Many guys will try to shoot their shot with women multiple times, despite their repetitive dislike or disinterest in them.
Some guys will take no for an answer, while others do not get the hint. When they are the latter, we do enjoy watching them get dragged and put in their place, especially when people share into n the internet for us to read.
Recently, one woman was the subject to a proposition via text.
Shared on Imgur , the girl received a text from a guy she knew asking her if she wanted to go out.
Clearly, it was late because his first question was, “are you awake?” If you’re having to ask that, it’s definitely the wrong time to ask.
When she didn’t reply, he kept texting her.
Turns out, she didn’t even have his number saved in her phone.
But, he continued to try his flirtatious banter on her, despite that she didn’t have his number save dor know who he is, at all.
The girl was kind enough to explain why she didn’t respond.
While he was seemingly annoyed at her not responding, she said she was sleeping at 1 AM when he originally texted her.
Then, she said that she was “flattered,” but she wasn’t interested in going out with him at all.
Instead of taking that as a “no,” he persisted on asking her out again.
The guy thought it was okay to ask her to come out with him “as a friend.”
She instead replied that she is still not interested, her life has been crazy lately, and she is focused on the friendships she already has.
Later, he texted her again.
For some reason, this guy thought it was okay to wait a day or two and text her again, asking if she had “changed her mind yet,” with a kissing emoji. She simply said, “no.”
Then, he said she was “playing hard to get.”
He continued texting her, despite her polite rejection of his date offer.
Then, he said he has been “really patient” with her all week and wanted to take her out that weekend. He also said that she “owed him an explanation” as to why she was “not interested” in going out with him.
News flash: she doesn’t need an explanation.
She then decided to stop being polite.
The girl explained that she was kind enough to politely tell him “no” four times when he continually asked her out, but now she was annoyed.
She said that she saw the way he treated female customers at a job she worked at and that he was a “predator.” She also said no one is playing “hard to get” when they say no.
He then began to judge her based on her clothing and appearance.
Apparently, the guy said he “knows women enough” to know that this girl “was playing hard to get” for sometimes wearing things with cleavage.
He also then said she was going to “bang 3 different dudes this weekend,” instead of being with him and it was “totally her loss.”
The girl then put him exactly where he deserved.
In response, the girl told him before she blocked him, she was going to tell him that whenever a woman says “no” he has to understand that they’re not “playing hard to get,” that they are saying “no.”
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Additionally, if she’s such a “slut,” that he obviously must have something wrong with him if he can’t bag her.
People online agreed that this guy was trash.
One commenter online said that the “cheesy” lines like “you’re drop-dead gorgeous” don’t ever work on women and that men should just “drop dead” if they think that they are going to use that line when trying to bag a girl.
Another agreed with the girl in the texts that “playing hard ot get” is not a thing.
One other person said “playing hard to get” is not realistic.
Women are liberated now and when they say no, they mean it. They aren’t looking to play games and flirt, they’re genuinely just not interested in you at all. Pick up on it and move on.