They FORGOT Her Birthday, So She’s DONE Being The Family Party Planner

Meet the Party Planner Extraordinaire! For the past 15 years, she’s been the go-to gal for all the family’s celebrations. But here’s the twist: not once has anyone returned the favor for her birthday! This year, things took a turn for the worse when her own mother asked her to cook and plan her brother’s party, thinking he was depressed (spoiler alert: he’s not, he just doesn’t want to quit smoking weed for a job ). When her birthday rolled around, crickets. No happy birthday, just her mom hanging out with her brother and SIL. Her hubby came through with a gift, but she’s left wondering: is it too much to ask for one day to be about her?

The Party Planner Extraordinaire

15 Years of Forgotten Birthdays

Cooking Up a Storm for Bro’s Party

Bro’s Blunt Confession

My Forgotten Birthday Blues

Hubby to the Rescue

Not Trying to Be Greedy, Just Want Some Love ❤️

Bro Demands a Party for SIL

Bro’s Temper Tantrum

Accused of Ruining SIL’s Special Day

Tired of Trying, Ready to Give Up

Depressed by Family’s Neglect

Labeled as the Selfish B*tch for Standing Up for Myself ‍♀️

AITA for Stopping the Special Day Train?

The Party Planner’s Rebellion: No More Special Days for Ungrateful Fam!

The party planner extraordinaire has had enough! Her brother demanded she throw a party for his wife’s birthday, but she put her foot down and said no. ‍♀️ Cue the temper tantrum from bro, accusing her of being mean and ruining SIL’s special day out of spite. But it’s more than that – she’s tired of being forgotten until they need something, and then being labeled as a selfish b*tch when she stands up for herself. It’s seriously depressing her. So, is she the a-hole for putting an end to the special day train? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this family drama!

Taking a stand! No more party planning for them.

Don’t let entitled family members ruin your self-care routine! ‍♀️

Lazy brother gets called out for not appreciating party planner

NTA stands strong against family’s lack of appreciation

Standing up to family and setting boundaries. #NTA

Setting boundaries is normal and healthy. You go, NTA!

Family taking her for granted, brother should handle wife’s party

Being an unpaid party organizer? NTA. Time to step back

No more parties for them! You deserve better

Stop being taken for granted, speak up, and stay consistent!

Set boundaries and stand up for yourself!

Setting boundaries with family, NTA takes no BS

Birthdays forgotten, now just plan for household. NTA

Resign as party planner officially and focus on your family

Birthdays are special, expecting a simple wish isn’t selfish

Family neglects birthday, commenter warns it will get worse.

Working mom and farmer stands up to entitled family

No appreciation for party planning, SIL should find new friends

Encouraging comment suggests therapy to deal with family toxicity.

Block their numbers and skip the party

Don’t let them walk all over you. NO MORE! NTA

Standing up for yourself is not being an a**hole

Brother’s entitlement appalling, tell him to get lost

Take charge of your own celebration!

Don’t let the mental load drain you. You’ve done enough.

Setting boundaries is important. Don’t let anyone abuse your kindness.

Empathizing with OP’s decision to stop planning family parties

Family forgets her birthday but expects her to plan events. NTA

Don’t be the family party planner if it’s not appreciated

Don’t let them manipulate you! You’re not a doormat

Stop planning family events after 15 years of entitlement. NTA

Hosting without help? NTA for quitting family parties

Don’t be a doormat, stand up for yourself! NTA

Don’t let them walk all over you. You deserve better

No more parties! ‍♀️ This NTA had enough of the work.

Celebrate yourself and forget toxic family. NTA

Putting effort into others’ birthdays, got cheap alcohol for hers.

Stop wasting time and energy on unappreciative family members

Stand up for yourself and stop being a doormat.

Set boundaries with entitled family, treat yourself

Retirement party for the party planner

Setting boundaries is tough, but NTA for doing it

Fair is fair. NTA for not planning family parties anymore

Setting healthy boundaries is important for self-care

Stand up for yourself, but expect some pushback from family

Plan your own flippin’ birthdays, rock on with your self! NTA.

Spouse outsourcing celebrations to sibling? Not cool.

Planning parties is a*hole work. NTA for stepping down.

Setting boundaries is crucial for self-care. You’re NTA

Forgetting my birthday? No cash for your presents either!

Fair decision to stop planning events after being forgotten. NTA

Family forgot her birthday, commenter suggests going no contact.

Take that! NTA suggests payback for forgetful family members

Family forgets her birthday, NTA for refusing to plan parties.

15 years of party planning without appreciation? NTA

It’s about time you put yourself first! You go, NTA!

Breaking the cycle of family entitlement

Set boundaries and let them plan their own parties. #NTA

Take back control and celebrate yourself!

Don’t let them take advantage of your kindness! NTA

Brother should plan a party for his own wife! NTA

Birthdays are important, and it hurts to be forgotten. #NTA

Stand up for yourself, it’s hard but worth it!

NTA. Family taking you for granted? Stand up for yourself!

Family should appreciate you. It’s time to set boundaries!

Challenging the status quo can be uncomfortable but necessary

A heartwarming NTA comment about a thoughtful spouse ❤️

Take a break, don’t let them take you for granted

NTA, stand up for yourself and cut toxic ties

No obligation to be the family planner. NTA