A woman was asked to plan a bachelorette party and spent three months preparing for it. The bride then changed the location last minute to her grandmother’s beach house, causing frustration and inconvenience for the planner. The woman called the bride out on her decision, but is she in the wrong? Read on to find out what happened and give your thoughts.
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Last minute bachelorette party changes causing friction among friends.

All set for bachelorette party, but bride changes location. AITA?

Commitment to bachelorette party caused missed opportunities, frustration shared.

Last minute bachelorette party switch-up, bridezilla or reasonable request?

Bride changes bachelorette party location last minute, but is it justified?

Bridezilla or justified? AITA for being upset? ♀️

Bride changes bachelorette party last minute, AITA for being upset?

Bridezilla alert? Changing bachelorette party plans last minute.

Bride changes bachelorette party location last minute, AITA?
Planning a bachelorette party is no easy feat, but what happens when the bride changes the location last minute? One woman recounts the frustration she felt after spending months planning a four-day party, only to have the location switched to the bride’s grandmother’s beach house. Was the bride inconsiderate for changing plans without consulting her planner? Or should the planner have been more understanding of the bride’s desires? Join the debate in the comments below.
Bridezilla alert! OP is NTA for being upset.

Bride’s 4-day bachelorette party sparks debate, some call it ‘b******t’.

NTA. Return what you can, pack up the rest and make that her gift for the party.
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Bride changes party last minute, NTA but don’t waste energy. Lesson learned.

Bride’s last-minute location change causes financial burden, NTA for being upset

Professional planners and venues don’t care, NTA for being upset

NTA for being upset about last minute bachelorette party change

Bride changes bachelorette party location last minute, NTA requests reimbursement

Last minute location change causes bachelorette party fallout

Bridezilla ditches bachelorette party plans, NTA for being upset
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Commenter declines expensive bachelorette party invite, NTA

Consider a refund and reevaluate your involvement in the wedding

Bride changes bachelorette party, friend upset. NTA or YTA?

Bride changes party plan last minute, friend calls her out ♀️

Bride changes bachelorette party last minute, NTA for being upset. Send her a bill

Support your brother, not his bride.

Planning a bachelorette party can be tough, but don’t let it ruin relationships

Deduct your costs and don’t go.

Bride changes party location last minute, friend annoyed. NTA.

Bride changes plans last minute, commenter demands reimbursement

Bridezilla alert! Commenter suggests dropping out of wedding. NTA

Wedding parties now multiple days? NTA for being upset

Agreed. Changing plans last minute is always frustrating.

Bride changes bachelorette party location last minute, friend calls her out on being inconsiderate. NTA.

Don’t be a bridezilla, let someone else handle it ♀️

Nostalgic commenter misses simpler times of bridesmaid parties

Passive-aggressive revenge plan for bachelorette party relocation

Destination weddings can be costly, NTA for being upset
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Bridezilla alert : A patient friend frustrated with last-minute changes.

Remember, actions speak louder than words.

When pettiness meets revenge

Bride changes party location last minute, friend upset. NTA.

Short and sweet: No a**holes here!

A wise mother reminds us of good wedding etiquette
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Friend’s unreliability leads to bachelorette party drama

Bride changes bachelorette last minute, commenter NTA, and upset.

Bridezilla moves bachelorette party last minute, NTA for feeling upset

Don’t eat the cost, but don’t take over planning either ♀️

Politely decline with a reason, NTA for being upset

Bring the party to you NTA.

Bride changes bachelorette location last minute, NTA is upset

Commenter predicts disaster for bachelorette party, calls out inconsiderate bride.
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NTA for being upset, but offering to sell party goods.

Asserting boundaries at bachelorette party, NTA

Wedding festivities lasting longer than the wedding day?

Don’t let a wishy-washy bride cost you more

Commenter deserves a refund, but tread lightly to preserve friendship.

Bridezilla? A NTA commenter warns of family tensions ahead.

Bachelorette party gone wild: Entitled bridezilla on the loose

Respect your time and energy. Don’t waste it on disrespect.

Get that money back! NTA

A fellow maid of honor recommends setting expectations early
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Short bachelorette parties: YTA or NAH?

Bridezilla alert! NTA for being upset about last minute change.

Cancel everything?! NTA means business.

Commenter calls out inconsiderate bride, advises OP to bow out. ♀️

Event manager agrees, brides need to get a grip. NTA

Throw your own party NTA for cancelling plans.

Bridesmaids plan bachelorettes, but bride controls guest list.

4 day bachelorette party?!? You’re not the only one confused!

Being a bride doesn’t excuse bad behavior, NTA stands firm.

Bridezilla sparks debate over bachelorette party plans

Guest considers opting out of wedding party after classless move

Wedding gift or not? The etiquette of party changes.

Bridezilla alert! NTA, but is it worth salvaging the friendship?

Multiple-day bachelorette parties: fun or too much?

Don’t waste your time and money on a selfish SIL ♀️

Commenter suggests asking bride to cover wasted costs, cutting ties.

Don’t let her ruin the fun, enjoy the party!

Last Updated on March 21, 2023 by Alfe Mercado