A man seeks advice after his wife insists on giving their twin boys matching names. He had a twin sister and matching everything with her was annoying. His wife thinks it’s cute and his MIL agrees, but his sister supports him. Who’s the a**hole?
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Choosing a name for your child is a big responsibility, but what if you have to choose two names for twins? That’s the dilemma this couple is facing, but the problem is not just about finding two perfect names. The wife wants the names to match and the husband is not so sure. As someone who has a twin sister, he knows firsthand how annoying it can be to always match with someone. He believes that his kids should have their own identities and only match on things they both want. The wife thinks it’s cute and their MIL is pushing for it. Who’s right? The husband’s sister is on his side, but what do you think? Share your thoughts in the comments below and let’s help this couple decide on the perfect names for their twin boys.
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