Getting married is supposed to be one of the happiest days of your life, so it’s normal to feel anxious and want everything to go perfectly. But one bride thought that her cousin’s friend was trying to steal the spotlight by wearing a matching outfit with her daughter to the wedding. The woman reached out on Reddit to find out if she was wrong to do that and ask for advice on how to resolve the conflict. Below, you can read the whole story, as well as some of the replies from users who were invested in the situation. Then let us know what you think in the comments, and if you’ve ever worn a matching outfit with your little one, we’d love to hear about it.
Bride calls woman ‘jerk’ for wearing a matching outfit with her 4-year-old daughter in attempt to ‘draw attention away’

Bride’s cousin feels someone was trying to upstage her wedding by wearing a matching outfit with her 4-year-old daughter

A bride needs her daughter’s help to look her best, but a guest with a matching outfit gets her steamed!

The bride and her 4-year-old daughter rocked matching outfits, but she wasn’t happy when another woman copied their style to “draw attention away” from her

Bride angry at woman for wearing matching outfit with her 4-year-old daughter ‘to draw attention away from her’

Bride makes a shocking accusation against another guest who wore a matching outfit with her 4-year-old daughter

‘I was called a ‘jerk’ for wearing a matching outfit with my 4-year-old daughter to the wedding’

The bride is asking if she committed a social faux pas and how to apologize – *did she go too far?*

Mommy and daughter twinning – but is it a social mistake?
A mom who chose to dress her daughter in an outfit that matched her own was recently criticized for it. The mom and daughter coordinated in sea-foam green jumpsuits with a white heart pattern and the mom’s husband even had a matching tie. While some of her family members thought the matching outfits were cute, the bride didn’t share the sentiment – she accused the mom of dressing her daughter in a matching outfit to draw attention away from her. Is this a real social mistake, or is the bride overreacting? Read on to find out more and to hear people’s reactions.
No wedding dress code

Apology needed?

Bride called out

NTA: Bride ✋, You

NTA! ♂️
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Bridezilla’s freaking out!

NTA Bride Overreacted

NTA: She’s a nut job

Bride lashes out at wedding guest

A grown woman jealous of a 4-year-old?

NTA You’re not a jerk!

Bride jealous of 4-year-old’s outfit

Matching outfit drama

The bride’s overreacting – NAH?

NTA: Bride’s Self-Esteem Issues

YTA or NAH?

90% of the time it’s nonsense ♀️

No apology needed!

Bride’s jealousy overshadows ✨

Matching outfits

Bridezilla needs to chill!

NTA: It was not their fault

A mom and daughter’s ♀️outfit is , NTA!

♀️ Bridezilla strikes again!

Not the a**hole

Bride’s petty jealousy

Bride’s special day or not,

Matching outfits

No a**hole here

No a**hole here ♀️

♀️ NTA: Bride gets called a jerk!

NTA: Not the a**hole

Brides today: ♀️ NTA
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NTA but what an outfit!
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Mom calls out a bride for ♀️ judging daughter’s outfit

NTA: ♀️Matching outfits with your daughter isn’t wrong!

Families coordinating outfits

Bride’s outrage backfires!

NTA: Cute, not jerk
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♀️ Bride calls out a woman for ‘drawing attention away from her’

Mom and daughter matching outfits

Not The A**hole

Bride calls out woman for wearing matching outfit with daughter

NTA: Kids draw attention ♀️
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A wholesome comment

Mommy-and-me outfits

Bride finds her big day isn’t so special

NTA: Newlyweds need to adjust their mindset

Mom wearing matching outfits with daughter NTA

NTA: ✋ looking for trouble?

Bride’s response *disgraceful*

OP did nothing wrong ♂️

NTA: Brides who demand attention ♀️

NTA for wearing matching outfits!

Bride wrongly accuses woman of stealing her attention

Bride’s day not special without all eyes ?

Investigating a wedding

NTA –

NTA: Sweet and haha!

NTA – reassurance needed

Holy crap! NTA!

Bride discovers ‘white dress girl’ at her wedding ♀️

♀️Bride’s insecurity strikes again
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Wedding etiquette ♀️

NTA: Don’t Apologize!

Bride’s outrageous behavior
