When a family has a long-standing tradition , it can be hard for an individual to break away and pursue their own path. This is the dilemma facing an 18-year-old girl, whose family has a five-generation tradition of joining the military. Despite her family’s expectations, she wants to pursue her own dreams. However, when she tells her mom, a huge fight ensues. Is she the a**hole for not carrying on her family’s tradition? Follow this story to find out what happens when family expectations clash with personal choice.
Breaking family military tradition: 18F refuses to join.
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Breaking family tradition: refusing to join the military
For five generations, the oldest member of this family joins the military, but this 18-year-old girl wants to break the tradition. The pressure from her family has been mounting as her mother, who was in the army, has been forcing her to take fitness courses and study for the ASVAB. However, the recent talk of becoming an officer was the final straw. After the death of her younger brother, she has been going along with the tradition but now she has decided to stand up for herself. Her mother is disappointed and called her a disappointment for not following the tradition. But, does she have a right to choose? Let’s dive into the comments and reactions to find out what people think about this situation.
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Breaking family tradition: Following your own path is not selfish ❤️
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Army Veteran supports OP’s decision to not join military. ✊
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Breaking tradition: NTA for refusing military. Family expectations unfair.
Starting a new tradition #MilitaryNotForMe #NTA
Breaking tradition and choosing your own path. ♂️ NTA
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Following someone else’s dream is a waste of time
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Breaking tradition and standing up for oneself.
Live life on your own terms
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Choose your own path ️. Don’t let family traditions define you.
Breaking tradition: Refusing military service is not a**hole move
Breaking free from tradition and following your passion
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Choose your own path! NTA for refusing military enlistment.
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Breaking family traditions doesn’t make you the a**hole. NTA
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