When it comes to dividing the inheritance, it can often bring up tensions and disagreements within families. One man is now facing backlash after choosing to give his share of the inheritance to his struggling brother instead of his sister who has been trying to have a baby for over a decade. The sister has asked for the money to go towards her last round of IVF, but the brother argues that his brother needs the money more as he has 3 small children. The situation has caused hurt feelings and a rift within the family. Read on to learn more about this difficult decision and see what others are saying about it.
Inheritance distribution among siblings after father’s death

Sibling rivalry over inheritance: a discussion about dividing assets.

Who should get the inheritance? Childless sibling or siblings with kids?

Sibling rivalry over inheritance: brother or sister who deserves it?

Sibling rivalry over inheritance sparks heated debate

Sibling drama escalates with accusations of AH and insults.

Navigating inheritance and infertility: one commenter’s perspective

Who deserves the inheritance: brother or sister?
Money can bring out the worst in families, especially when it comes to inheritance. One man is facing a dilemma over who should get their father’s estate. While he doesn’t need the money, his siblings have differing opinions. The brother has children and is struggling financially, while the sister has been trying to conceive for over a decade and wants to use the money for IVF. The man is torn between helping his brother and supporting his sister’s dream of having a child. He made a comment that has caused hurt feelings and accusations of insult and belittlement. The situation raises questions about the importance of living children versus the desire for a child and the role of money in family relationships. In the next section, let’s take a look at some reactions and advice from the community.
Sibling inheritance debate: OP justified but could have been nicer

Commenter sympathizes with sister but agrees with prioritizing brother’s family.

NTA but don’t brag about money. Divide inheritance to avoid conflict.

Agreement and disagreement over word choice and inheritance decision

Dividing inheritance between brother’s existing kids and sister’s potential kids.
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Brother wants to give inheritance to sibling, but insulted her infertility.

Adopting a child at 41 might be a better option

IVF can be emotionally draining, consider other options .

Choosing to help struggling brother and his kids. NTA.

OP receives 100% YTA for tone-deaf comment on fertility treatments

Sibling rivalry over inheritance leads to tough financial decisions

Dividing inheritance equally seems fair, but not always practical.

Choosing inheritance recipients okay, but speak kindly to sister

Secure the future for all nieces and nephews with trust fund

Sibling rivalry and inheritance: drama avoided or just beginning?

Commenter called out for being an a**hole in inheritance dispute.

Dividing inheritance fairly might not always be easy

Sibling rivalry over inheritance, YTA for belittling her struggles

Debate over inheritance and family planning sparks heated discussion

Prioritizing needs vs. wants with inheritance

Sibling rivalry over inheritance sparks fiery exchange

Supportive comment defends against sibling’s greed.

Commenter calls out OP for poor handling of inheritance situation.
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Considering your father’s wishes and family needs may be helpful

Fairly splitting inheritance among siblings – NTA’s dilemma

Fair share or favoritism? Splitting inheritance among siblings.

27M suggests splitting inheritance, gets called out for fertility advice.

Sibling inheritance debate: Financial assistance or tough love?
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Sibling rivalry escalates to inheritance dispute with harsh IVF comment

Being practical with inheritance.

Sister wants inheritance for imaginary children, commenter says NTA ♀️

Split inheritance equally to avoid drama and hurt feelings

Theoretical babies vs imaginary babies: Splitting hairs?

Debate on IVF and privilege sparks in comment section.

Money is yours, but kindness goes a long way

Facing family disputes over inheritance? Reality should be your guide ✨
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NTA. Engaging argument against imaginary friends and questionable financial planning.

Don’t let inheritance tear apart family. Apologize and compromise.

Commenter defends NTA judgment, reply points out niece/nephew neglect.

Commenter calls out foul behavior in ESH situation

Splitting inheritance unequally? YTA and risking future family resentment

NTA for prioritizing living children, but ouch, harsh comment

Sibling wants inheritance for IVF, is it worth it?

Sibling rivalry over inheritance: equal or not?

Supporting struggling parents and children is not being an a**hole

Choosing present kids over imaginary ones? NTA, harsh but fair. ♀️

Splitting the inheritance: ESH suggests an easy solution

Keeping quiet about inheritance decisions may prevent family drama.

Commenter calls out selfishness in prioritizing hypothetical child over family

Family drama over inheritance – ESH for their actions

Supporting the living over the unborn

Debate over IVF necessity sparks judgement and opinions.

A win-win solution for the inheritance dispute

Choosing between siblings’ inheritance sparks conflict. Splitting may be best.

Dependent children come before unborn siblings. Be understanding. ❤️

Money troubles for sister, but OP not responsible. NTA

IVF struggles may impact inheritance decisions

Brother struggling with kids gets inheritance, but sister deserves empathy

Sibling inheritance feud: commenter defends against judgement with empathy
