Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Imagine being married for over a decade, only to have your spouse betray you in the worst way possible… by cheating on a guys’ trip while you’re at home with the kids! The audacity! But wait, it gets worse. This cheating ex has the nerve to ask our protagonist to watch the kids on the anniversary of his infidelity! Can you believe it?! ♀️ Let’s dive into this juicy tale of betrayal, boundaries, and self-respect.
The Heartbreaking Betrayal

Dealbreaker: Infidelity Ends It All

Ex Commits Felony, Loses Job!

Ex Wants to Celebrate… Cheating Anniversary?!

♀️ Putting My Foot Down: Not Happening! ♀️

An Annual Dilemma: AITAH?

ℹ️ The Custody Arrangement ℹ️

Keeping the Kids Out of the Conflict

Both Parents Love the Kids

Locked Out of My Own Home

⚖️ No Interest in Pressing Charges ⚖️

️ Recorded Conversation Reveals Defeat ️

Hedgehog Update: Thriving!

Ex’s Alcohol Abuse & Neglect

Kids’ Safety Not at Risk

Ex Upset Over Shortened Trip

❤️ Kids Always Loved & Wanted ❤️

♀️ Holding Firm to My Boundaries ♀️

Internet Jury, What’s Your Verdict?
Well, well, well… this story has more twists and turns than a soap opera! From a cheating scandal to a felony charge, starving pets to alcohol abuse, it’s a rollercoaster of emotions. Our protagonist has been through the wringer, but she’s standing her ground and refusing to watch the kids on the anniversary of her ex’s betrayal. Some might say she should just get over it, but we say: know your worth, queen! Now, let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama. Grab your popcorn, because the responses are bound to be spicy! ️
Ex wants to celebrate cheataversary with other woman and wants you to make it easier for him.
♀️ NTA

Celebrate your freedom! Take yourself out and pamper yourself.

NTA. Sassy and savage. Hope he gets what he deserves.

Ex wants her to babysit on his “Cheataversary”. NTA stands up.

Ex-husband celebrates leaving his wife and baby as anniversary. NTA.

Mom shouldn’t have to watch kids on ex’s ‘Cheataversary’ ♀️

Prioritizing mental health is important. NTA for setting boundaries.

A darkly humorous response to a post about burning bridges.

Celebrate your freedom and show him how much fun! NTA

Concerns raised about leaving kids with ex-partner with criminal record

Document his changes, show your love to kids, adjust custody.

Warning signs of potential danger. Glad you’re safe now. ⚠️

Ex expects to celebrate ‘cheataversary’ with kids. Entitled garbage ♂️

NTA! OP’s ex committed a felony and animal cruelty. Get custody!

Legal protection against ex’s irresponsible request. NTA.

NTA, but some commenters are clearly projecting their own issues

Ex expects mom to babysit on his “Cheataversary”

Celebrating freedom from an a**hole ex on ‘Cheataversary’

Commenter slams ex for animal abuse and vindictive behavior.

Protecting the kids from a felonious father.

User advises against bailing cheating ex out on “cheataversary”

Ex expects mom to babysit on ‘cheataversary’, NTA shuts it down

Want revenge on a cheating ex? Take him to the cleaners! #NTA

Throwing a divorce party on ‘cheataversary’

Standing up for oneself in the face of cheating ex

NTA suggests taking kids, let them see selfishness of ex

Ex expects too much after cheating? Press charges for destruction.

Protect yourself and your kids from the cheating, abusive ex.

Stand up for your parenting schedule and celebrate freedom

Celebrating getting rid of ex with some sass. #NTA

Turn his cheataversary into a yearly celebration

Standing firm against cheaters

Co-parenting goals! Putting the kids first

Pressing charges can protect your kids from an abuser.

Stand up for your rights and don’t let him get away

NTA stands up to cheating ex for neglecting parental responsibilities.

Co-parenting advice with a hint of curiosity

Celebrate your independence day! #NTA

Set boundaries with ex on custody, leave cheating out ❌

Don’t let him guilt you for his obvious bullshit.

Demanding full custody after disrespectful behavior –

Put the children first, be the positive influence in their lives. ✌

No obligation to help. Just say you’re busy

Protect your kids and document everything. Press charges! NTA

Create a new holiday to celebrate freedom with your kids

NTA stands up to cheating ex’s power play.

A cynical take on cheating and the potential for premeditation.

Recording his requests is a good idea. Stick to routine

Take the kids and run! Your ex sounds terrible.

Putting the kids first is always the right choice

Beware of controlling ex who lies to kids

Suggests taking action against abandoning father, prioritize kids’ safety.

Reporting cheating ex is crucial to prevent future victims. NTA.
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NTA for not wanting to babysit on ‘cheataversary’, but don’t do it out of spite. ♀️

Take back the power and celebrate your freedom

NTAH. OP should document everything and threaten to report him for child abandonment. Consider pressing charges and sending a text stating disagreement.

Great advice on documenting and formalizing communication for custody battles

Opinion: Watching the kids on ex’s cheataversary – YTA or NAH?

NTA, but focus on what’s best for you and the kids

NTA for keeping track of cheating ex’s actions.

Just say you’re not available and avoid toxic drama

Prioritizing children during and after a breakup

No need to accommodate the cheating ex on his ‘cheataversary’.

Keep written records and alter shared parenting agreement if necessary.

Celebrate the freedom from your ex on his “cheataversary”!

Protecting the children should be top priority. NTA.

Supportive comment with humorous alibi suggestion.
