Get ready for a wild ride across continents in this gripping tale of love, loss, and tough decisions! As a dual citizen of the US and Australia, I’ve had quite the international upbringing. But things took a dramatic turn when I found myself pregnant at 15 while studying abroad! With the support of my parents, I navigated this challenging situation, but the biodad of my child wasn’t exactly thrilled. Buckle up, because this story is about to get even more intense!
A Tale of Two Continents: My International Upbringing

The Final Year Down Under: A Cultural Experience

Unexpected News at 15: A Pregnancy Abroad

Parental Support in a Difficult Time

Breaking the News to the Biodad: A Painful Conversation

Hurtful Words and Racial Slurs: A Bitter Breakup

Biodad’s Voluntary Termination of Rights: A Final Decision

A New Father Figure: My Daughter’s Adoption

⏰ Fast Forward to the Present: My Daughter at 14

Biodad’s Plea: “He Deserves to Have Biological Children”

Trusted Friends Keep Quiet: No Contact Information Shared

WIBTA for Keeping Biodad Out of Our Lives?

Biodad Wants Back In After Giving Up Rights – Should I Let Him?
Well, well, well… looks like the biodad who abandoned his child and said some pretty nasty things is now regretting his decision! After voluntarily terminating his rights and never paying a dime in child support, he’s suddenly had a change of heart. Why, you ask? Because he got into an accident and found out he can’t have any more biological kids! Now he’s blowing up my friends’ phones, trying to get in touch with my daughter, claiming he “deserves” to have biological children. The audacity! But here’s the real question: should I let him back into our lives after all this drama? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy situation!
NTA. Kid isn’t a backup plan. Consider daughter’s feelings

Father disowned ‘half-breed’ baby, now wants her back. Commenter says NTA.

Daughter has a loving family, bio dad’s drama is unnecessary

Daughter is not a biological backup, she’s a person.

Consolation ‘half-breed’ kid not needed for infertile racist dad

Be cautious about letting him back in your and your child’s life

Support her choices like your parents did for you

Daughter’s well-being first. ‘Deserving’ biological children is ridiculous. NTA.

NTA calls out infertile dad’s hypocrisy in wanting daughter back.

Daughter’s choice matters. Bio dad has no rights. Let him rot.

Infertile dad wants mixed-race ‘half-breed’ baby back. NTA shuts him down.
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Abandoned child, infertile dad wants her back? Not cool.

Let your daughter decide, but inform her about biodad’s actions.

Terminating rights based on race is unacceptable. NTA for protecting daughter.

NTA but should you reconnect with your daughter?

Selfish dad wants daughter back after disowning her. NTA’s response

Father disowned ‘half-breed’ baby, wants her back now. Wait until 18.

Biodad wants daughter back years after disowning her. NTA stands firm.

Daughter as a consolation prize? Nope. NTA shuts down dad.

Validating NTA’s decision to not meet her estranged father

NTA biodad wants daughter for biolegacy, but can’t erase past

Father demands daughter back after disowning her. Not cool

Father disowned ‘half-breed’ baby, now wants her back. NTA calls him out.
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NTA but open to hearing estranged father out

Father disowned ‘half-breed’ baby, now wants her back? NTA.

A mother’s powerful response to a dad’s selfish request

Father disowned ‘half-breed’ baby; now wants her back. NTA’s response

Father wants ‘half-breed’ daughter back after 15 years without support.

Daughter’s choice: NTA suggests letting her decide on biodad contact

Daughter’s opinion matters, even if father changed for the better

Biodad disowned ‘half-breed’ baby but wants her back now?

Child’s voice matters, betrayal may hurt her in future

Passionate defense of NTA with curse words.

Should the daughter have a say in meeting her bio dad?

Daughter’s opinion matters, NTA should discuss with her

Father disowns mixed-race baby, now wants her back as backup . Commenter deems ‘NOPE! Your daughter isn’t a backup.’ #NTA

Father wants daughter back, but 14-15 yo’s choice matters too

NTA. Dad gave up rights before, can’t just come back now

Father wants ‘half-breed’ daughter back after infertility, NTA stands firm.

Wait until she’s 18, let her mature and decide

Father’s regret seems self-centered, wait for daughter’s decision. NTA

Let her choose! NTA but ask your daughter’s opinion.

Terminating rights doesn’t mean you can just take them back

Navigating the desire to know an absentee father helping vs controlling

Standing up for oneself is always the right decision

Devil’s advocate suggests considering the possibility that his parents influenced him.
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Demanding back child support before reconciling

Let your daughter choose, she’s old enough for independence

Daughter’s opinion matters, but be cautious of father’s intentions

14-year-old daughter should decide whether to meet bio dad

Let your daughter decide if she wants her entitled a**hole dad back

Infertile father wants disowned daughter back as a last resort. NTA says comment.
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Daughter can decide, but keep her safe until adult

NTA, but consider talking to mutual friends about his growth

Dad wants ‘half-breed’ baby back after disowning her. What now?

Daughter’s choice to reconnect with insensitive father – NTA

Consider giving him a chance at redemption, but keep custody.

Daughter’s opinion matters in dad’s attempt to regain custody

Infertile dad disowned child, has no right to see her

Honesty is key. Daughter deserves to know, but proceed cautiously.

NTA didn’t deny infertile father’s rights, he voluntarily terminated them.

Birth dad wants ‘half-breed’ baby back, but daughter’s choice matters ❤️

NTA. Father can’t just pull out his backup child after disowning her. Daughter’s choice if she wants to know him, with therapy.

Honesty is key, even if it’s a difficult truth

Prioritize daughter’s wishes, or f*** that deadbeat a-hole. ♀️
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NTA dad wants disowned ‘half-breed’ baby back but OP looking out for daughter’s best interests

Let the child decide, despite the father’s past actions.

Bio dad has no legal grounds for contact. Daughter should decide.

Father disowned daughter, now wants her back: commenters say NTA

Decide with your daughter. Make sure she knows everything

Bio dad wants daughter back after disowning her. NTA shut down.

Daughter’s well-being comes first, NTA for cutting him off

Don’t let a racist and absentee father disrupt your family

Bio-dad wants her back? NTA, set the boundaries.

Father disowned ‘half-breed’ baby, wants her back now. Commenter advises to let daughter meet him if she wants to.

Navigating parental rights and emotions when sperm donor wants daughter back

Let the daughter decide. NTA but hear her out
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NTA, father disowned half-breed baby, now wants her back

NTA commenter slams dad for disowning and insulting daughter.

Mother advises daughter on racist father’s potential contact in future
