Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of friendship, roomie drama, and a set of rules that apparently ruined it all! I’m here to spill the tea on my bestie’s sudden housing crisis and my attempt to be the ultimate savior. But did my well-intentioned house rules cross the line? Grab your popcorn and let’s dive into this messy situation together!
Bestie Gets Booted – Time for a Roomie Rescue!

♀️ To the Rescue! Extra Room to the Rescue ♀️

️ Mi Casa es Su Casa – Bring Your Stuff!

The Infamous Rules – Dun Dun Dun

Rule #1: Clean Up Your Mess, Buttercup

Rule #2: Heads Up on Guests, Please! ♂️

Rule #3: Shhh… Keep it Down After 11

Rule #4: Flip the Switch, Save Some Cash

Bestie’s Reaction: Wow, Just Wow

Texting for Clarity – Is Everything Okay?

♀️ Bestie Bails – “You’re Not My Mom!”

Apology Attempt – Sorry Not Sorry? ♀️

Ignored and Bitched Out – Ouch!

♀️ Bestie Bounces to Another Friend’s Place

Friendship Over? Say It Ain’t So!

♀️ Am I the A-hole for Setting House Rules?
So, here’s the deal: I thought I was being a total hero by offering my bestie a place to stay after she got kicked out. ♀️ I even told her she could bring all her stuff and didn’t have to pay rent! But apparently, my simple house rules (you know, like cleaning up after yourself and not being super loud at night) were just too much for her to handle. Now, she’s ditched me for another friend and says I’ve ruined our friendship. I’m left wondering, are my rules really that unreasonable? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this drama-filled debacle!
Dream place to live but friend still flips out? NTA!

Polite reminder to live with self-awareness and common courtesy. ✅

Fair house rules, entitled friend, and dodged a bullet
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Offering free rent and getting criticized for basic house rules? NTA ♀️

Dodging bullets , NTA enforces simple house rules.
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NTA for having simple house rules. Maybe the friend needs boundaries?
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Dodged a bullet with entitled friend, use her words against her

Bullet dodged with a choosing beggar ‘friend’. NTA

Fair landlord dodges entitled diva tenant

Enjoy the karma when the next roommate complains

NTA but friend may have felt insulted by basic rules

Entitled friend refuses to follow simple rules for free rent

Set the rules when paying rent-free. NTA

Polite house rules rejected by ungrateful guest, NTA wins

Establishing house rules while offering shelter, NTA according to commenter.

NTA – Basic politeness and good manners for a freeloader

NTA but friend upset by assumed lack of common decency

NTA wins! Friend loses over simple house rules.

Dodged a bullet! NTA comment on roommate drama

Basic house rules plus free rent = NTA

Living with friends? Basic manners and routines matter! NTA

Friend living rent-free flips out over simple house rules

Enthusiastic commenter wants to move in and decorate patio.
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Living with this person would be a nightmare. ♀️ You’re NTA.

Basic etiquette rules should be followed when living with someone. NTA.

Previous homeowner was an a**hole too ♀️

Friend refuses simple house rules while living rent-free. NTA.

Did the friend overreact or was the landlord really an a**hole?

Fair house rules cause friend to flip out ♀️

Friend’s reaction to simple house rules was unwarranted. NTA.

Savage! NTA points out tenant’s entitlement and suggests contacting the old landlord.

Setting basic expectations isn’t controlling, it’s respecting boundaries.
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NTA, standard rules. Inform other friend about the rules.
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Cutting ties with entitled friend who can’t follow simple rules

Setting boundaries is important, you’re not being controlling!
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Entitled friend upset over basic rules while living rent-free

Setting basic rules for a rent-free apartment? NTA, obviously

Dodged a bullet with entitled friend living rent-free. Agree?

Entitled friend refuses to follow rules while living rent-free. Dodged a bullet
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Setting boundaries is important for self-respect. Cut out toxic friends.

Dodged a bullet with an immature friend ♀️

Living with a friend can be great, and these rules are reasonable!

Common sense house rules, but entitled friend calls it ‘controlling’

Grateful tenant receives free housing, still complains. NTA
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Respectful friend offers to house roommate, gets disrespected.

Entitled roommate called out, NTA handles the situation with grace

Offered rent-free place, friend refused over common sense rules ♀️

Dodged a bullet with entitled friend who can’t follow rules

Fair house rules for friend living rent-free. NTA

Living rent-free doesn’t mean you’re above house rules

Living rent-free comes with responsibilities, NTA sets boundaries

Agreeing that the rules are reasonable and calling out entitlement.

Ungrateful roommate gets what she deserves according to commenter.

Fair house rules for a friend living rent-free. NTA

Previous bad behavior, dodged a bullet, NTA

Basic rules and fair expectations for living rent-free. NTA.

NTA wants basic respect in their house, roommate disagrees. ♂️

Previous eviction may explain bad attitude towards house rules.

Living rent-free but can’t follow simple tips? NTA wins!

Common sense prevails! NTA, lucky escape

Respectful house rules, entitled friend – NTA wins

Common sense rules and still NTA, entitlement is wild

NTA sets reasonable rules, friend flips out and starts a fight

Dodged a bullet! NTA for setting basic courtesy rules.
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Standard house rules, but friend flips out. NTA wins.

Dodged a bullet! Glad you didn’t become roommates.

Free rent and basic rules? Where do I sign up?

Friend disregards common courtesy and pays the price. Dodged bullet.

Basic courtesy as house rules? Dodged a bullet, NTA OP

Roommate drama ends with a bullet dodged.

Basic house rules cause friend to flip out NTA

Dodged a bullet! NTA and stick to your rules.

Friend flips out over simple house rules while living rent-free! NTA lays out expectations and gets backlash.

NTA, but beware of entitled friends. Set boundaries

NTA. Basic rules = common sense. Friend needs to act human.

Dodged a bullet with entitled roommate who can’t follow rules

NTA. The rules are basic decency, you dodged a bullet

Living rent-free doesn’t mean you have to put up with everything

Reasonable terms, but was old landlord really an a**hole?
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Dodged a bullet with entitled friend. Previous landlord suspect.

Setting house rules for a friend – NTA wins

Common decency > Friend’s entitlement. Good riddance!
