A couple with an infant son had an argument after the wife put the baby in bed with the sleeping husband before leaving for work. The husband expressed concern for the child’s safety and asked the wife if she wanted their son to get hurt. The argument escalated and the wife left with the baby, staying with her sister and not answering the husband’s texts or calls. The husband is questioning whether he was in the wrong for the way he approached the situation. Read on to find out more about the argument and to weigh in with your opinion.
A new dad talks about his wife and son.

Lazy husband sleeps while hardworking wife heads to work

Struggling with a crying baby in the morning?

Wife risking baby’s safety for work? Dad left worried

Worried parent expresses concerns about co-sleeping with baby

Father’s misguided advice leads to wife leaving with their baby

Father and mother argue over baby’s safety while co-sleeping

Wife leaves with baby after argument, ignoring husband’s attempts to reconcile.

Husband questions parenting, wife leaves with baby. Conflict ensues.

Hardworking husband questions wife’s parenting, she leaves with baby

Father expresses concern over wife’s unsafe sleeping arrangements for infant
A new father expresses his concern over his wife’s decision to leave their infant son in their bed while he’s sleeping. He worries about the safety risks involved and tries to talk to his wife about it, but instead of understanding his concerns, she accuses him of being a bad father. This leads to a heated argument and her leaving with their baby. The father wonders if he was in the wrong for approaching the situation the way he did. Read on to see what others have to say about the situation and whether the father’s concerns are justified.
Engaging discussion on parenting responsibilities and communication, ESH.

ESH, husband needs to step up on Tuesdays and hire a sitter.

Sleeping in vs. safety concerns: ESH for different reasons

Parenting requires sacrifices, not guilt trips. ESH, but more you

OP’s negligence leads to wife leaving with their baby. YTA.

Lazy dad refuses to take care of baby, wife leaves with child

Father refuses to care for child one day a week. YTA.

Parenting disagreement leads to dangerous situation for infant

Sleep deprivation causing marital issues.

Mom defends man’s request to be woken up, gets support

Both parents share blame for endangering child with different perspectives
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Commenter calls out neglectful behavior, sparks debate on co-sleeping.

Wake up, dude! Listen to her before it’s too late.

Parenting fails: neglecting child leads to wife leaving with baby

Commenter calls out OP’s laziness with strong YTA sentiment

Struggle of a night shift worker with a baby

Working parent expresses concern over safety after no sleep, NTA.

Don’t be a neglectful parent Check on crying babies

Lazy husband gets called out for neglecting his baby duties ♂️

Parenting is hard, but leaving with the baby isn’t the answer

Parenting duties neglected, YTA for not waking up for child.

Sleeping with baby risky. ESH for ignoring baby’s cries.

Sleep deprivation is no joke. NTA for needing rest

Step up and show respect for your spouse and child. YTA

Parenting requires stepping up and being responsible.
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Lazy husband receives YTA judgment for neglecting his parenting duties.

Parenting 101: Wake up and care for your damn son ♂️
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Parenting disagreements lead to a tense situation.
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Parenting disagreements lead to dangerous situations. ESH needs compromise.

Parenting requires effort and teamwork, not neglectful sleeping habits.

Mother’s actions endangering child and relationship with husband. TA.

Get up and take care of your kid

ESH. Risking baby’s life is worse, but solution needed.

Sleeping with the baby is dangerous. ESH for not finding solution.

A strong reaction to a serious situation.

Deserving dad wants sleep after 70-hr work week, NTA

Father criticized for not helping with child and work routine ♂️

Father criticized for neglecting baby’s safety on day off

Proactive dad or insensitive husband?

Keep the baby safe and dad responsible with a pack and play

Commenter calls out neglectful parent with a harsh YTA judgment

Man refuses to help wife with baby, causes endangerment. YTA.

Working 70 hrs and getting only 3 hrs sleep, NTA

Commenter suggests dad lied, sparks vote controversy.

Sleeping in with babies? ESH in this comment section

Father disregards responsibility, blames wife. YTA

Parenting disagreements lead to wife leaving with baby ♀️

Parental negligence and blame game. ♂️

Don’t compromise baby’s safety or ignore cries. ⚠️

Commenter calls out laziness with sass.

Sleeping in over crying child? YTA with dash of ESH

New parents struggle with sleep and safety for their baby.

Working overnights is tough and lack of sleep is draining

Mother defends leaving with baby after father neglects child on his day

Sleep-deprived dad not TA, wife should consider his work schedule

Commenter calls out lazy dad, demands he pull his weight

Don’t accuse your wife of wanting to harm your child
