Hey there, Facebook fam! Today, we’ve got a juicy story about a husband who’s facing a major dilemma. His pregnant wife (who’s a surrogate for her sister) can’t join him on an all-expenses-paid retreat due to her pregnancy, and she wants him to stay home to take care of her. But the hubby thinks her sister and brother-in-law should step up to the plate, especially since it’s their baby. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of emotions, conflict, and family drama, shall we?
Rocky Relationship
Promotion Perks
✈️ Travel Troubles
Pregnancy Problems
Stay Home, Hubby
Trip Temptation
Family Feud
Money Matters
Brother-in-Law to the Rescue?
Uncomfortable Solution
No Bad Intentions
Update: End of the Road
Accepting Reality
Should He Stay or Should He Go?
Our protagonist is facing a tough decision: should he stay home to take care of his pregnant wife, or go on a well-deserved retreat with the kids? ️ His wife, who’s a surrogate for her sister, is unable to travel due to her pregnancy, and she wants her husband by her side. But our man thinks it’s only fair that the sister and brother-in-law step in and take care of his wife, since it’s their baby after all. ♂️ The family isn’t too thrilled about the idea, and tensions are rising. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation, and if our hero can find a solution that works for everyone!
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Surrogacy without spousal agreement? Bigger issues than vacation ♂️
Is the husband expected to be a full-time carer?
User expresses concern for family’s financial stability amidst drama
NTA for going on vacation after she said it’s none of your business
Surrogate decision causing marital conflict. Therapy needed for resolution.
Navigating conflicts in surrogacy decisions, with a guilt-tripping sister. NTA
Redditor advises going on trip despite wife’s pregnancy drama
Husband not at fault, but concerns about financial and childcare responsibilities.
Divorce-worthy surrogate decision, commenter deems husband NTA.
Wife prioritized sister’s needs over husband and family’s. ESH.
NTA. Comment advises taking legal action due to toxic family.
User suggests husband’s pregnant sister should stay with in-laws.
NTA for not wanting to be involved in surprise surrogate pregnancy.
NTA! Commenter questions divorce over husband’s pregnancy drama.
Tricky pregnancy situation: take the trip or skip it?
Wife’s pregnancy and high risk leads to tough decisions. NTA.
NTA: Husband complains about helping wife carry his own child.
Responsibility of surrogate’s care lies with employing couple, not OP.
NTA defends surrogacy, advises OP to monitor wife for pressure.
NTA, husband not at fault for enjoying vacation with kids
Supporters agree: NTA, enjoy the vacation and get a lawyer
Husband stands up against wife’s decision to be a surrogate.
NTA, husband should enjoy vacation, not coddle self-inflicted disability.
Heartless comment with no sympathy or solution
NTA commenter suggests leaving wife during pregnancy, sparks backlash
Spouse goes solo on dream vacation, wife becomes surrogate without consent. NTA.
Divorce after refusing to help with pregnancy? Yikes.
Supportive comment suggests wife’s recovery plan after possible complications.
A critical take on surrogacy and its impact on family
Wife made decision without agreement, NTA for going solo
Wife became surrogate without consent, now ruining dream vacation. NTA.
NTAH: Commenter questions distance between couple and suggests meeting halfway.
When in doubt, seek marriage counseling and let them figure it out ♀️
NTA. Using your wife’s body for their child is disgusting
NTA for refusing to look after SIL’s surrogate pregnancy
NTA husband, YTA commenter. ♂️
Excluded husband realizes this is the end of the road.
Defending husband’s dream vacation amidst wife’s pregnancy bed rest
Surrogate abandonment accusations spark NTB response
Supportive response to pregnancy drama with family vacation plans.
A concerned commenter raises valid financial and logistical questions about the surprise twin pregnancy.
Mind your own business and enjoy your vacation with kids
Debating responsibility in a marriage during pregnancy ✍️
NTA for wanting to go on dream vacation despite wife’s pregnancy
Marriage is about compromise and teamwork, not ‘none of your business’
NTA: Her kids, her problem. ♂️
Surrogacy against husband’s wishes: Wife should handle it
User suggests sister should have made sacrifices for kids
Enjoy your vacation, NTA for disagreeing with wife’s choice
Surrogate without consent, NTA, start divorce, take care kids
Sister-in-law refuses to care for pregnant wife.
Divorce may be the solution.
Husband’s dream vacation vs. wife’s pregnancy drama. NTA wins.
Wife acts entitled to surrogacy decision, husband not wrong. NTA
Family drama ensues as husband’s dream vacation turns into pregnancy chaos
Married commenter shares strong stance on husband’s vacation-turned-pregnancy debacle.
Surrogate wife expects too much: Divorce? ♂️
Relationship doomed? Lawyer up, have fun on vacation
Go have fun with your kids guilt-free!
NTA. BIL and sister accepted surrogacy offer, they should step up
Supportive comment encourages husband to go on dream vacation without kids.
Husband not at fault for job-related retreat during wife’s pregnancy
Strangers shouldn’t make life-changing decisions for you. Consider counseling
Divorce looming? Commenter advises taking kids on happy trip
Sarcastic solution to inconsiderate in-laws. ♂️
Take the kids on the trip, counseling needed for the relationship
Support for husband’s choice to not raise IL’s child.
Travel plans ruined by pregnancy drama: Who’s at fault?
Surrogacy without prior consent? NTA, but tricky situation
Unilateral decisions lead to unilateral consequences. Financial responsibility matters.
Marriage is a team and she made unilateral decisions. NTA
Concerns about the couple’s ability to afford children. NTA sentiment.
NTA. Wife made important decision without husband’s agreement, he’s justified.
Controversial take on wife’s surrogacy decision �dffc♀️
Agreement before surrogacy is crucial, take the trip! ️
Spouse’s solo decision: NTA or YTA? Users weigh in
Live your life, it’s not your responsibility
Surrogate’s unilateral decision may end relationship. NTA
Insensitive comment blames wife for pregnancy, suggests sending family away.
NTA defends wife’s decision to be surrogate, slams sister’s attitude
User believes divorce is justified if wife becomes surrogate without consent
Husband not wrong for prioritizing family’s comfort over sister-in-law’s request.
Support for husband’s stance on unwanted pregnancy responsibility.
Wife becomes surrogate without husband’s consent, NTA considers divorce ♂️
A commenter suggests the husband should go on the trip and questions the extent of the wife’s bed rest.
