Picture this: you’re going on a last-minute work trip and need some new clothes. You and your lovely wife of 7 years make a late-night Walmart run to grab some essentials. You ask her to wash and pack your new clothes while you finish up some last-minute planning. Everything seems to be in order, but when you arrive at your destination, you discover your slacks are missing! Who’s to blame? Let’s dive into this tale of laundry, miscommunication, and last-minute packing chaos.
First Time Poster’s Dilemma

Last Minute Work Trip

New Clothes Needed

Washing & Packing

Packing the Suitcase

Verification Time ️♂️

Arrival and Missing Slacks

Upset Phone Call

Laundry Room Investigation

Frustration and Miscommunication

Unreasonable Expectations? ♂️

Trying to Make Amends

Feeling Guilty

Edit/Update: Apologies and Understanding

Wife’s Surprised Reaction

The Great Slacks Debacle: Whose Fault Is It?
Our protagonist finds himself in a pickle when his slacks are missing from his suitcase upon arrival at his hotel. He calls his wife, upset and frustrated, only to find out that she had accidentally left them unwashed in their bedroom laundry basket. The couple argues over who’s to blame, with the wife saying she didn’t realize he meant the slacks when he asked if she packed his pants. She also points out that it’s unreasonable for him to be upset with her when they are his pants, and she wasn’t expected to do a whole second load of laundry at midnight. In the end, our protagonist apologizes, realizing that his stress from traveling and worrying about work played a role in the situation. The couple makes amends, but not without some surprising reactions from others. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Responsibility falls on YTA for not checking own luggage

Don’t be an a**hole over missing slacks

A man questions his wife’s packing skills and gets roasted.

Ungrateful husband receives deserved YTA judgement and laundry advice.

YTA alert! Don’t treat your wife like a maid

User calls out husband’s entitlement and lack of planning skills.
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Redditor calls out ungrateful husband, calls for apology and improvement. Yikes.

Ungrateful husband gets angry at wife for not knowing his laundry plans. YTA

Red flag! YTA gets called out on laziness and entitlement.

Husband slammed for mistreating wife over missing slacks

Ungrateful husband expects wife to read his mind and do everything

Wife helps pack for husband’s trip, he flips out. YTA confirmed.

Man blames wife for missing pants, gets called out for entitlement.

Don’t treat your wife like a maid, YTA
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Ungrateful husband criticized for mistreating wife over missing slacks

Husband blames wife for missing pants, gets called out. YTA

YTA for blaming your wife for your own mistake.

♂️ YTA for weaponizing your incompetence and blaming your wife.

User calls out OP’s entitlement and immaturity

Ungrateful husband demands wife buy clothes, gets called out as YTA

User calls out ungrateful husband for treating wife like a maid.

31-year-old man mad at wife for not packing his clothes

Ungrateful husband demands wife do his laundry and packing. YTA.

Checking before leaving is better than blaming her. YTA
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Responsibility for packing lies with the individual, not spouse.

Ungrateful husband gets called out for expecting mind reading abilities

Ungrateful husband needs to grow up and do his own laundry

Ungrateful husband blames wife for packing the wrong pants. YTA.

Ungrateful husband gets called out for childish behavior

User calls out husband for blaming wife over misplaced slacks.

Husband blamed wife for lost slacks, YTA according to comments

Grown-ups pack their own clothes, don’t guilt trip partners. YTA

Furious commenter calls out entitled husband, suggests hiring a maid

Self-reliance is key for a happy marriage. YTA needs to pack his own bags!

Ungrateful husband blamed wife for his mistake. YTA, apologize!

Responsibility for clothes is key, YTA comment says it all.

Acknowledging mistakes and apologizing is key in a healthy marriage

Grow up and pack your own sh*t next time, YTA

Verdict: YTA. Don’t blame your wife for your missing slacks.

Sassy comment shuts down husband’s entitlement. Check the hamper

Ungrateful husband gets called out for blaming wife over slacks

Ungrateful husband throws tantrum over missing slacks, called a toddler.

Savage comment shuts down entitled husband.

Ungrateful husband expects wife to pack his suitcase, gets called out. YTA

User calls out lazy husband for overreacting about missing pants.

Pack your own bag and do your own laundry, YTA

User calls out ungrateful husband for lack of appreciation.

Grown man throws tantrum over missing pants, gets called out.

Wife packs for kid’s trip, husband expects same treatment. YTA.

Wife calls out entitled husband for blaming her for missing slacks.

Responsibility for packing bags falls on adults. YTA called out.

User calls out husband for expecting wife to pack for him.

Don’t blame your wife for your laundry mistake, YTA

Gratefulness is key, YTA! Your wife sounds lovely

Judgemental commenters unanimously agree: YTA for flipping out over slacks

User calls out entitled husband for lack of respect towards wife.

Misogyny and entitlement alert! YTA for sure.

User calls out husband’s entitlement and suggests simple solution

Ungrateful husband criticized for expecting wife to pack for him.

Controlled expectations for daughter’s packing, but YTA for judgment.

Grown man throws tantrum blaming wife for his mistake

Gender doesn’t excuse entitlement. Pack your own clothes.

Ungrateful husband blamed wife for his own bad communication skills

User calls out husband’s ungrateful behavior and lack of responsibility.

Husband takes last minute trip, forgets slacks, blames wife. YTA

User calls out entitled husband for overreacting to missing pants

Responsibility rant: YTA should pack his own clothes!

Ungrateful husband gets called out for blaming wife for his mistake

Savage reply to entitled husband blaming his wife.

User calls out husband for being TA over laundry mishap.

User calls out husband for treating wife like a maid

YTA needs to grow up and take responsibility ( )

Taking responsibility is a power move

User calls out the husband’s immaturity and praises the wife’s strength

Don’t be an entitled husband, do your own packing!
