Bride-to-be Refuses Dad’s Request to Bring Multiple Girlfriends to Wedding

When a bride-to-be’s dad requests to bring his 3 girlfriends to her wedding, she stands her ground and refuses. But with a family history of normalized polyamory and tensions still high after her parent’s divorce, is she being discriminatory or just setting boundaries? Read on to find out how this family drama plays out.

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Bride-to-be stands her ground against dad’s questionable wedding request.

Bride-to-be’s dad wants to bring multiple girlfriends to wedding

A bride-to-be is in a dilemma after her father demands to bring all three of his girlfriends to her wedding, despite being offered a single plus one option. Her father’s side of the family has a normalized “multiple wife/gf” way of life, which the bride-to-be does not support. She had gone no contact with her father for several years after her mum filed for divorce and came out with the truth about her father’s lifestyle , shunned by her uncles as well. After redeveloping a relationship with him, the bride-to-be is clear that she has no interest in meeting his girlfriends. When she sent out wedding invitations, her father assumed he could bring all three of his girlfriends, his brothers, and their girlfriends. The bride-to-be calmly reminded him that he was only allowed to bring one guest, and she wasn’t going to pay for four extra women she had never met. Her father flipped and accused her of discriminating against his lifestyle, holding a grudge about his divorce from her mum. What should the bride-to-be do? Let’s see what people have to say in the comments .

Hiring security for the wedding? This comment section is wild.

Stand your ground! It’s your day, your rules. NTA

NTA. It’s your wedding, your rules. Don’t let anyone ruin it

Curious commenter asks if there’s cult involvement in polyamory debate.

Polyamory gone wrong: Commenters agree dad is the a**hole here.

Setting boundaries for the wedding guest list.

Dad’s plus 1 request is outrageous! NTA for refusing ‍♀️

Poly triad approves of +1 invite, healthy polyamorous relationships show respect.

Dad can’t compare his concubines to your half siblings. NTA

Polyamorous commenter supports NTA’s decision to rescind plus ones.

Setting boundaries for the big day

Bride-to-be standing up to controlling father’s request for multiple girlfriends. #NTA

NTA bride receives support after uninviting dad’s disrespectful girlfriends.

Commenter calls out hypocrisy in NTA post

Polyamorous family drama at a wedding – NTA takes a stand

Wedding invite policy causes family drama. No judgment here.

Uninviting disrespectful family members from wedding. NTA

Bride-to-be stands up against polygamy. NTA

Polyamory ≠ cheating. NTA for setting boundaries at wedding.

Setting boundaries with family: a bride-to-be’s story ‍♀️

Calling out misogyny and bigamy – NTA comment wins!

Setting boundaries with family can be tough Stay strong!

Poly relationships are valid, but not for wedding plus ones ❌

Consider uninviting dad to prevent wedding day drama.

It’s your day, invite who you want!

Polyam person explains wedding etiquette and criticizes family’s dynamics.

Polyamorous commenter supports bride-to-be’s decision; recommends security and recording

Respect your guests’ choices. NTA for denying extra plus ones.

Commenter sympathizes with bride-to-be, condemns father’s selfish behavior

Protect your big day! Hire security and uninvite dad.

Polyamory is not for everyone. NTA for wanting security.

Bride’s dad wants multiple guests, including mom’s abuser. YTA.

Setting boundaries with family isn’t easy but necessary. ‍♀️

Cutting off family ties? NTA stands up to dad’s request.

Toxic masculinity at its finest. NTA, cut ties.

Dad wanted to bring 3 girlfriends to wedding, NTA stands firm ‍♀️

Wedding etiquette: No plus ones without permission. NTA wins.

Polyamory without being an a**hole. NTA for setting boundaries.

Wedding drama: Bride-to-be stands up to dad’s girlfriend request

Polygamy is not the same as polyamory. NTA here

Not inviting dad’s multiple girlfriends to wedding is justified

Setting guest limits at weddings is understandable

Protect your big day from negative vibes of mom’s abuser. ✋

Polyamory misconceptions debunked in comment section

Dad pushing boundaries, but commenters agree: NTA for bride-to-be

Support for bride-to-be’s decision to exclude misogynists from wedding