Family drama alert! Buckle up, folks, because this story is a wild ride! Meet our exhausted, introverted protagonist, who’s been stuck babysitting her needy toddler nephew while his mom (her SIL) keeps disappearing for hours on end! Will our hero stand her ground and reclaim her alone time, or will she crumble under the pressure of family expectations? Let’s dive in and find out! ♀️
Family Drama Alert! SIL Expects Me to be a Full-Time Babysitter!

Introvert Struggles: Needing Alone Time After Long Days ♀️

Burnout Alert! University Stress Takes Its Toll

Auntie Duties: Playing, Feeding, Bathing, Oh My!

SIL Takes Advantage: Disappearing for Hours! ♀️

Toddler Troubles: Needy Nephew Ruins Alone Time

4-Hour Disappearing Act! SIL Leaves Me Hanging! ♀️

SIL Plays the Tired Mom Card Guilt Trip Ensues!

Enough is Enough! I Stand My Ground! ♀️

SIL Tries to Ditch Nephew Again! I Say NO!

Guilt Trip Fails! I Refuse to Back Down!

Family Feud! Mom & Sis Call Me the A-hole!

Godmother Duties? I’ll Pass, Thanks! ♀️

Update: Bro Apologizes Mom Sees the Light!

SIL Gives Me the Silent Treatment But I’m Feeling Appreciated!

Family Feud Erupts Over Babysitting Duties!
Our poor, exhausted protagonist has been stuck watching her needy toddler nephew while his mom (her SIL) keeps vanishing for hours! ♀️ When she finally puts her foot down and refuses to babysit, all h*ll breaks loose! Her mom and sis call her an a-hole and even pull the godmother card! But our hero isn’t backing down – she’ll give up that title if it means being a 24/7 babysitter! ♀️ The internet has spoken, and it’s time to see what they have to say about this family drama! ️
Godparenting doesn’t mean free childcare, NTA

Actual mother/father should take care of their child. NTA

Being a godmother doesn’t mean free babysitting. ♀️

Godmother taking advantage, NTA prioritizes uni. Brother’s involvement unclear.

Boundaries respected. NTA for refusing to babysit constantly.

Setting boundaries with family is important.

Don’t be a doormat! Stand up for yourself

Setting boundaries with respect and fairness. NTA

Godmother refuses to be taken for granted, family outraged!

Setting boundaries is important. You’re not the a-hole!
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Setting boundaries and saying no takes courage . Stand strong!

Being a godmother doesn’t mean being a babysitter. NTA

Setting boundaries with family during vacation time

Defending the decision to not babysit, citing lack of responsibility.

Family treats godmother like a slave, they suck

Sister shirks responsibility, makes teenager raise nephew. NTA.
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NTA. Breakdown of time. Sleep: 8 hours. Food prep and eating: 3 hours. Work: 8 hours. Looking after someone else’s child: 2-4 hours. You are not your SIL’s unpaid help.

Setting boundaries and quitting may be necessary. You’re NTA.

Godmother refuses to babysit, internet supports her decision.

Clear NTA stance with a warning to call the police!

Respect boundaries! Godmother not obligated to babysit nephew. NTA

Don’t let them guilt trip you! Stand your ground! NTA

Entitled parents need to take responsibility for their kids

Godmother’s role is spiritual, not parental. NTA.

Godmother prioritizes responsibility over babysitting, family outraged

Mother’s condition unknown, godmother not obligated to babysit. NTA.

Godparents for emergencies, NTA for setting boundaries.

Godmother not obligated to babysit, family needs to understand boundaries.

Surprised and Confused: The Godmother’s Responsibility

Introverted godmother not obligated to babysit. NTA

Godmother not obligated to babysit, SIL needs to step up

Setting boundaries with family.

NTA! Don’t let them guilt-trip you into daily babysitting.

Entitlement of SIL outrages commenter, shares own experience. NTA

NTA deserves alone time, Godparents don’t need to raise children

Godmother not obligated to babysit nephew, NTA

“Godmother” doesn’t mean free babysitter. Set clear boundaries

NTA, but maybe skip the birthday gifts

Babysitting is a favor, not an obligation.

NTA sets boundaries for entitled family’s free babysitting expectations

No obligation to babysit. Hire a sitter.

Not responsible for nephew, leave early to prevent babysitting.

Godmother stands her ground against entitled family members.

Introverted godmother not obligated to babysit entitled sister’s child

Godparent is not a free babysitter. NTA for refusing.

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for being considerate of time

Setting boundaries is important, don’t let others take advantage.

New mom defends godmother’s decision to not babysit nephew.

Setting boundaries for free childcare, NTA wins family feud!

NTA, godparent role is not a childcare helper. Stick to guns

NTA. Being a godmother doesn’t make you a free babysitter.

Setting boundaries with family and not expecting help.

Mother leaves toddler with godmother without asking, commenter shocked

Being a godmother does not mean being a second parent.

Set boundaries early to avoid assumptions. NTA, SIL didn’t listen.

Godparent role misunderstood, commenter clarifies with Catholic context

Godmother role ends at church, NTA for refusing babysitting ♀️

Godmother disappears without notice, NTA for not wanting her to babysit

Compliments on English skills for NTA comment!

Introverts need space too! NTA

Godparenting is not a substitute for parenting. NTA

Setting boundaries with family as a caregiver

NTA: A godmother is not a free babysitter

Self-care is important and necessary. NTA.

NTA stands up to entitled family member, refuses to be unpaid babysitter

NTA! Godmother not responsible for unannounced babysitting

Godmother not obligated to babysit or raise nephew as alive parents.

Sassy comment shuts down outraged family. NTA wins.
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Set boundaries and stick to them. NTA for refusing.

Don’t be a substitute spouse! Godmother not obligated to babysit. NTA

Godparent doesn’t owe babysitting, even if they love kids

Avoiding babysitting with ninja-like stealth

Stand your ground and put family in their place.

Don’t let anyone guilt trip you, it’s your time ⏳. #NTA

Taking breaks as a parent: entitlement or necessity?

Being a godmother doesn’t mean being a full-time babysitter

God mother’s role not a babysitter. Set boundaries

Godmother refuses to babysit nephew, family outraged – NTA
