When a woman’s husband can’t seem to stop debating her sister and brother-in-law, she decides enough is enough and bans him from visiting them again. But is she being unreasonable?
Read on to find out the full story and decide for yourself whether she’s the a**hole or not.
Nervous sister bans husband from visiting sister’s due to debates

When opinions collide: husband banned for “debating” with sister-in-law

Husband thinks it’s funny to provoke wife while “debating”.

Husband banned from sister’s house for debating touchy subjects

Husband’s ‘joke’ ruins sister’s night – family drama unfolds

Husband gets banned for sexist comment during family gathering

Wife bans husband from sister’s after heated debate gone wrong

Husband banned from sister for debating. Is wife unreasonable?

When a simple family visit goes awry ♀️
In this situation , a wife bans her husband from visiting her sister again after he provoked her into an argument during their first meeting with their newborn niece. The husband has a habit of challenging his sister-in-law on their differing views and doesn’t take her request to stop seriously. The sister-in-law, who is finishing her graduate degree in social sciences, has had enough of his behavior and asks him to either quit or leave because she was done entertaining his nonsense.
The wife is caught in the middle and is wondering if she’s being unreasonable for not allowing her husband to visit her sister again. Read on to find out what people on Reddit have to say about this family feud.
Engaging thread on a woman’s husband and his exhausting debating habits. NTA.

NTA. Husband’s need to debate and control is childish and toxic.

Marriage to an insufferable human. ♀️

NTA. The husband sounds insufferable and ignorant. Kudos to sister.

Commenter defends kicking out blatantly misogynist brother-in-law. NTA

Commenter sympathizes with OP, calls husband exhausting

Commenter expresses concern for kids’ exposure to dad’s misogynistic views.

Husband banned for ‘debating’ with sister, but YTA for subjecting her to him

Encouraging NTA comment sparks humorous replies about Toms online.

Commenters call out OP for allowing husband’s misogyny and potentially other hateful views.

A heated debate in the comments about a husband’s behavior

Political differences causing marital issues?

Commenter calls out OP for marrying a sexist a**hole

Spousal sexism debated, with questionable values.

Avoiding toxic family members is necessary for self-care ♀️

Doctor wife supports husband as a stay-at-home-dad, but AH husband doesn’t

Commenter calls out OP’s spouse for unacceptable behavior.

NTA! Don’t let your husband pass on his misogyny.

Don’t let debates ruin your family visits

Commenter supports OP, calls husband a ‘huge a**hole’

Political differences causing marital dispute.

Commenters call out sexism and bad parenting in husband’s behavior.

Protecting your sister from a narcissist spouse is NTA
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/272b522c-b411-4e41-9c2d-ae0dbb22a3f6.png)
Commenter suggests paying sister for her time in family debates

Support for OP and criticism of husband’s behavior.

Playful solution to husband’s childish behavior

Commenter calls out husband’s behavior, sparks agreement in replies

Dealing with boorish behavior – NTA

Spouse banned for siding with sister: commenter supports OP’s decision

Commenter calls out OP for defending her potentially abusive husband
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/bbcf7fd1-fa23-496e-aeb4-dab2de52d1fa.png)
Spouse’s manipulative behavior exposed in comment section

User calls out both parties for problematic behavior in family dispute.

Standing up against sexism, but is she also at fault?

Commenter calls out sexist behavior, prompts question about marriage.

Commenter calls out OP for bringing toxic husband to family.

Supportive comment calling out rude behavior of husband.

Supportive commenter empathizes with poster’s husband troubles ❤️

Commenter calls out unacceptable behavior, urges improvement.

Agree, husband’s behavior was unacceptable. #NTA

Commenter questions why someone would marry their spouse.

Commenter calls out husband’s toxic behavior towards sister-in-law.

Commenters joke about husband’s conservative tendencies with emojis

Commenter defends husband’s critique of new parents, not the a-hole.

Husband banned from sister’s house for instigating arguments

Calling out sexism in marriage, sister feud escalates

Setting boundaries in relationships: work vs personal life debate ⚖️

Supporting sister’s progress, but husband’s AH behavior needs addressing

Commenter compares sister-in-law to Ben Shapiro in witty response

Political differences causing family feud? NTA stands firm.

Husband provokes sister-in-law and gets called out for sexist behavior ♂️

Leave the obnoxious husband at home and enjoy family time
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/c5c5a514-c660-4f8b-abc1-cd64e61a2072.png)
Commenter expresses disgust towards husband’s behavior and relationship dynamic.

Commenter calls out husband’s right-leaning views and OP’s inaction.
