A baker has found themselves in a sticky situation after a friend asked them to make 8 cakes for her wedding. They agreed to make one-tier cakes to be used as centerpieces, but the bride later changed her mind and demanded three-tier cakes with intricate decorations. The baker politely declined and offered a compromise, but the bride got angry and accused the baker of sabotaging her big day. After more drama, the baker rescinded their offer and the situation escalated even further. Now the baker is wondering if they were in the wrong. Read on to find out what happened and who’s the a**hole in this story.
Bridezilla demands impossible cake, chaos ensues during wedding planning

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Bridezilla demands impossible cake, leaving baker in a tight spot.

Baker offers alternatives but bridezilla still throws a fit

Bridezilla demands impossible cake and throws tantrum when refused ♀️

Bridezilla demands cake, then chews out baker for declining

Bridezilla goes ballistic over cake, but who’s really hurting here?

Groom-to-be stands up to demanding bridezilla with ultimatum

Friend demands impossible cake, harasses me. Feeling guilty.

Seeking validation after Bridezilla meltdown, am I the a**hole?

Redditors unite to support baker after bridezilla’s tantrum

Bridezilla’s tantrum leads to OP seeking therapy during lockdown.

Avoiding Bridezilla with friend discounts? Smart idea!

A justified defense for contacting the groom about the cake.

Bridezilla threatens baker, police involvement possible.

Grateful bride thanks community for support amidst wedding drama.

Bride demands impossible cake, I refuse, she goes ballistic
A bride has demanded a friend make three-tier cakes for her wedding, despite the friend’s limited baking experience. When the friend politely declined and offered a compromise, the bride lashed out and even enlisted friends to send r**e messages. The friend ultimately withdrew from making the cakes, leading to further harassment from the bride and her associates. After the friend contacted the groom, he revealed that this behavior was not out of character for the bride and he was considering calling off the wedding. The friend has since cut ties with the bride and her friends but is still struggling with feelings of guilt. What do you think – was the friend being selfish or was the bride being unreasonable?
Bridezilla demands impossible cake, friend refuses, gets harassed. NTA.

Block the bridezilla and her minions for a peaceful life ♀️

NTA for refusing impossible cake request from bridezilla.

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, OP refuses, friends reveal true colors

Friendzilla strong-arms for impossible cake, goes ballistic. You’re NTA.

NTA! OP’s ‘friend’ was abusive and ungrateful for her kind offer

Bride demands 8 free cakes, gets mad when asked to pay

Offering to help friends can be risky, but this bridezilla takes it too far. NTA.

Toxic bridezilla and her enablers cut out of your life

Don’t let a Bridezilla ruin your life

NTA for standing up to a bridezilla, but getting blamed? Therapy needed.

Setting boundaries with friends turned clients is important.

Don’t let a bridezilla control your emotions, stay in control!

Encouraging response to a tough situation.

Supportive comment on relationship saved by cake refusal

Block the bridezilla and avoid the drama

Bridezilla gets served a reality check by talented baker
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Free cupcakes for a wedding gift? Count me in! ❤️

Don’t waste time on cake, spend it on telling her off! ♀️ NTA.

Spotting red flags early can save you from Bridezilla-zilla ♀️

Friend demands impossible cake, becomes bridezilla, you’re NTA

Bridezilla demands free cake, harasses baker, and ruins own relationship

Don’t let a bridezilla bully you into an impossible cake! NTA

Friend demands impossible cake, insults baker. NTA, cut off.

Friend or free labor? Bridezilla gets what she deserves ♀️

Beware of fake friends who just want to use you! NTA

Commenter supports OP’s decision to inform fiancé, gets backlash.

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, but commenter dodges toxic bullet.

Being an awesome wingman, NTA wins the day!

Cut toxic people out of your life. Not everyone stays forever ✌️
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Baker explains the cost of wedding cakes, shuts down bridezilla

You did the right thing by standing up for yourself

Don’t let entitled people bring you down. Block and move on

NTA stood up for themselves and warned the groom-to-be

Support for boyfriend’s advice, potential for relationship growth ❤️

Bridezilla goes ballistic over cake, commenter says NTA with shock.

Friend demands too much from baker, bridezilla behavior ensues. NTA.

Setting boundaries in cooking, NTA refuses Michelin-level demands

Don’t let Bridezilla ruin your talent and friendship! NTA

Bridezilla demands 3-tier cake, insults baker, and loses friend. NTA.

Stand up against online harassment with evidence and support.

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, gets 8 for free and still complains

Supporting a friend through tough love and therapy.

Cutting off a toxic bridezilla? NTA strikes again.

Honesty saves friend from bad marriage, NTA

Stand firm and don’t let the bridezilla bring you down

Short and sweet: NTA, run

Standing up for yourself and saving a wedding!

Friendship over after bridezilla demands impossible cake. NTA wins.

Cutting toxic people out? NAH, Secret Circle fan? YTA.
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Bridezilla demands impossible cake, NTA handles it like a champ

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, clashes with baker. NTA takes heat.

Don’t blame yourself, NTA. Bridezilla needs a reality check.
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Bridezilla demands free cake, verbally abuses friend. Friend refuses. Narcissistic behavior.

Cutting out a bridezilla ♀️

Baker stood firm against entitled bridezilla’s cake demands

Don’t let a monster bridezilla bully you into being a pro baker . NTA!

Bridezilla’s bad behavior might cost her groom…

Stand up for yourself and seek legal help! NTA
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Advice for the groom-to-be on dealing with a bridezilla

Cutting toxic ties, moving on. NTA wins.

Bride demands impossible cake, harasses baker. Baker saves groom’s heartbreak. #NTA

Join the fun on r/weddingshaming and r/choosingbeggars

Don’t underestimate the time and skill required for perfection
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Stand your ground and prioritize your self-respect.

Bride demands impossible cake, OP refuses, bride goes ballistic. NTA.

NTA! Bridezilla took advantage of your kindness and boundaries.

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, gets refused, and goes ballistic. NTA.
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Weddings bring out the worst in people, sorry for your loss.

Baker stands up to bridezilla’s impossible cake demands, avoids disaster.

Last Updated on April 7, 2023 by Azka