Roommate’s Girlfriend Blames Me for Weight Gain, Am I the A**hole?

What happens when your dietary choices are called into question by someone who has no right to do so? In this AITA post , a woman’s roommate’s girlfriend accuses her of being anorexic and causing her to gain weight. Despite explaining her health choices and offering support, the situation escalates to tears and accusations of fat-shaming . Who is in the wrong here? Read on to find out.

Healthy 27F swears by soft foods, experts approve

Navigating roommate’s girlfriend’s weight insecurities, awkwardly avoiding kitchen encounters

Roommate’s girlfriend blames me for her weight gain and emotional eating.

Not the a**hole for not changing my diet for girlfriend ‍♂️

Are they fat-shaming me or do I need new roommates?

Are you the a**hole? Let’s find out!

Roommate’s girlfriend blames me for weight gain, am I the a-hole?

A roommate’s girlfriend has accused the poster of triggering her emotional eating and causing her to gain 20 pounds. The poster, who has a special diet due to health reasons, has refused to change their diet and is now being accused of fat shaming. The situation has caused tension in the household and the poster is questioning if they are in the wrong. Read on to see what others have to say about the situation.

NTA for not changing diet to accommodate roommate’s girlfriend’s triggers.

NTA. Roommate’s girlfriend’s creepy and obsessive behavior is not OP’s fault.

Your health is not responsible for Rita’s mental health.

NTA. Defend yourself against roommate’s manipulative girlfriend’s skinny shaming.

Roommate’s girlfriend is a creep and needs to GTFO

Roommate’s girlfriend is harassing OP about weight gain, NTA.

OP clears their conscience and confirms they’re not an a**hole ‍♂️

Roommate’s controlling girlfriend needs to grow up

Roommate’s girlfriend’s food judgement is hilariously compared to memes. NTA.

Blaming others for your own choices? NTA

Roommate’s girlfriend acts like a dog in the kitchen

Are AITA posts just for validation?

Redditor doubts authenticity of weight gain blame post

Agreeing with NTA and calling out the absurdity

Debating the validity of a common AITA trope

Empathetic comment reminds us to prioritize mental health ❤️

The drama is about to unfold…

Thin roommate called anorexic and blamed for girlfriend’s weight gain

Stand your ground! NTA, don’t let her bully you.

Support for ED recovery and self-management in diet triggers

Skinny shaming is a real thing, NTA for not tolerating it ‍♀️

Empathy or boundaries? NTA’s response to girlfriend’s weight gain.

Don’t take the blame for someone else’s actions ‍♂️

Questioning the authenticity of AITA posts, valid or not?

NTA! Discussion on body positivity and fat acceptance.

Smoothie-shamed! Commenter confused, but OP NTA

Stand up for yourself! You’re NTA for not catering to her.

Jealousy is an ugly look

Commenter doubts story, suggests everyone sucks here.

Boundary setting necessary with creepy territorial girlfriend

Supportive comment defends against blame for roommate’s girlfriend’s eating disorder.

Roommate’s girlfriend blames OP for weight gain, NTA and empathetic.

Living your life in your own home, NTA ‍♂️

Don’t blame yourself for her triggers. NTA ‍♂️

Agreement and validation, no a**hole here.

Don’t let a jealous girlfriend interfere with your healthy lifestyle

Girlfriend blames OP for weight gain, but OP is NTA ‍♂️

Don’t let her blame you for her lack of control ‍♀️ NTA

Commenter is not the a-hole, but why?

NTA for focusing on personal health and Rita’s comments.

Assertive comment shuts down roommate’s girlfriend’s body-shaming, NTA

NTA with medical condition. Roommate’s GF needs help, not scapegoat.

Roommate’s girlfriend blames OP for weight gain, NTA. Does she have her own place?

Focus on your goals and find a new place to live

Sending Rita home might be the best solution