A professional chef husband and his chef sister-in-law have a tense relationship, which recently came to a head when the sister-in-law made a racist comment about his cooking. The husband, who is of Asian descent, called her out for the comment and left the family gathering. The incident caused a major rift in the family, with some members taking sides and arguing. The husband’s wife is now caught in the middle, begging him to apologize to put an end to the fighting. However, he refuses to apologize, seeing it as a matter of principle. The situation has escalated to the point where the sister-in-law may have lost her job and family members are excommunicating each other. Read on to find out more about this heated family feud.
Skipping the drama? Here’s the TL;DR version

Navigating family dynamics as a mixed-race couple

Professional chef feud: SIL compares herself to Ramsay and Bourdain

Chef husband shuts down racist SIL’s cooking criticism

Tension rises as chef husband confronts racist SIL’s cooking comment.

Chef husband stands up to racist SIL’s comment, family feud starts

Racist comment causes family feud and begs for apology.

Is calling out racism among family members justified?

Feuding chef family members criticize each other’s cooking skills

Speaking up against racism brings backlash and workplace consequences ⚠️

Family feud over racist comment on husband’s post

Family feud erupts after racist comment, FIL threatens OP

Drama unfolds in the comments, stay tuned for updates

Racist SIL insults Asian husband, gets demoted and might get fired

MIL goes ballistic after racist FIL cooking comment, family feud ensues

Facebook feud over racist comment turns into clusterf**k flame war

Family feud reaches boiling point

A reaction GIF sums up the tension perfectly

Tension rises as family feud erupts over cooking comment.

Updates on the ongoing family feud over racist cooking comment

Update post not allowed, OP gets shut down by moderator.

Update on chef husband’s family feud – with permission

Chef faces backlash for calling out SIL’s racist comment

MIL’s surprise visit reveals family drama after racist comment incident

Meet Doug, the catalyst for a family feud

Racist comment leads to family feud, divorce and chaos

When family feuds spill over to social media

Fiery family feud erupts over political differences on social media

Family feud over racist comment leads to break-ups and police.

SIL’s cooking comment causes family feud

Chef faces racism in workplace, family feud ensues.

Sarah’s racist comment leads to blacklisting in high-end establishments

A bittersweet ending to a family feud. Thanks for reading

A gif expressing relatable frustration amidst a family feud.

Chef husband stands up to racist SIL, family feud erupts
A mixed-race couple’s family feud erupted after the husband, a trained chef, called out his sister-in-law’s racist cooking comment. The SIL, also a chef, works at an upscale French restaurant and constantly criticizes the husband’s cooking skills. After the SIL made a racist comment about the husband’s Chinese restaurant, he swore at her and called her ‘a racist piece of shit’. The incident caused a massive fight and divided the family, with some members taking sides. The situation escalated when the SIL lost her job and was blacklisted from high-end establishments. The fallout led to breakups and excommunication of some family members. Despite the bittersweet justice, the husband is trying to be a decent person and help the SIL find work. Stay tuned for updates on this fiery family feud.
NTA for calling out racist comment. Family feud ensues.
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NTA husband stands up against racism, disappointed in wife’s enabling.

Commenter supports OP and calls out racist behavior, others agree.

NTA called out sister-in-law’s racism towards Asian cuisine. Replies support.

NTA chef husband shuts down racist SIL’s cooking comment

Defending Chinese cuisine against racist SIL’s attack, NTA prevails.

Chef husband shuts down racist comment, sparks food debate

Calling out racist behavior at work backfires on SIL. ♀️

Chef husband stands up to racist SIL, refuses to apologize.

Chef shuts down racist comment, reveals family’s true colors

Chef husband rightfully defends himself against racist SIL’s insults

Racist SIL ruins family dinner, MIL stands up, and OP’s wife needs to take a stand.
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Asian American woman shares experience with racist SIL and husband’s support.

Wife’s silence on racist SIL’s behavior is harmful

Standing up to racism in the kitchen ✊

Racist SIL faces consequences for insulting Chinese cooking. #Karma

Racist SIL gets called out, blames chef husband for job loss.

Support for standing up against racist family members

Don’t apologize for calling out racism ♂️, let Sarah be the litmus test.

Standing up against racism in the family

Support for NTA comment and spicy remark about SIL’s behavior

Calling out racism in the family, NTA stands their ground

Defend yourself! ️ Don’t let anyone make you apologize! ✊

Spouse takes stand against racism in family, NTA verdict.

Standing up against racism in 2021. NTA wins family feud.

Don’t apologize, her behavior is subversively racist ♂️

Unapologetically standing up to racism

Stand your ground against racists, don’t apologize for calling out.

Standing up to racism, but risking family harmony. NTA.
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Standing up against racism and unprofessionalism, NTA wins feud. ✊

OP faces backlash for calling out racist SIL’s rant at work

Spouse’s compliance with racist family members sparks larger issue ⚠️

Standing up to racism, OP deserves an apology
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Standing up against racism in the family

Buckle up, drama incoming!

Chef husband shuts down racist SIL’s cooking comment. #NotTheA**hole

Spicy clapback shuts down racist comment, family feud ensues

Support for calling out racism, no apologies, and standing up for oneself.

Supportive comment advises against validating racism with gentle explanation.

Stand your ground against racism, NTA

Supportive comment to OP, condemning racist behavior with positive outcome.

Comment section craving updates like

Standing up to racism in the kitchen. NTA wins.

Cook-off challenge to settle the score?

NTA handles racist comment with class and respect

Man stands up against racist SIL, blamed for her work troubles

Clapbacks and consequences. NTA holds their ground amidst family feud.

Fighting racism in the kitchen: Chef husband stands up to SIL’s superiority complex

Former French chef supports OP and slams SIL’s cooking skills

Asian stereotypes and casual racism are not a joke.

Standing up against racism, even within family, is crucial ✊

Standing up to the racist SIL, NTA wins family support
