Man Refuses to Switch Seats on Plane, Girlfriend Gets Upset

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A couple returning from a trip to Ohio had a disagreement on a plane, resulting in tears and hurt feelings. The girlfriend was unhappy with various things throughout the trip and the man just wanted a break. When a woman offered to switch seats so the couple could sit together, the man refused and upset his girlfriend even more. Was he wrong for not switching seats or was he justified in wanting some space after a tiring trip? Find out what people on Am I the Asshole subreddit had to say.

Couple's flight to Ohio becomes a battle for the armrest

hdudhejdj | hdudhejdj

Girlfriend starts fight on plane over minor incident 😒

hdudhejdj | hdudhejdj

Coffee shop compromise leads to girlfriend's airplane outburst ☕

hdudhejdj | hdudhejdj

Couple fights over plane seats, girlfriend gets upset 😠

hdudhejdj | hdudhejdj

Man refuses to switch seats on plane, causing girlfriend's frustration 😒

hdudhejdj | hdudhejdj

Man refuses to switch seats, girlfriend upset. AITA?

hdudhejdj | hdudhejdj

Man refuses to switch seats on plane, girlfriend throws tantrum 🙄

A couple returns from a trip, and the girlfriend complains about everything from weak coffee to airplane seating. When the girlfriend offers to switch seats with a female passenger, the boyfriend declines, resulting in a crying fit. Read on for the reactions and comments on this airport drama.

Is this relationship doomed? Commenters speculate. 🤔

Solaris_0706 | Solaris_0706

Commenter calls out OP on mistreating girlfriend, gets humorous replies.

Ok_Conflict_2525 | Ok_Conflict_2525

Commenter questions relationship, receives sarcastic and critical replies 👀

Wishiwashome | Wishiwashome

Lack of empathy leads to judgmental behavior. YTA 😒

plfntoo | plfntoo

Man refuses to switch seats on plane, girlfriend gets upset. Commenter calls out OP for lack of empathy, YTA.

ChildhoodMother7457 | ChildhoodMother7457

Commenter calls out OP's behavior, suggests girlfriend leave him. 💔

Legal-Needle81 | Legal-Needle81

Commenter calls out OP for being immature and dismissive of girlfriend's feelings.

claireclairey | claireclairey

Commenter calls out selfish behavior, receives hilarious agreement.

youshallcallmebetty | youshallcallmebetty

Commenter questions how someone can accidentally push their girlfriend off bed

FormalType5124 | FormalType5124

Commenter calls out OP's behavior, gets sassy reply 😂

NorthWitch13 | NorthWitch13

Flying to Ohio? YTA for refusing to switch seats 😂

Acrobatic-Panda-1119 | Acrobatic-Panda-1119

Passenger refuses seat change, girlfriend upset: YTA verdict.

Retail_Rat | Retail_Rat

OP should end the relationship, YTA for leading her on

Equivalent-Moment-60 | Equivalent-Moment-60

Don't be a jerk on a plane, or you'll get roasted 🍗

calystarose | calystarose

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole in bed-sharing mishap 😴 YTA

allsheneedsisaburner | allsheneedsisaburner

Commenter urges girlfriend to run, calling OP a pig. 😬

Professional_Lime936 | Professional_Lime936

Polite refusal may have made you NTA instead of YTA 😕

BaltimoreBadger23 | BaltimoreBadger23

Harsh judgement for a seat refusal. 💺

Technocorporatist | Technocorporatist

Coffee preferences may be the key to a lasting relationship ☕

Proper_Assistant8880 | Proper_Assistant8880

Refusing seat swap: NTA, but treating girlfriend poorly: YTA 🙅🏻

cherrygumdropss | cherrygumdropss

Man refuses to switch seats on plane, girlfriend upset. Commenters call him out for being a rude and inconsiderate partner 😒

christina0001 | christina0001

Communication is key in any relationship. 🗣️

xc19sn14 | xc19sn14

Comment section argues over gender roles and who's the real AH.

RudytheSquirrel | RudytheSquirrel

Not enough info to determine who's the a**hole 🤔

gathermewool | gathermewool

Commenter calls out lack of emotional awareness. 😒

Material-Ad5908 | Material-Ad5908

Passenger refuses seat change, labeled YTA by commenter 👎

Acceptable-Finding62 | Acceptable-Finding62

Selfish man pushes girlfriend off bed, refuses to switch seats on plane

RedSAuthor | RedSAuthor

Commenter calls out terrible airline seat-switching boyfriend. 💔

Moon-Queen95 | Moon-Queen95

OP gets called out for seeking sympathy on plane incident 💺

fickit1time | fickit1time

Discover Ohio's hidden vacation gems. 🌞🌊

Dependent-Row2974 | Dependent-Row2974

Relationship advice: Communication is key, even on a plane ✈️

QueenPotatoTomato | QueenPotatoTomato

Accidentally pushing girlfriend off bed = YTA. Rest adds more assholery.

PrairieGrrl5263 | PrairieGrrl5263

Commenter gives harsh judgement on seat dispute, no sympathy shown 😬

HorrorAvatar | HorrorAvatar

Commenter calls out OP for mistreating girlfriend on plane ✈️

thistreestands | thistreestands

Man refuses to switch seats on plane, girlfriend gets upset.

cmelissa27 | cmelissa27

Commenter accuses OP of unfairly blaming girlfriend for finals failure 🤨

little_buttercup | little_buttercup

Passenger's selfish act leads to girlfriend's heartbreak. YTA 😒💔

happybanana134 | happybanana134

Pushing your girlfriend off the bed? YTA for sure.

AniRoths | AniRoths

Stressful travel situations can put a strain on relationships. 😔

Mist2393 | Mist2393

Refusing to switch seats causes girlfriend embarrassment. YTA 😒

ronearc | ronearc

When in doubt, split the guilt and move on 🤷‍♀️

CompetitiveCandle225 | CompetitiveCandle225

Supporting a reasonable response to partner's bad mood. NTA 🙌

Agitated_Cheek4890 | Agitated_Cheek4890

😬 When a comment shuts down the conversation.

saclayson | saclayson

Compromise and apologize in relationships to make them work. YTA 👎

NonnaOrbiz | NonnaOrbiz

Is this relationship headed for turbulence? 🤔

Smilecausecheese | Smilecausecheese