They Spent My WHOLE Wedding Fund on My Sister’s TWO Weddings! I’m LIVID

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama on our hands that’s sure to get your blood boiling! Meet our 27-year-old protagonist, stuck in the middle of a sibling rivalry that’s about to explode! Her parents had a grand plan to help their daughters tie the knot in style, but the pandemic had other ideas! Now, with the wedding fund in shambles and emotions running high, it’s time to pick a side! Will our heroine stand up for fairness or be labeled a jealous old maid? Let’s dive in and find out! ‍♀️

Family Wedding Fund Drama: The Saga Begins

Parents’ Grand Plan: 30k for Wedded Bliss!

Pandemic Pandemonium: Wedding Plans Go ‘Poof!’

Venue Villainy: No Refunds, No Mercy!

Sister’s Elopement Bombshell: Family in Tears!

Wedding Dress Woes: Alterations Needed!

Parents’ New Plan: Give Sister Another 15k!

27 and Single: Am I an Old Maid?!

No Jealousy Here: Just Wanting Fairness! ‍♀️

Wedding Fund Woes: Am I Wrong to Be Angry?

Sister Gets Two Weddings, I Get None?!

Well, well, well… looks like our protagonist is in quite the pickle! Her sister’s dream wedding turned into a pandemic nightmare, leaving the family wedding fund in ruins! Now, the parents want to give the sister ANOTHER 15k for a do-over, leaving our heroine with zilch! The family’s in tears, accusations are flying, and the drama is so thick you could cut it with a knife! But wait, what does the internet think about this hot mess? Let’s see what kind of sage advice and witty commentary the online world has to offer!

Losing your wedding fund to your sister’s weddings? Not cool

Supportive comment offering advice and empathy for similar experience.

Elope and specify your funds were spent already

Parents broke promise, double-funded sister, NTA for feeling disrespected.

Parents faced with pandemic-related loss of funds, try to be fair to both daughters by giving sister $10K now + $5K to OP for future use. NAH.

Parents prioritize sister’s wedding, leaving OP with no funds. NTA.

Don’t blame your family, be angry at the situation.

Parents prioritize sister’s wedding over yours, smaller events can be gorgeous

Suggests fair compromise amid family wedding drama

Your wedding fund stolen by parents? Definitely NTA.

Practical advice, but don’t dismiss OP’s feelings.

Gifted money is never something you should count on ‍♀️. Let go of the 15k and move on.

OP is being called out for entitlement. ‍♂️

Wedding fund stolen for sister’s weddings. Commenter NTA.

Bride-to-be not given her wedding fund, but sister had two?
NTA

Stand your ground and demand fairness from your parents.

Suggestion to split remaining funds; life’s not fair, get over it ‍♂️

No funds for wedding, NTA fears eloping, family drama ahead.

Suggests communication and compromise to resolve wedding fund issue

Demanding equal treatment for weddings from parents. ✌️

Sister can’t afford two weddings but family expects lavish celebration?

Elope and remind them of this. Petty gift revenge

Feeling like the lesser sibling is tough. NTA, but compromise?

Family spent wedding fund on sister’s weddings, NAH, save for future

Suggests legal recourse and fair compromise, empathizes with brother’s exclusion.

Empathetic comment offers potential solutions for bride’s wedding fund dilemma.

Lawyer up to get wedding deposits back from venue

Harsh judgement on entitlement to wedding fund, no replies.

Poor communication and gender bias caused wedding fund disaster

Splitting the remaining funds between sisters is a fair suggestion.

Sister’s not TA, Mom and wedding pressure are.

Fair solution proposed to split wedding fund between sisters.

Unfair parents spend wedding fund on sister’s weddings. NTA.

Parents favor sister’s wedding, doubt OP’s future. NTA.

Don’t expect to win this one, but don’t stand for it!

NTA for being upset, turn it into an opportunity

NTA, stand your ground and tell your parents to f*** off.

NTA predicts sister’s wedding will be canceled due to pandemic.

Unfair distribution of wedding funds leads to family conflict. ‍♀️

Overlooked middle child speaks out. NTA, go off on own

Could splitting the remaining fund be a fair solution?

Suggests family vacation and eloping as a solution.

NTA suggests inexpensive wedding alternatives.

Curious about the sister’s perspective on the wedding debacle

Parents favoritism is wrong, don’t invite them to your wedding.

Suggests splitting wedding cost, warns parents not to cross line.

Clear NTA. Sister’s misfortune doesn’t justify losing €15k gift. Fairness matters.

NTA, but let it go. Parents won’t listen, sister eloped.

Fair compromise suggested for unequal wedding fund distribution.

Parents took away wedding fund for sister’s weddings, NTA

Suggests a compromise but supports OP’s decision.

Fair solution suggested for wedding fund debacle during pandemic.

Fair point, split was agreed. Elope, save money, f**k venue!

Is OP being unreasonable?

NTA youngest of 4 shares their wedding funding experience.

Hold a grudge and don’t invite family members to wedding

Eloping and having a celebration later is a great idea

Don’t get mad too soon. Give them a chance

Money can tear families apart, but it’s not your money.

Suggestion to split remaining funds for both weddings fairly.

User says OP is entitled and parents aren’t obligated to give money

Suggests a fair solution for both sisters’ weddings.

Curious about brother’s wedding fund contribution, no replies yet.

15k for your wedding, not your sister’s. NTA

Parents prioritizing themselves and sister’s wedding over promised funds.

NTA. Encouraging sister to sue venue for $15k refund.

Wedding day is least important day; expensive weddings = expensive divorces.

Unfair treatment by parents in wedding planning. NTA.

Middle child denied wedding fund for sister’s 2 weddings. NTA.

Favoritism can cause family rifts. NTA for feeling hurt

Family used wedding fund for sister’s wedding, commenter says NTA