When chronic pain sufferer, 43F, hires a trainer to help manage her pain, she never expected to be accused of getting too friendly with him. After giving her trainer a Christmas card with a $50 gift card, the trainer’s wife confronts her and demands she switch trainers. But was she in the wrong? Read on to find out the unexpected twist in this AITA story.
Throwaway account reveals personal trainer drama
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Grateful woman gifts personal trainer $50, gets backlash, AITA?
Angry wife demands I fire my trainer, staff steps in ♂️
Navigating personal boundaries and respect, AITA?
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Woman demands I fire trainer over gift card, AITA?
A woman hired a personal trainer to help manage her chronic pain, and as a token of appreciation gave him an early Christmas card with a gift card. Later, the trainer’s wife approached her and accused her of getting too friendly with her husband. The woman refused to switch trainers and got the staff involved when the wife got aggressive. Friends have accused her of being disrespectful and not honoring the wife’s wishes. The woman wonders if she is in the wrong and is seeking advice. Read on for reactions and comments.
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NTA. Personal trainer goes above and beyond. Talk it out ️♀️
Supporting OP’s decision to keep personal trainer despite wife’s interference.
Is the commenter’s personal trainer in danger?
Defending personal trainer from nosy stranger, NTA
Gift card drama, NTA. ♀️
Spouse interfering with workplace? NTA, and friends off base
Standing up for herself and her trainer, NTA with
Stay out of Alex’s marital problems, NTA.
NTA commenter defends personal trainer against psycho wife
Support for personal trainer after entitled customer’s outburst ❤️
Professional boundaries respected, wife overreacts to gift card. NTA.
Polite gift message, but trainer’s wife crossed boundaries. NTA.
Spouse distrust, not your problem. NTA
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Don’t let a ‘psycho’ stranger control your life ️♀️
Supportive reply defends OP, friends criticized for bad advice.
Professional relationship with trainer, NTA. Consider informing him privately.
Being loyal to your personal trainer, even during tough times.
Standing up for your personal trainer, NTA!
What’s the hidden truth behind this seemingly justified decision?
Personal trainer’s client receives an early holiday gift, NTA.
Fellow chronic illness patient praises OP’s progress and perseverance ❤️
Standing up for yourself and your personal trainer, NTA
Generous Christmas gifting, or pet snail care?
Stand your ground! Don’t let her insecurities affect you.
Standing up for personal boundaries, NTA
Avoiding drama at the gym, NTA takes the high road ️♀️
Showing appreciation to a personal trainer, NTA
Sweet gesture of appreciation, NTA ❤️
Standing up against stalker-like behavior, NTA!
Generosity is key! Be kind to those who serve.
Stand your ground! Don’t let someone else control your decisions.
Spouse demands firing over gift card to personal trainer, NTA.
Commenter suggests Alex’s wife has trust issues, gets called out
Standing up for your personal trainer, NTA wins again!
Supportive response to standing up for oneself, #NTA
Supportive reply to NTA comment defending tipping personal trainer.
Defending personal trainer, friends suck, stranger’s motives questioned
Boundaries crossed, not your responsibility. NTA ❌
Trainer approves of OP’s decision to keep personal trainer ️♂️
Accusations of infidelity over a work call – yikes
Stand your ground! NTA for not firing your personal trainer
Update on personal trainer, NTA.
Professional boundaries respected, friends overreacting.
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A deleted update leaves us wondering, what happened next?
Supportive comment defends personal trainer against entitled wife, NTA
Standing up to gym bullies like a boss, NTA ️
Not the a**hole for choosing my own personal trainer
Improving life, crazy ex-wife confronts trainer. NTA. ️♀️
Mystery wife accuses personal trainer, NTA clears his name
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Not the a**hole, but what’s the story behind this?
Showing appreciation for a personal trainer, NTA ️♂️
Support for OP’s decision to keep personal trainer,
Supportive comment defends OP against jealous wife’s demands
Paying for a personal trainer and thanking them, NTA ️
Spread kindness, not calories NTA
Personal trainer defends client against overbearing partner
Showing appreciation to my personal trainer caused unnecessary drama
Married to a personal trainer, demands to fire him? NTA.
Celebrating relief from chronic pain and standing up to unreasonable demands
Uncommon gift to personal trainer, NTA. Mail people’s SOs?
NTA for following protocols, reasonable gift, strange morals from friends
Spread positivity, not insecurity. NTA for showing appreciation
Don’t let anyone control your life ♀️ #NTA
Chronic pain relief and a gift card, friend’s opinion irrelevant
Appreciating your trainer with a gift, NTA
Setting boundaries with personal trainers: NAH or NTA?
Spouse confronts over personal trainer compliment, NTA.
Jealous wife interferes with personal trainer, NTA, feel safe
Wife tries to sabotage husband’s business, commenter says NTA
