Ever had to deal with an ex who just doesn’t get it? ♀️ Well, this mom is dealing with her children’s bio dad who’s not only refusing to see his kids without his new girlfriend present, but also getting mad when her eldest son wants to call her new partner ‘dad’. As a loving mom, she just wants her children to have a relationship with their bio dad, but his actions are making it difficult. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster and see how it unfolds.
New Girlfriend Alert

Unfamiliar Environment

A Simple Offer

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Understanding the Difference

Happier Child

Angry Bio Dad

No Support

Ignoring and Threatening

Dad Drama: When Kids Choose Their ‘Real’ Dad
This mom’s ex, the children’s bio dad, got a new girlfriend and refused to see his kids without her present, despite his autistic son’s discomfort with unfamiliar people. The eldest child, feeling a strong bond with mom’s new partner, asked if he could call him ‘dad’. Mom made sure he understood the difference between bio dad and her partner, and the child became happier with his decision. When bio dad found out, he went ballistic, accusing her of being a bad mom and threatening legal action. Meanwhile, he’s still not providing for his kids or making an effort to see them. The mom just wants her children to have a relationship with their bio dad, but his actions are making things difficult. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Neutral third party advocate can help in custody battles

Stepdad wins son’s heart, NTA for supporting him

Bio dad is not supportive and doesn’t pay child support. NTA

Choosing absence means losing the title. NTA, move on.

Stepdad chosen over bio dad for autistic kid. NTA comment.

Bio dad threatens court but ignores his kids? NTA, document everything!

Son chooses stepdad over bio dad: empowering his decision

Stepdad chosen as dad over bio dad, NTA

Pro tips for fighting for custody, backed by receipts

Stepdad becomes real dad after bio dad fails as a parent

Stepdad steps up as a father figure, supported by bio dad

Stepdad wins son’s love over bio dad. NTA.

Bio dad neglects son, stepdad steps up. NTA, let’s go court!

Stepdad wins son’s heart by putting in the work

Bio dad neglects kids and threatens legal action. NTA.

Bio dad loses son’s respect due to his own actions

Stepdad’s affection overrules bio dad’s lack of attention. NTA

Choosing a stepdad over a bio dad: NTA. Keep evidence.

Single mom’s ex refuses child support. What a jerk

Father’s visitation rights jeopardized over girlfriend dispute

Heartwarming comment about great parenting in a tough situation

Stepmom earns ‘mom’ title while bio dad is barely a parent

Putting the needs of the child first

Stepdad earns title ‘Dad’ in child’s eyes , bio dad can’t complain

Stepmom isn’t Mom, title earned by being present. Son’s choice, NTA.

Putting children first and co-parenting peacefully.

Bio dad lost the privilege of being called ‘dad’.

Kids pick that name. If he wants it back, step up.

Stepdad wins over bio dad in heartbreaking custody battle.

Stepdad becomes ‘Dad’ and bio dad is absent. NTA wins.

Choosing a stepdad over a bio dad: NTA wins

Does the ex have a relationship with the son? INFO needed

Being a dad is more than just biology

Stepdad > Bio Dad: Child’s choice respected. NTA.
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Stepdad steps up, Bio dad steps out: Heartbreaking for son

Bio dad threatens court despite cutting contact. NTA advises documentation.

Legal action might be best to deal with deadbeat dad

Stepdad is more of a father figure, bio dad is just egoistic. NTA
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Stepdad bonds with son, bio dad upset son calls him Dad

Stepdad over bio dad? NTA speaks truth about child’s choice
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Stepdad beats bio dad in fatherhood

Child chooses stepdad over bio dad. NTA wins parenting.

Father’s threats may be a show for new girlfriend. NTA, good job!

Choosing what to call a stepparent can be confusing for kids

Bio dad ignored his kids and got mad when son called stepdad dad. NTA and K is a great dad!

Putting the child’s happiness first. NTA

Bio dad threatens court, but hasn’t paid child support

Stepdad chosen over bio dad. NTA, bio dad is lashing out

Heartbreaking situation where bio dad is the real loser.
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Choosing a step-parent over bio-parent: kid’s choice matters

Kids can have more than one dad. Bio dad’s loss.

Documenting interactions with bio dad for custody battle. NTA

Paralegal gives legal advice and tips for a threatening ex.

Stepdad wins son’s heart over bio dad. Heartwarming decision ❤

Stepdad chosen over bio dad in heartwarming decision
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Assertive comment defends mother’s rights, highlights father’s inadequacy.

Stepdad wins son’s heart: NTA bio dad, let go.

Let the kid decide, not the exes.

Single mom gets praised for prioritizing her children’s well-being ❤️

Bio dad’s loss, stepdad’s gain. NTA for prioritizing kids’ comfort

Choosing a stepdad over a bio dad? NTA, it’s heartbreaking

Advice on court order, child support, and sole custody. NTA.

Supportive comment urging parent to document interactions with ex-partner

Amidst the drama, a commenter focuses on the height difference

Letting kids choose step-parent’s name: NTA. Impressive height too!

Stepdad wins son’s love and court would agree with you

Choosing a stepdad over a bio dad: a common scenario

Parental control issues discussed in ESH comment section.

Co-parenting struggles and stepdad dilemmas. ESH in this situation.
