Father considers cutting son’s college fund over refusal to visit

Divorce is hard on everyone, but what happens when you find out one of your children isn’t biologically yours? This father struggled to connect with his son after learning the truth and made some mistakes along the way. When his son refuses to visit him, he threatens to cut his college fund. Is he being fair or going too far? Read on to find out the full story and weigh in on what you would do in his situation.

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Father considers cutting son’s college fund over refusal to visit

Father threatens to cut son’s college fund over refusal to visit

A father is contemplating cutting his son’s college fund after he refused to visit him and his new family. The son, who is not the biological child of the father, had expressed his displeasure at being left out of conversations and not being called by his father during his absence. The father had apologized for his actions, but the son refused to visit him, citing his preference to only hang out with him. The father, who had assumed that the son wanted a relationship with his biological father, later discovered that he was mistaken, and invited the son to live with him. However, the son refused, and even declined to visit his half-sister after she was born. Frustrated, the father threatened to cut his son’s college fund, leading to a heated exchange between the two. While some may argue that the father’s actions were justified, others believe that he was being an AH for threatening his son. What do you think? Read on for more comments and reactions.

Father abandoned son for years but now wants to cut college fund. YTA.

Father plays favorites, gets upset when son doesn’t visit. YTA

OP is being a bad father and needs to prioritize his son’s feelings

Father rejected son for 2 years, now wants to blackmail him for college?

Father threatens to cut son’s college fund over trauma – YTA.

Father punished innocent son for mother’s infidelity. YTA.

Father threatens to cut son’s college fund over new baby; YTA

OP’s misguided attempt to prove love by cutting college fund

Don’t let your child’s future suffer. YTA for considering it.

Father punishes son for his own mistakes. YTA. ‍♂️

Mother’s infidelity caused trauma, seek professional help for reconciliation ❤️

Neglectful father considers cutting son’s college fund for not visiting ‍♂️

Don’t cut college fund over visit disagreement. YTA.

Father wants to cut son’s college fund over refusal to visit

Don’t cut his college fund over your ex-wife’s actions. YTA

Father’s attempt to cut son’s college fund backfires. YTA.

Control over money shouldn’t come before your child’s love ❤️

Internet calls out father’s blackmailing tactics in family dispute

Father threatens son’s college fund, gets called out and denied sympathy

Father distances himself from son and is now upset about being isolated. YTA ‍♂️

Father’s poor handling of relationship with son leads to conflict.

Father neglected son for years, now holds college fund hostage. YTA.

Commenter calls out father’s unfair treatment of son, YTA.

Don’t punish your child for adult problems. YTA

Father’s yo-yo parenting causes strife in father-son relationship

Give him space to heal. YTA.

Father rejects child for 2 years, now considering cutting college fund.

Don’t punish your son for his mom’s mistake. Keep trying

Father tries to cut son’s college fund over visit refusal

Commenter slams OP with fiery insult

Father’s threat to cut son’s college fund backfires. YTA x2

Father rejected son at 13, now wants to cut college fund. YTA

Commenter calls out OP as the a**hole

Father traumatized son and now threatens college fund. YTA

Father’s lack of support for trans son – YTA ‍♂️

Father faces backlash for considering cutting son’s college fund

Father faces criticism for considering cutting son’s college fund

Father threatens son’s future over own abandonment issues. *YTA*

Father’s rejection caused son to reject him. YTA

Empathy and understanding can mend broken relationships. YTA.

Father neglects son for 2 years, blames son, and threatens financial support

Father’s selfishness jeopardizes son’s education. Seek counseling for reconciliation.

Father threatens to cut college fund, but commenters say YTA.

Father’s attempt to manipulate son into visiting backfires, YTA

Be supportive. He needs time and therapy, not ultimatums.

Commenter calls out father’s behavior as a**hole, recommends therapy.

Divorce can cause lasting emotional damage for children. YTA.

Father threatens to cut son’s college fund over his refusal to visit

OP’s favoritism and extortion of college fund earns him YTA label

Commenter calls out father’s behavior, predicts damaged relationship

Father’s unfair punishment sparks outrage in comment section

Don’t be an a**hole parent. Act like an adult

Father considers using money to threaten son into relationship. YTA.

Father left son for years but expects immediate forgiveness? YTA

Commenter thinks father is in the wrong (YTA)

Commenter thinks father is being unreasonable.

Father threatens to cut college fund over innocent son’s visit refusal