Picture this: You’ve finally started dating your long-time crush, and everything seems perfect, right? But wait, there’s a catch! Your new girlfriend has a history of struggling to keep a roof over her head. With no responsible family or friends to turn to, she’s in a tight spot. You, being the caring partner, step up and help her out financially. But when is enough, enough? How far would you go to help your significant other before you start feeling like you’re being taken advantage of? Let’s dive into this story and see how our hero handles the situation.
The Crush Turned Girlfriend
No Family, No Friends
The Rescue Mission
Compromised Immune System
The Uncle’s Interference
Job Troubles ♂️
New Job, New Wardrobe
Workplace Harassment
Leave of Absence
Parents’ Patience Runs Out ⏰
Temporary Living Situation
The Never-Ending Cycle of Helping Out
Our protagonist has gone above and beyond for his girlfriend, who he’s known and had a crush on for a long time. From helping her pay off overdue bills, to supporting her through job changes and health issues, he’s been there every step of the way. But now, his parents want her to move out, and she’s refusing to live with a roommate. She wants to buy a house with him, but he’s not quite ready for that step. As the end of the month approaches, she’s facing homelessness, and our hero is left wondering if he’s done enough or if he’s being taken for a ride. ♂️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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Doubtful of her story, uniform cost, makeup, and conveniently homeless situation
NTA, but is she worth going bankrupt over?
Warning signs ignored. Homelessness results. Was it worth it?
Entitled and exhausting – commenters agree NTA on eviction.
NTA paid 4k for girlfriend, time to let her go ⛵
Insensitive joke about homelessness falls flat.
User points out being conned and advises to end relationship.
Is she the problem? Commenter thinks so.
User warns OP of financial strain supporting ex-girlfriend.
NTA. Partner’s spending habits and lack of work ethic is concerning.
Setting boundaries is important for self-care
Beware of perpetual damsels in distress
Don’t be a doormat ! She’s using you. Run ♂️
User warns OP to see the truth and calls woman a leech.
Don’t be a doormat! You deserve better.
Moving in quickly and paying bills led to homelessness. NTA.
Spending $1000 on clothes and makeup? Cut the dead weight
Time to cut her loose. Don’t foot her bill anymore.
Choosing homelessness by inaction. NTA for not enabling.
Red flags galore! Cut ties and run fast
Tough love or heartless? Commenter advises OP to set boundaries.
Teach her to fish: NTA comment suggests helping girlfriend become independent
Is she unlucky or manipulating him? He needs to run
User warns man of being taken advantage of by partner.
Red flags everywhere! Run and don’t look back
NTA, she’s making her own choices and taking advantage of you.
Sage advice on leaving a toxic relationship to avoid trouble
Accountability issues and warning to not support her financially
Don’t let love blind your finances. Cut your losses.
Empathetic comment encourages OP to move on from toxic relationship.
Cutting off financial support could reveal her true motives.
Enabler or not? Commenter suggests homeless woman finds a roommate.
Don’t be a doormat. Cut her off before it’s worse.
NTA pays for girlfriend’s job wardrobe & makeup, defends her poor work ethic
Sage advice to escape a toxic living situation
User calls out man for being used and encourages boundaries.
NTA commenter highlights the guest’s lack of effort and stability.
Friend taking advantage of generosity, commenter advises responsibility and accountability.
NTA. Run away like your hair is on fire!
Red flags in the relationship, get out before it’s worse
Borderline personality disorder creates dependence on rescuers.
When generosity turns into dependency.
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A warning to those who want to help, don’t drown too.
Insensitive comment about homelessness with a touch of sarcasm
Don’t be an enabler, choosers can’t be beggars. NTA.
NTA, but beware of continuing toxic patterns and unwanted pregnancy.
User advises to stop paying for partner’s unnecessary expenses.
Letting go of a toxic relationship is always the right choice
Don’t let her manipulate you, it’s time to move on.
Self-reflection is key.
Doubts on OP’s partner’s intentions and financial habits
Skeptical NTA doubts her story, warns of potential mess
Beware of enabling behavior, it may lead to endless bailouts.
Cutting ties with a problematic friend: NTA
Are you being played? NTA gets real in the comments.
Cut this shit off and let her go. NTA
Don’t rush into co-ownership or co-signing, keep finances separate
NTA, she needs to get her stuff together before moving in
Surviving by being a victim. Find someone more mature.
User warns about potential user and advises to tread carefully f
User calls out OP for being used as a piggy bank
Harsh but true – cutting her off may be necessary
User warns against falling into trap of supporting ungrateful partner.
Doubts on the authenticity of her issues, NTA verdict.
Don’t be blinded by love- it’s not your responsibility.
Compassionate NTA warns about enabling and encourages self-evaluation
Dump her and run: NTA’s blunt advice for a problematic relationship.
NTA labeled a ‘choosy beggar’, criticized for entitlement.
Don’t enable her. Help her find solutions
Dump her! NTA.
Girlfriend taking advantage of him financially, dump her
