal guardianship for son might be in his best interest

Father’s actions praised, son’s freedom discussed

Father receives support for keeping son in safe environment. ✊

Being a bro to a kid in need NTA wins!

Commenter sarcastically asks if ex-wife wants to turn off AC

Acts of kindness can save a life. ❤

Supportive comment calling out ex-wife’s cruel behavior towards son.

Dad takes in son’s friend, ex-wife calls him delusional.

Navigating co-parenting with difficult exes.

Not the a**hole, but what led to this disagreement?

Unapologetic and straightforward response. ♀️

OP receives support for being a good person

Co-parenting win! Invite your child on ex’s week

Ex-wife definitely earned her ex status
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Ex-wife called out for delusion, father not the a-hole

Ex-wife’s delusion doesn’t justify punishing son’s father. NTA

Father praised for being a good example for his son

Step-siblings and no privacy, NTA dad takes son in

A heartwarming thank you for being a positive influence ❤️

Providing stability and security to a kid in need.

NTA. OP is praised for providing a good home to a vulnerable young person despite the ex-wife’s disgusting request.

Celebrating the victory of NTA
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Son’s reluctance to leave friend raises questions about living situation

Father takes in son’s friend; commenters praise him for his actions ❤️

Concerned commenter praises OP for being an inspiration
